Never leave your youth, this sentence is a classic sentence in the famous Dream of Red Mansions, written in a golden lock given to Baochai by a monk with a head. This sentence is very suitable for people to appreciate repeatedly. Thinking from different angles has different meanings.

Never leave your youth. 1 means that as long as you don't lose it, you can live a long life and be safe.

Source: Don't forget, the immortal Heng Chang is the word on Jia Baoyu's psychic Baoyu, which means that his jade is spiritual and can protect his master from diseases and disasters without leaving his body. Never leave, always stay young, is the word on Xue Baochai's golden lock, and it is also an auspicious word, but you can't throw it away, you should always wear it.

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The only stone left by Nu Wa in Geng Qingfeng is a boulder. After practicing channeling, she turned herself into a human form and played around. She was named the waitress of Shen Ying in Chixia Palace by the police fairy, and she forged a pre-alliance of wood and stone with crimson pearl grass on the Xiling River. Then she returned to Gengqingfeng and became a stone the size of a fan seen by a monk.

Because of the spell, a monk turned it into the illusion of psychic Baoyu that Zhen and Xue Baochai saw. His real body was reincarnated as Jia Baoyu, born with psychic Baoyu in his mouth. At the end of the robbery, Jia Baoyu and psychic Baoyu were unified in form and returned to Geng Qingfeng, becoming the boulder with the "stone story" written on it.

Nu Wa's remaining stones only turned into psychic Baoyu, not a waiter, and it was useless to become Jia Baoyu. Jia Baoyu is only the reincarnation of the waiter Shen Ying, and has nothing to do with the stone left by Nu Wa (psychic Baoyu).

After the robbery, Jia Baoyu and psychic Baoyu returned to their homes: one to Chixia Palace and the other to Gengqingfeng. There is only one stone left in Nu Wa's descent, and she should only be an accompanying reporter to record Jia Baoyu's life experience.

Do you mean Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu?

Today's proverbs may be fabricated by the Xue family. As for the gold lock, Baochai said before, "It was also a man who gave me two auspicious words, so I put them on the table and told him to carry them every day. Otherwise, it will be boring if it is heavy. It seems that the golden lock was made by myself, but the auspicious words were given by the monk. Later, it became "the golden lock was given by a monk, and you can only get married if you have jade in the future." Xiangling and Daiyu should understand the words of monks and Taoists. Xiangling's life has no luck and involves her parents. This is obvious to all and will be honored in the future.

Daiyu was not allowed to cry and avoided seeing relatives and friends of other surnames, which corresponded to the above-mentioned words of crimson pearl repaying kindness with tears. However, because the Lins did not follow his instructions, Bao Dai met each other in the future, and Daiyu died with tears, which also fulfilled the words of Taoist monks. Look at Baochai's golden wedding. Although it is auspicious, it has not come true for Baochai. Judging from Baochai's judgment and Baoyu's alienation and rejection of Baochai, the golden marriage did not bring Baochai happiness and was finally buried in the snow. What about Geely? The words of the monk and Taoist priest were fulfilled in Xiangling Daiyu. Why not at Baochai's?

I think we have to compare two sentences in The Golden Lock, "Never forget, never die, Heng Chang" and "Never leave, never die". At first glance, they are a pair, but the corresponding people and things are different. Baoyu didn't forget Daiyu, so he finally gave up the world of mortals and returned to the celestial world, which can be described as immortal, Heng Chang. Baochai deviated from Baoyu seriously in thought and spirit, which led Baoyu to abandon his son and become a monk. Without him, how can he live forever? It can be seen that the Taoist priest and the Taoist priest said that gold matching jade is not only a nominal combination, but also a spiritual fit, so that there will be a happy result. Unfortunately, Baochai and Xue family only understood the literal meaning and completely ignored the necessary conditions for happiness.

Every time I see the fifty-seventh time, I feel that Aunt Xue has ulterior motives in moving out of this monk.

If this monk is a real person, then he is the initiator of the marriage. It was he who gave Baochai the golden lock, which provided the material basis for the marriage of Jinyu. As an unmarried daughter, Baochai doesn't shy away from the heat poison she brought from the womb, and it is also the secret recipe of a cold fragrant pill he gave to ensure that Baochai can be used to treat diseases when the heat poison attacks. It can be seen from the whole article that his attitude towards Daiyu is completely different. He didn't give anything to Daiyu, nor did he prescribe medicine for Daiyu. You know, Daiyu is sicker than Baochai. However, he said that he wanted Sister Alin to become a monk, or that he would never see anyone except his parents again, and he could not cry. Obviously, these conditions are impossible for Daiyu. Does this indicate that the monk at this time has become body double of Cao Xueqin? Cao Xueqin wished Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu might as well disappear. As the saying goes, if life is just like first sight, why draw a fan in the autumn wind!

Then, if the monk with a head can incarnate "Cao Xueqin" to persuade Lin Daiyu or Xue Baochai, it is really fabricated by the Xue family to see "never leave".

Never abandon your youth. A Dream of Red Mansions will never abandon its youth. Why did the monk give Baochai these eight words?

