Most young people are very rational in the face of consumption. After all, not everyone is a millionaire.
Regarding rationality and irrationality, most people are in favor of rational consumption. They thought it was a wise move, but Yuqi Zhang didn't seem to think so.
Zhang said that when a woman has money, she doesn't need reason. You are rational because you are poor. When you have money, you can buy anything you want.
Although it is only a few short words, the analysis of the current life situation is quite detailed.
Yes, the reason why a person spends money wisely is not because he knows how to save, nor because he is a rational person, but because his strength does not allow him to spend at will.
Free consumption is the dream of many people.
Although everyone advocates reasonable consumption every day, in fact, everyone has a dream, that is, take the card to the big shopping mall to spend casually, and wrap it up when you see what you like, regardless of the price or how much it will cost, because he has something.
This kind of scene often appears in TV series, and both men and women have had this experience. The scene in TV series has also become the dream result of many people.
Although it is difficult for many people to turn it into reality in real life, everyone's expectations in this regard have never been reduced.
People are eager for free consumption, not because they are ignorant, but because they are eager to get rid of their present life and live a free life.
Some people are not so eager to shop. The reason why people hope to swipe their cards in the mall one day is nothing more than the current life dilemma, so that they have to make a choice before doing anything. They also hope to live a leisure life one day.
Consumption can be rational, but we should strive to have irrational power.
I know a respected headmaster. He used to teach in a public school, but after retirement, he started a private school.
He has a dream, which is to educate more students of Tsinghua Peking University. He is rich, and the school is his own investment, but he is a very low-key person in life.
He walked out of the door, giving the impression that he was an ordinary old man. In fact, he is worth tens of millions. He can buy what he wants and do what he wants. What he wants to do most is to devote himself wholeheartedly to education.
He is not a big shot, but he lives a life that many ordinary people can't reach.
I can afford it, but I don't want to buy it, but the conditions don't allow it. Most people are eager to be the first person.
After all, the first person has the strength to satisfy all his wishes. Maybe he is not interested in shopping. Even if he walks into a big shopping mall, he won't be too excited, but its strength will make him feel satisfied.
However, if a person's economic conditions are limited, he will feel insecure when shopping, and he may not dare to try on clothes he likes. After all, they will worry that they can't afford it.
How should a person improve his economic strength?
Make a plan according to the actual situation
The biggest mistake everyone has made is to like to follow in the footsteps of others. To give a very simple example, online stores were booming a few years ago, so many people joined, and everyone seemed to forget one thing. The market is saturated.
People in front can really make a lot of money, but people behind seem to have no money.
At present, the same is true of society. Many people have been imitating others, but they have forgotten what is really suitable for them. For example, neighbor Xiao Wang is an obvious example.
He heard that doing sales is very profitable, because his cousin bought a house and a car in this line, which also made his family live well, so he joined, but it was clear to everyone that his personality was completely unsuitable for this line.
His personality is honest. He is only suitable for the technology industry, but he forces himself to join the sales industry. Five years later, he still achieved nothing, earning only a few thousand dollars a month, and only getting a basic salary when his performance was the worst.
Now that he has thought it over, he decided to change his profession because he has spent too long on this road.
After all, people are different. Only by finding an industry that you are suitable for and good at can you give full play to your strength and go more smoothly in the future.
Don't learn from others. Everyone in this world is different. When others do one thing, you may not be able to make a difference, and the field you are suitable for may not be suitable for others.
Develop the habit of self-discipline
Are you a self-disciplined person? On this point, I think everyone's answer is different. Most people are not self-disciplined because everyone has procrastination. Procrastination is a good description of the current life situation of young people, because many people live like this.
It is obvious that they get up at seven o'clock in the morning, but they have to wait until half past seven, so it is the same to do one thing. They can finish it early, but they always drag their feet and have to wait until the deadline to finish it.
But this will not only cause some impatience in your heart, but also greatly reduce your work efficiency.
If a person wants to get a different future and have a different economic foundation in the future, he must be a particularly self-disciplined person. If you look closely, you will find that those successful people in real life are almost all very self-disciplined.
Every step they take is based on their own plan, and it is precisely because they can do this that they can succeed.
If they procrastinate every day, muddle along and can't control their words and deeds, I'm afraid they are just ordinary people in life, just like everyone else.
Only by developing the habit of self-discipline can we change the status quo, otherwise we will never be able to display our ambitions.
Expand useful contacts
People living in this society can't live alone. Everyone is a gregarious animal. Based on this, it is necessary to expand useful personal relationships.
Walking in society, connections are very important. Networking is not only a help to everyone, but also a source of wealth.
If you can make some useful contacts, it will be much more convenient for you to do many things. In fact, this is the truth of dealing with people. Most people understand it, but many people don't know how to make friends.
Some circles will only consume you, but will not bring you any benefits. For example, some friends just invite you to eat and drink together every day and have nothing else to do. After a long time, your life will be like that.
But if you can make friends with some enterprising people, the result will be completely different. Under their leadership, your life will also change greatly, you will become more and more excellent, and you can live a different life one day in the future.
Give up the habit of consuming yourself.
Everyone has different habits, some of which are very good and can bring great changes to everyone's life, while others will only consume everyone's life.
For example, some people like playing games, some people like smoking and drinking, and some people like reading. Although these are all different hobbies, they are very different.
If you are fascinated by something, and it is not good for you in itself, and may even have some bad results for you, there is no need for everyone to continue to consume it. After all, a person's time is precious.
The leisure consumption that everyone yearns for is nothing more than the desire for life progress. If you want to realize your dream, you must try your best to change the current living conditions.