Then, love came into being and was caught off guard. Can you refuse a long-distance relationship? In fact, when people face the problem of long-distance love, the acceptance is already very high. After all, there are so many media, and people can communicate through emotions, so the influence on whether people can choose a fund to invest in a relationship is almost zero.
There is a saying in China's ancient poems called "If two feelings last for a long time, do you want to seize the day?" It's completely finished now. There are many young couples around me, and even the way of getting along in different places gives each other more indoor space. Under such a long-distance love, everyone has more freedom, and the experience of being separated for a long time is better than that of being newly married, which also makes the love stage involuntarily longer.
Therefore, everyone has underestimated the harm of spacing to feelings since then. "I just want to send Ta to me!" Such a relaxed and happy declaration slogan seems to completely ignore the harm of distance. But can emotional comfort established with the help of the Internet really replace physical intimacy? How long can this platonic love caused by different places last?
People often say that eat drink man woman's physiological needs are influenced by the premise. In a word, the whole world in the world has been defined as ordinary people. We are all ordinary people. Psychologist Marlowe's hierarchy of needs theory divides people's pursuit into five levels, almost all of which are physiological needs, expectations for security, personal emotional closeness requirements, different personal respect and their ultimate personality shaping. Although the "sex" in this physiological need is more basic, it is only because words are the most basic and everyone can't ignore them.
The most intuitive separation of long-distance love is the physiological requirement. Don't take yourself too seriously The generation of love is based on the most basic human growth hormone reflex, and the physiological needs generated by growth hormone reflex are always immediate and natural. Therefore, the problems of extramarital affairs and third parties gradually appear in long-distance relationships.
Bossard's law in psychology, that is, "the effect of love is inversely proportional to distance", clearly emphasizes that if lovers live far away and can't meet often, their feelings will gradually become shallow. The emotional loss caused by long-distance love can be realized by communication software, but the lack of intimacy is difficult to achieve with all special tools. When one party is tired, what may be needed is a simple hug from the lover. But distance will make this hug a luxury. So many young couples who have experienced long-term long-distance love will feel this way. I seem to be in love with a virtual person.