It is said that a good man is ambitious. It seems that when people are born, they are doing what they are doing and going out to travel. This seems to be a responsibility and a mission. Therefore, people naturally give men a very atmospheric slogan-a man's world is home. Because of social reasons, cultural reasons or women's own physiological reasons, most women still focus on buying a house, and people take it for granted that women should take home as their home.
In life, most men make the world their home. Many of them want to get married without a family, but getting married is too troublesome, they don't want to be bound and want to be free. Men pay more attention to the success of their careers, so they must be more active in society. In order to succeed in their career, they must rack their brains to deal with all kinds of people and things and take various methods to gain benefits. Social expectations of men are often higher than those of women. In order to gain social recognition, men will spare no effort to make money and fight for power and profit. However, some women don't understand men's efforts, but instead ridicule men as mercenary money-making machines and flattering politicians. They are eager for variety and change with each passing day. I can't run around in the crowd. Being strange everywhere is the joy of the scenery. This feeling is beyond the understanding of my unchanging wife.
Women are different. Although most of them are engaged in social work, they have not let go of their responsibilities of caring for their husbands and educating their children. When you go to work, you should always think about what your children will eat at school and go home. We can often see women who secretly go out to buy food at work, and women who buy clothes for their children, husbands and themselves. When they have to work overtime and can't go home to cook and take care of their children, they will feel uneasy and call home every once in a while to ask if their children have eaten or done their homework. Their hearts are at home almost all the time.
Even some successful women can't forget their guilt when they talk about the success of rest: they take care of their children less, accompany their husbands less, and fail to fulfill their responsibilities as mothers and wives. It is precisely because women take home as their home and are good at making things "exquisite". The better the cake, the more exquisite the clothes, the more children they raise and the deeper their feelings. . .
Although the husband works hard outside all day and has many auras, in the eyes of his wife, no matter how many achievements and high social status this man has, he is a husband, not so great. To this end, wives often blame their husbands more and praise them less. In life, there are many such scenes: the husband's boasting and self-confidence in front of his wife often makes her silent.
In contrast, the value of a husband can be fully displayed in society. Men can laugh and laugh in front of friends, acquaintances and lovers, but this desire can only be suppressed when they get home, so most men don't want to go home, which also gives them a reason to prove that money will go bad. If this happens to you, at this moment, you will attract attention. From now on, you should learn to make your home a man's favorite place.
In marriage, home is the main place for couples to carry out activities and experience the happiness of marriage. Sometimes, the environment at home will directly affect the feelings between couples.
For a husband, home is his own shelter. When he is tired of working hard outside, home is not only a place for him to get rid of fatigue, but also a place for his children to be filial and his wife to be gentle. For a wife, it is one of her duties to dress up the home more warmly. Sometimes, this night's sleep is one of the criteria for evaluating a wife.
It can be said that a family often includes all the wives, because there are her own husbands and children at home. Generally speaking, nothing is more important to a woman than her husband and children.
In fact, Hangzhou Port has begun to care about itself and its wife. Whether it can always love its wife depends largely on how her wife takes care of the family. If a husband doesn't feel happy at home, it will often affect his feelings for his wife. Therefore, the athlete's foot horse family has become her husband's gentle hometown, which has also consolidated the feelings between her and her husband.
So, how can a wife turn her home into her husband's warmest harbor?
1 The wife should keep the house clean and tidy.
When a man comes home from a busy day outside, he can be released and freed in a clean environment, and people will be much more comfortable. However, a messy family often makes people uncomfortable and reflects the bad character of the hostess.
Although it is said that it is everyone's responsibility to clean up the housework in modern families, the gender characteristics and habits of China people determine that women should be the masters of housework. Women arrange people to do some housework, and men are lazy if they don't do it. However, a woman who doesn't do housework can reflect the inner quality of her wife from one side.
Whether men pay attention to neatness or not, they always like women who keep their homes tidy. In the eyes of men, if a woman can keep her house in order and keep her guests clean, she will often be an angel. Of course, it would be better to create a little emotion. If a woman doesn't keep her house in order, she is just a lazy person in a man's room, or she is vulgar. Therefore, we should keep her house in good order and clean. Women can not only occupy a high position in men's hearts, but also make people feel at home. If she lives in it, she will feel warm.
A wife should keep a happy and peaceful atmosphere at home.
The hostess often bears the main responsibility of creating a family atmosphere. The husband's career performance will be influenced by the family environment created by his wife. Any woman doesn't want a good husband's body and mind to be occupied by the work at home, and at the same time she wants to have the best performance at work. If a woman can create a happy and peaceful family atmosphere for a man, that man's work will be easier and the pressure will be less, because the family should be a refuge for a man's career. A person may compete with his opponent all day, and he will long for peace, harmony, comfort and love after work. . . . Maintaining a happy and peaceful atmosphere at home can eliminate men's anxiety at work. In this way, a man can recover his physical strength in time at home, protect his passion for work, stay happy emotionally, and make him full of enthusiasm for work every morning.
Therefore, it is the wife's duty to keep a happy and peaceful atmosphere at home.
How much his wife loves his job when he is at home, and there will always be some degree of tension and fatigue during his working time. If they can get rid of this intense fatigue after returning home, they will be relaxed and happy psychologically, physically and emotionally, so that they will have the enthusiasm to go to work the next day. It is a kind of recuperation for a man to stay in such a home, and it is also a feeling of being loved by his wife psychologically, and his feelings for his wife will also deepen.
As the housework is mainly done by the wife, housewives should remember that relaxation and comfort are the most important needs of men for home. It is true that most married women want to be good housewives, but sometimes men can't rest and relax.
There is a lady, in order to make herself more comfortable at home, she doesn't let her children bring friends home, because children may dirty the clean floor; She doesn't allow her husband to smoke at home because the curtains will smell of smoke; If a good husband finishes reading a book or newspaper, she will ask him to put it back. . . Children and husbands at home will violate the rules of the family if they move a little. In such a family, not to mention that the husband with high work pressure doesn't want to stay at home, even the children at home like to play outside. In the United States, housewives regulate family behavior because of cleanliness addiction, which psychology calls "the most serious mental oppression in the family" Therefore, women should not forget men's requirements for home comfort while undertaking housework duties.
Home is a couple's private space, a nest, a hiding place, and a man's spiritual home and harbor. Men's concept of home is the same as that sung in the song: "I want a home, a place that doesn't need too much (not too much splendor), a place that will be remembered when I am afraid (when I am injured)." . . . "
Home is more personalized because of men and more comfortable because of women. When a woman who loves her family meets a man with a design mind and life experience, this family award will precipitate a lot of life interest, and the married life will be extremely lively.