There is no love and hate for no reason in the world, and naturally there will be no doubt for no reason. Maybe it's just that your boyfriend loves you very much, thinks about you all the time, and always wants to express his concern for you, such as seeing that you have ignored him for a long time and that you haven't come home too late, so he wants to know what you are busy with, whether you are tired or not, and whether you are safe.

His purpose is not necessarily to inspect his post, but he probably just wants to know how you are doing, but because he asks too often and his words are not euphemistic enough, you misunderstand him and feel that he doesn't trust you enough!

But I'm thinking, if you don't have a ghost in your heart, how can you refuse his concern? How can you misunderstand care as after-the-fact inspection and supervision? Think about it. Do you often go out to eat alone with the opposite sex? Are you too close to the opposite sex, so you will always feel guilty in the face of your boyfriend's kind concern?

If you don't have a ghost in your heart, you will love his concern and feel happy, but if you don't love him at all, you will find him annoying!

If you still want to keep in touch with him and get along well, you might as well tell him that you have received his concern, but sometimes you are really busy. I hope he can miss your busy time when looking for you, or you can take the initiative to contact him when you are finished.

If you don't love him, if you have other boys' ideas in your heart, it's better to cut the gordian knot, have fun and break up quickly, which is good for everyone. After your boyfriend became an ex-boyfriend, no one patrolled the post anymore!

Of course, there are more extreme situations. If you have a boyfriend like Li Jia in Don't Talk to Strangers, I can only say that your luck is really bad. He is a paranoid patient who suspects that his lover is wearing a cuckold husband all day. It's just sick.

Your boyfriend inspects his post all day, which shows that he deeply distrusts you. The foundation of love and marriage is trust. If two people don't even have the minimum trust, how can they resist the wind and rain together and let the ship of love sail to the other side of happiness? I'm afraid the most likely result is that the ship crashed on the way and fell apart!

This kind of love is better than nothing, at least now he has not reached the extreme degree of Anjia and madness! He may be just too insecure, maybe just not confident, but what about this psychological problem? If it can't be solved in time, the situation will only get worse! Such people are all potential dangers, so it's better to stay away as early as possible!

Don't think it's a pity that he doesn't trust you. This is actually a doubt and insult to your personality. You don't have to think how good he is when facing a person who won't even trust him. At least in his heart, he is far more important than you!

We don't want to find a partner who always puts himself first, but at least your partner can't even pay the minimum trust. We don't want to find someone who can love you more than ourselves forever, but at least your lover can't help but understand the minimum respect!

So, if it's not your problem, it's his problem. No matter what the reason, breaking up is the wisest choice!