I really don't understand why some people fight for each other in love. Does it really matter who wins or loses? Isn't the most important thing in love that two people get along well and then go further? What's the point of winning or losing? Do you think winning is superior to falling in love?

I think a truly mature state of love should be sweet. If you always quarrel, then I think this love is unnecessary. Love is different from marriage, and it belongs to feelings that can be terminated at any time without loss. So, if love makes people feel unhappy, do you really have the confidence to live well in your future marriage?

I think many people who struggle to win or lose are immature in love. They always think that only by suppressing each other can they go on in love better. Actually, they are not. People who often lose are unhappy, and people who often win are also unhappy. Love is not a boxing match. There is really no need to fight for who wins or loses.

The best love mode should be equal to each other, without winning or losing, only two people need to work together, trust each other and tolerate each other. Only when two people are on an equal footing can this relationship be healthy. I don't think the slogan "everyone is equal" is in vain. If all this can't be done, what is a non-morbid emotional state?

I hope everyone can be a little Buddhist and peaceful when they are in love. It is easy to fall in love, but it is not easy to go on. Only when two people learn to tolerate and understand each other can they get truly perfect love. On the contrary, break up.