I went to an activity, had a working lunch at noon, and I chatted with the people sitting next to me.

I said that I am the author of articles in WeChat official account. Nowadays, laymen are curious about the media.

Sure enough, she immediately started asking me questions about the media. When I told her, I was a full-time writer, with two full-time assistants and four part-time assistants and hundreds of thousands of readers. In 20 17, my communication power on the official account of wechat exceeded 98.99%.

She quickly asked me, "What's your major? Chinese or news? Paper media origin? "

I shook my head and said, "I am a full-time housewife. I gave birth to two children at an advanced age and stayed at home for six years. " Before becoming a housewife, I made fashion accessories in Paris, which had nothing to do with the media and words. "

I can't say that. I thought about it. In high school, I was the president of the school literature society.

However, there is no activity in our literature club, so I am naked, but these subtle details are needless to say.

She paused, smiled and said, "You really don't understand Mount Tai. So, you are the one who wrote hundreds of thousands of readers' Jianghu legends with a baby at home? "

I always boast that I am a talkative person, but now I am really not what I used to be.

I have never felt that I am a legend, but I really come from a housewife who looks after her baby at home, has a yellow face and a grassroots family, and has no background, relevant education, experience or connections. I have typed more than 4 million words in three years and become a self-media with hundreds of thousands of readers and voices every day.

So, what I want to express here is that the keyboard quality of Apple computer is really reliable.

She then asked, "Then how did you start? How do you think you are from the media? "

Oh, there is a wonderful little story. I have said it many times on different occasions in the past two years.

However, let's move the bench here. I don't mind saying it again.

Please rewind the time machine five years ago, 20 13 years 10 months, we just moved to Shanghai.

For Miss Sidi's birthday, I checked the "public comments" for a long time. Lu Zhonghan and I took her from Puxi to Pudong for an hour and a half and went to a theme park that is now closed. After I went there, I was not worthy of the name and was extremely disappointed.

After another hour and a half, we returned home angrily. Neither of us is happy. We found fault with each other and took a few bites. Mr. Lu slammed the door to vent his anger, leaving me leaning on the sofa panting.

Accidentally bumped into the computer keyboard on the coffee table, the screen unfolded, or the comment page in the morning. I saw a place that said, "Please write down your comments."

Sitting up in a pit like this is ready to write. I have to write a letter to find that I have to register first.

Register as soon as you register. A housewife with two babies independently practices the executive ability of covering up.

I registered a comment account three times, five times and twice. I was too lazy to think of a name, so I used my Weibo name: Lu Lu badminton said.

Today, I don't know how many people asked me, is your name really Lu Lu badminton? Why use your real name? Aren't you worried about exposure? Liu Huan's wife's name is also Lu Lu badminton, do you know?

Of course I know, but when Lulu and Liu Huan got married, I was born and called Lu Lu badminton for many years. what can I do?

When I registered in Weibo, I was a very pure housewife. I was a social activity, that is, a few people who knew everything near my home. Why should I pretend to be a senior?

If I had known that Lu Lu badminton said today that he could gather so many readers and spread so much, I would have racked my brains to think of a literature and art that is beautiful and explosive, and can laugh down the name of the whole country.

Make people think I'm beautiful, and then I hide behind the computer and secretly laugh.

But no one can foresee the future. My real name is Lu Lu badminton, a stay-at-home mother with several chloasmas and two children. I wrote down everything I said. My account name is Lu Lu badminton Said.

There are dozens of comments, which are in line with the fragmentation time of my baby. I wrote dozens of comments in succession and found that there is still a community.

I wrote 1000 words about food and sent it to the community.

A few days later, I logged into the comment account again and received a reminder that the article was refined and recommended to the home page. I ran to the front page twice and saw nothing.

I personally asked the administrator who recommended me, and his name was "Yamaraja".

He quickly replied to me: "There is a time limit for home page recommendation. Now, the position has changed. "

With this encouragement, I began to settle down in the community and write my posts wholeheartedly.

The administrator ID of the comment is shared by several employees. I don't know which Yamaraja recommended me to refine it.

For Yamaraja, this is just a trivial work detail, but for me, it has changed my life.

If you see Yamaraja, I sincerely hope you can contact me. I'm glad to meet you.

Of course, where people live, there are rivers and lakes.

Someone once wrote a special post to discuss me without naming me. The most popular reply is: a housewife with no social status like her must find some sense of identity, right? How much is the loss?

I saw this sentence myself, and it stung my heart to the extreme.

When it comes to stay-at-home wives, everyone thinks they are all like ZhangZetian, but in fact, there is only one Liu in China. For all the remaining women, it is simply: "Full-time is as deep as the sea, and Xiao Lang is annoying from now on."

