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There is a kind of person who is the "disaster star" of interpersonal relationship. They are more difficult to guard against than villains and more ruthless than traitors.
In life, the most difficult relationship for us to get rid of is interpersonal relationship. It is in this relationship that there are many people who we can't guess and are especially good at calculating.

Some people find someone to take the blame for something, and it's even worse to see someone. Some people are wicked and cunning, and they are ruthless in dealing with others. The former is a villain and the latter is a traitor.

The villain forgets righteousness for profit, at least his words and deeds are hard to cover up the villain's heart and are easy to be detected. Treacherous people are treacherous, but many things that can be calculated are already known. As the saying goes, "The road is long, and Xiu Yuan knows the horsepower, and people will see it for a long time." Sooner or later, we will know who they are.

However, in them, a "disaster star" with better means and deeper talent has been derived. They are hidden killers of interpersonal relationships, and people can't hide them. Such a person is the opposite of a real villain-a hypocrite.

Hypocrites are full of benevolence, righteousness and morality, and even stand at the commanding heights of morality and point fingers at the people below, but people are still willing to accept such people because they are really good at superficial kung fu.

Be a gentleman, they have; To be a gentleman, they are full of words; Act like gentlemen, they seem to be harmless peacemakers. It is such a person that the more he looks like a gentleman, the more terrible he is.

They can be duplicitous or duplicitous, manipulate public opinion and sacrifice their lives for justice. A hypocrite with a special aura, his blade is bloodless.

For hypocrites, we can know from their names that they are not real gentlemen, but a "chameleon" who can observe what they say, get on the table and hide behind their backs.

In society, it is easy to say that everyone can recognize their faces at a glance without special observation from others. But hypocrites are different. They can gather people's hearts and turn them into their own use.

Just like in the workplace, some people shout slogans all day saying that they want to serve the company, their superiors and their colleagues. They speak better than they sing, so lies are always repeated and become truth.

It's not that no one knows their mind, but that those people can pretend to be "simple and honest" in front of others, and their business ability is not too bad. Some words and deeds are still to the boss's taste. Such people are not "favorites".

At work, why do people often say that they would rather give in than offend others? Because you don't know what kind of person the other person is, it is easy for a gentleman and a villain to say, but it is a temporary pain. But a hypocrite, like ice in February, will freeze your heart forever.

If you offend them, the biggest possibility is that you will not only be isolated, but also be hated by people around you, and even the boss who cares about you will suddenly fall out of favor. Perhaps, behind the false aura is the power of the human heart.

In the end, your result is the same, either leave or continue to be hurt until the "hypocrite" disappears. The so-called "disaster star" is to turn people's hearts to one side and let the weak people face the crusade of "many people" alone.

As for "hypocrites", in fact, such people are widely distributed in society, and even many people have been influenced by their parents since childhood and have been able to manipulate people's hearts at school.

Someone once told me such a thing. His nephew is in junior high school. Because of accommodation, he mostly goes home once a week. It is because of accommodation that my nephew offended a class cadre.

That class cadre is his lower berth. Because of his fat figure, he always keeps the class cadres in the lower bunk awake. Not only that, his nephew is not a class cadre. For various reasons, my nephew has become the target of public criticism.

The class cadre not only made things difficult for his nephew, but also spoke ill of him in front of the teacher. Then the students went in and out to support the class cadres.

A dramatic scene appeared when the nephew retorted in front of the teacher. The class cadres were in tears, even sobbing. Seeing this, he helped his classmates turn the tide.

Because my nephew was targeted all the year round, he stopped staying and chose to go to school. It's a long way, but there's no way. The interpersonal relationship at each stage is very complicated, and parents can't change it.

This is just a microcosm of the interpersonal circle, reflecting this society full of "hypocrites". If you don't be a hypocrite, naturally many people want to be hypocrites.

People can please their predecessors as well as their successors, which is highly respected by many people as communicators. In fact, if you watch more, you will find that their tricks are really not something that ordinary people can play. At least, they are hypocritical enough.

In Jin Yong's novel the legendary swordsman, there is a well-known hypocrite. He is the famous "Gentleman's Sword" Yue Buqun. He is such a "gentleman", but he is the most treacherous person in the whole play.

The so-called extremes meet, and there are no perfect people in the world. Zuo Lengchan, a real villain, played a bad card of "trump card", which was not only lighter than beware, but also ignored the harm of "hypocrite".

The novel reflects the real society. Whether you are at work or in a circle of friends, there will always be a few "moral kidnappers" when something happens.

They like to pretend to be "noble", but in fact they are "inconsistent" and are not people inside and outside. Life is complicated, in fact, most of them are caused by people with ulterior motives.

A bottle of water contains not only sediment stains visible to the naked eye, but also "impurities" invisible to the naked eye. We think that such "impurities" don't exist when we can't see them, but they are actually more harmful.

The same rain, spring rain can moisten things quietly, but acid rain is corrosive everywhere. People in society should not only beware of villains, but also beware of incomprehensible hypocrites.

The fox is terrible, at least its reputation is well known. The tiger is terrible, but it is the king of the forest. But the most terrible thing is that the wolf in sheep's clothing has been sold and may still be counting money for others.

It is difficult to draw a cat and a tiger, but it is difficult to draw a bone. Interpersonal relationship is a wooden bridge. Someone pretends to help you, but at some point, they will push you off the bridge. People are people, so we have to guard against them.

Text/There are deer in Shushan