It is said that Shen Ying, the waiter, is tired of staying in heaven. "Every heart is passionate, and I want to go down to earth to realize my dream." Of course, I want to be a hero in my prosperous hometown. At the right moment, the crimson pearl fairy who has been watered by him for a long time found the opportunity to repay her kindness, and first picked the position of the heroine and prepared to play a realistic play.

The hero and heroine have been decided, but in order to complicate the plot, there must be a number of supporting actors, walk-ons and soy sauce players, so "I hooked up many romantic friends and accompanied them to solve the case."

The immortals who came to the world are most afraid of the lust of the world of mortals, and they are all "romantic grievances." What should I do if I go to the mortal world that the jade emperor can't control, like an uneducated child?

The director and producer police fantasized about a way: providing them with a class teacher, restraining these children and guiding them back to heaven.

Baochai is a class teacher with a special mission.

It is too difficult to be a good class teacher, but this is a rich land. Without the constraints of school discipline and class rules, these children can easily follow them. Ordinary people, who can resist the temptation of wealth? So, the police sent a monk to give Baochai the recipe of cold fragrant pills, which made her indifferent to the wealth of the world.

Only in this way, if you don't teach, as a class teacher, you must be clear about your teaching objectives, so you gave her an eight-character mission through a monk: "Never leave." And told them to set gold, only those who meet jade can match it.

Is it these eight words that the monk wants to give Baochai, or "good marriage"? This is a misunderstanding of many readers.

The so-called jade does not cut the tool, otherwise who will implement the eight-character policy in the vast sea of people? These eight words are the methods of implementation, and those who have jade are the objects of implementation. This is the complete mission that the monks conveyed to Baochai.

It is very difficult to carry out this task. How can we be sure that people with jade will cooperate?

Therefore, Taoist priests also gave Baoyu eight words: "Don't forget your lost immortal Heng Chang". Don't forget, this is a reminder: don't forget who you are and where you come from. Heng Chang, the immortal, is one of the immortals. Enjoy the immortal and you will be prosperous forever.

As the head teacher who teaches the children, Baochai really did her duty.

She sheltered Xiangling, who came to her after being displaced, and brought her into the Grand View Garden to regain her childhood happiness.

She brought love and warmth to Xiangyun, who was excluded everywhere, and let her find her inner belonging;

She helped the poor but self-loving Star Show so that she wouldn't feel lonely in the busy world.

She suggested Tan Chun's way of managing the world, so that even if she married far away, she was not afraid of wildness.

She earnestly persuaded Daiyu, who regarded herself as an enemy, and finally became "Lanyi" and "Gold".

The only thing that caught her off guard was the stubborn Baoyu, who couldn't get away with it.

It was not until the Jia family was ruined that she understood the meaning of those eight words: to teach Baoyu for life.

Under what circumstances do we need to "never leave"? Of course, the other side is of little value. Baoyu's value is not because of his good skin, nor because he can write a few crooked poems, but because he has a background like Rongguofu. Once this background is lost, Baoyu is nothing. People who flatter him at ordinary times will leave him. Even relatives and friends will part ways. Who will take care of this useless boy?

As a class teacher, what Baochai should do at this time is to "never leave".

If you are not already indifferent to the prosperity of the world, starting from selfishness, even if you are a rich man and a concubine, it is better than marrying Baoyu. This is not marrying a man, but obviously adopting an older child.

No, it's her mission. She must continue to teach Baoyu so that he can finish his doom and return to heaven.

Baoyu, who fell from heaven to hell, realized Zen again at Baochai's suggestion, and also understood the eight ways of psychic Baoyu: "Don't forget, the Tao becomes immortal and the Tao prospers." The world of mortals is not the place for you, Baoyu. Take the road that should belong to you.

What is Baoyu's way? As a fairy, I moved my heart, but I still didn't practice enough. Then continue to practice.

Baoyu, who realized Zen again, gave up the cliff and became a monk with the encouragement of Baochai. Unlike others, he can't go straight to heaven. He needs to achieve a complete and natural promotion of merit through penance.

Baoyu committed suicide by breaking a cliff, similar to Zhen. Zhen Yinshi gave up after listening to the epiphany of "Good Song"; Baoyu gave up under the guidance of Baochai for many years.

The child is gone, can the class teacher go? No, she still has one task to complete: "eternal youth."

Judging from these four words, Baoyu never gave up until he left the child. With Baochai's knowledge and wisdom, we can certainly educate the children of the revival Jia family. "Youth lives forever", and the beautiful years begin in Baochai's hands and are passed down from generation to generation.

The so-called "good marriage" is not to match gold with jade, but to match "never forget, never forget, live a long life in Heng Chang" with "never leave".

Before he died, Cao Gong used Qin Zhong's imp to remind us: "Your old man is so thunderous that you can't see Baoyu." Ordinary people lose their nature when they see Baoyu, thinking only of wealth and splendor.

Don't look at jade and gold any more, it is used to hide people's eyes and ears, and only those with rich eyes are fooled. The value and connotation of "good marriage" are all in the words.

Ignorant people can only see jade, while those who know words and phrases will find hidden words from the light of jade.

Therefore, the words above the golden jade can only be derived from Baochai, who can only read and is not confused by worldly wealth.