In those years when I was a full-time housewife, I had to travel abroad with my family the next day. Mr Lu doesn't know which country to go to. Sidi goes to the kindergarten middle class and can't send her for a day. Teacher Lu can't find a school first, then find a class, call me18; At home, both Mr. Lu and the two children reach for food, drink and things. ...

If a stay-at-home mother is a profession, then the slogan of employment is: one is not afraid of hardship, the other is not afraid of death, standing tall and rock-solid.

The code of practice for stay-at-home mothers is: all year round, with multiple jobs, unlimited responsibilities and no credit.

The whole world is looking at stay-at-home mothers from high to low, squinting at them. With disdain and criticism, who needs even a little recognition more than stay-at-home mothers themselves?

It is not only women who are trapped full-time, but also men will be destroyed because women are depressed to madness.

The biggest change since I started writing articles is that Teacher Lu came home a little early.

Because after he pushed the door open wearily, I stopped guarding the door like a watchdog and rushed to pull him to complain bitterly: the children were noisy, the price of food went up, and the bathroom light was broken. Why did you come home so late? It turns out that what you said made me happy was just a lie. What makes you?

When we write, we actually sort out our emotions. Write out my emotions, so I become positive.

I was ecstatic to tell him what I wrote, what I was thinking, how I organized my own sentences, how many people paid attention to me, and what kind of reply I received …

How can you not be surprised?

This is the first time in several years that I am not my wife or my mother. I am myself, I am Lu Lu badminton and I am Lu Lu badminton.

Now that I think about it, it's really sour. At that time, I, how lack of identity?

I've been writing reviews for a whole year. Until now, the official WeChat account will occasionally pop up a reply in the background. "I'm here to comment. I've been looking for you for so long that I finally found you. " I feel warm every time I see my fellow villagers.

Self-development, hoping to find a more suitable platform for me to continue writing. I have written a brief book, and I was one of the first authors to sign on the 28th.

Later, on March, 2065438 1, I registered the official account of "Lu Lu badminton Shuo" WeChat, with only one fan, that is, myself.

I forwarded my article to a circle of friends with only 100 people at that time, and my friends forwarded it to me.

Slowly, large platforms began to look for me and asked for authorization to reprint. I remember that the first big platform to reprint me was Insight. It was a Saturday morning when I published this article. We had dinner at a friend's house. I kept painting backstage, watching some readers add in and leave me messages. That's really a sense of accomplishment.

Then I also got the news from the whole network, 100 thousand in 235 ... Then, I used to be a full-time housewife and someone interviewed me. The question is:

"How does a working mother like you balance family and work?"

Today, I no longer need to find a sense of identity, let alone my sense of value, but I will continue to write, because I began to explain my point of view.

Two years ago, someone said that I was KOL (Key Opinion Leader), which I found a bit strange.

But today, I really feel like a KOL. I'm not just a middle-aged woman with a lame yellow face and a round face and anxiety. I represent my readers, a group of women in the same situation as me, with infinite persistence and anxiety. We just need a little comfort and encouragement.

The anxiety of life, the bone feeling in marriage, the distress and anxiety of raising children, what I recorded are happiness and joy.

It is a day that every middle-aged woman will have. It is dull, noisy, fireworks, tearing and warmer.

Even today, in the eyes of some people in the world, I seem to be very successful, but for me, in my heart, there will always be a woman, a family, a child, a lover who supports me and stands side by side.

Now whenever someone says contemptuously that the person with the least future and value in the world is a married middle-aged woman, and her husband and children are wandering around and relaxing.

I can smile and say, "Look, it's not. I really couldn't have written so many words without that six-year experience of obscurity.

In fact, middle-aged women are the people whose potential is stimulated, and they are also the most executive and explosive people. "

I am just a random individual, but I am not a special case.

Since I can, every woman can, as long as she doesn't lose heart, don't give up, bite her teeth, do what she wants, don't get lost, and most importantly, believe in herself even if the world no longer believes in you.

No one can save you, only you can save you.

Everyone had a dream when he was a child.

For example, I once seriously thought that if I could write a book, the author would write my name: Lu Lu badminton.

From August 2065438 to August 2006, my book planner and good friend Ms. Tang found me. Under her recommendation, in the same year 10, I met Cai He, editor-in-chief of Zhongnan Book Company, and Li, editor.

So far, 23 months have passed.

In the internet age, it takes two years to write a book, because we are really polishing it with our heart, hoping to do our best and leave no regrets.

My new book, Who Walks with Qian Shan, started pre-sale on July 5th, and finally went on sale!

Since yesterday, friends who bought new books in the pre-sale period have started printing books for me.

I am too happy to speak.

It took me two years to write a book, which was first published. I sincerely hope that more people will see and like this book.

I hope everyone will support me and help me promote it. Next, we will organize a series of activities, including online sharing, offline signing, book printing and comment drying. I am waiting for your participation wholeheartedly.

In this life, I hope we can walk through Qian Shan together.