1, know right and wrong every day and correct it every day; If you don't know right and wrong, you will be content with the status quo for a day; Nothing can be changed in a day, except that there are no steps in a day. There are many smart and handsome people in the world. Those who don't improve their morality and broaden their careers just want to follow the word "follow the rules" and spend their lives in the pavilion. -"Four Disciplines"

2, living with good people, such as entering the room of Lan Zhi, has been fragrant for a long time; Being with the wicked is like entering the land of abalone, which stinks. A gentleman should be careful in making friends. -"Yan Jiaxun"

3. Everyone should be tolerant. No matter how poor or rich you are, be tolerant. This is a school of spring scenery, on which everything grows. The so-called "heaven and earth are all virtuous". If you are always anxious and meticulous, although you have done nothing wrong, you are bound to kill the autumn weather and everything will wither. -"Xunzi Language"

4. Treat yourself differently from others. You can't be too high on yourself, but you can't be too high on others. -"Yu Lanxuan Yu Xun"

5, introspection in the clear night, quite motivated. I dare not lose my heart, I don't want to be satisfied, I can be indifferent, I can tolerate laziness. In the past 90 years, I had a good time with everyone in A Clear conscience, but died laughing. -Wang's "The Little Words of Death"

6, don't be suspicious, don't listen to the language of alienation, don't be angry, don't take advantage of the public. The key is to seek truth from facts, and we must not see it. -Zhang Zaijun's Family Instruction of a Teacher in Simon

7. The family is cultivated. The body is also the body of ancestors, and the future and the world of future generations depend on it. So we must respect ourselves, forgive others, be afraid of others, be self-aware, be honest, and have rules for our family. -"Dow Family Guide"