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PUA class after 70 thousand
My love is mass-produced on the assembly line.
For 22-year-old Qin Song, love is more like doing a math problem. After brain calculation, step by step, you can get the desired results with zero mistakes.
This is Qin Song's "harvest" success after learning PUA. In 20 13, he took out $70,000 and signed up for a three-month PUA offline course. Three months later, Qin Song felt "reborn".
"PUA is to put the tricks of behavioral psychology in the relationship between men and women, so that you can understand each other's hearts through certain actions and know what to do next." Qin Song told reporters that the first class to join PUA was to recite thousands of chat replies.
In addition to chatting, PUA also emphasizes high-value display. Qin Song explained that in order to attract girls, he made a special trip to learn how to mix wine and dress: "In order to make himself stand out in the bar."
For Qin Song, the process of attracting girls has become a "convention". In order to master these "routines", he conducted experiments on more than 100 girls.
Now, for Qin Song, as long as the girl in front of her pulls her hair and raises her head, she can read the signal released by the other party, and then judge whether she can enter the next step.
After studying PUA, Qin Song, who was in her twenties, had an intimate relationship with nearly 14 girls. Dealing with countless opposite sex, Qin Song can be described as handy.
But what makes Qin Song satisfied is not winning this relationship itself. "What I enjoy is the improvement of skills after each experiment and the happiness that countless people like." In Qin Song's eyes, behind a relationship is no longer joy and expectation, but more like a tool for him to realize his so-called "self-worth" and even the path of intimate relationship.
After everything is logical, Qin Song's last step is to get rid of this relationship-either heat treatment and deliberately sticking to her until she is bored; Either treat it coldly and let her give up. In Qin Song's emotional experience, most relationships can only be calculated on a monthly basis.
In Qin Song's own words, like all PUA students, feelings seem to be mass-produced on the assembly line.
In fact, Qin Song was once an introverted boy. Not fond of talking, he still remembers his first vague feelings for a girl in the next class in elementary school, but that kind of heart never seems to return to his heart.
"In fact, when I studied PUA, I just wanted to know how to pursue the girl I like, but now I have no ability to like someone." Even after experiencing countless emotions, Qin Song lost himself in the emotional routine and became more numb and lonely.