List of family corporal punishment methods
1. To develop good living habits, get up on time for breakfast every day, sleep in at most once a week (get up no later than 10: 00 am), and rest on time every night, no later than 22: 30. If there is any violation, hit the board five times every 1 minute.
2, to develop good hygiene habits, wash your hands before and after meals, eat less junk food, including but not limited to roadside stalls, barbecues, foods with high fat, high calorie and high additives, or go to some places with poor hygiene. If there is any violation, hit the board 50 times. Stand for 30 minutes.
3, lead an honest and clean life, don't dye your hair, perm, swear words, smoke, drink (except drinking on special occasions such as parties), violate any of the above, and hit the board 80 times. And was fined to kneel for 30 minutes.
4, cheating, hitting the board 200 times at a time, the circumstances are serious. And was fined to kneel for 60 minutes.
5, the monthly pocket money is 50, and the extra one yuan is spent on playing 10 board. And was fined to kneel for 30 minutes.
6. Stealing: 200 slaps on the palm and hands, 0/00 board on the bottom, 3 hours fine, and 2,000 words written review.
7. If there is any violation of the law, the penalty standard is F, with a penalty of 5 hours and a review of 7000 words.
When you meet your elders, you should say hello with your address. If you can't do it, you will be slapped 50 times and fined for 30 minutes.
9. Abide by the rules and regulations of the school during school. If you can't do it, you will be slapped 50 times and fined for 30 minutes.
10, don't throw peels and scraps of paper in the street, and don't spit everywhere. If you don't, you will be found to hit the board 50 times and stand for 30 minutes.
1 1. Be respectful to your parents and elders at home, never go back on your word, never talk back, and you won't be found out: hit the board 50 times, punish you for 30 minutes, and write a review of 800 words.
12. Students who ignore their own health behaviors will be spanked 200 times.
13. Managers can randomly test the provisions of these measures on students. Students who do not understand the provisions of these measures will be spanked 100 times.
14, the learning task must be completed, and failure to do so has been found: spanking 300, penalty 30 minutes.
15, the entertainment time must not cross the line, it can't be done and it has been found: playing 5 boards for more than 1 minute is twice the penalty time.
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The reason why corporal punishment cannot be used in family education.
Ma Bao's son is four years old and very naughty. I try to suppress my temper, reason with him, and guide him to reflect on his mistakes, but sometimes he still doesn't listen to all the good things. In this case, I can only start work, spank him a few times or hit a few handboards, and I will be honest immediately. I also know that corporal punishment is wrong, but sometimes it can't be controlled. I want to ask Mr. Zhang if it's okay to punish him a little.
Many parents responded: I know corporal punishment is wrong, but I really can't control it if I don't fight! I didn't really hit him hard. This little corporal punishment should have nothing to do with it, right? "Regardless of corporal punishment, right, and how hard it should be to beat children. First of all, I want to tell you that if there is no way to control children except corporal punishment in life, there are two problems hidden behind them:
There are two reasons why you can't control your children:
● The parent-child relationship is extremely bad:
If you need to use strong intimidation and corporal punishment to make your children listen to you, then your parent-child relationship has an obstacle, which is a signal that there is a problem with the parent-child relationship.
● Parents neglect education;
If you can only make your children listen to you through slapstick, then you are probably a lazy parent. Don't say that children are naughty and difficult to discipline, and don't say that children are only afraid of fighting. Behind this is actually your own laziness in education. You want your child to calm down soon, but you don't want to waste time using new methods and have no patience with your child's education. This is not laziness. What is it?
There are many cases where children make mistakes. Due to lack of ability or environmental factors, children often make some non-subjective mistakes. However, you care whether the child made a mistake on purpose. It is certainly unscientific to discipline children only in this way, so corporal punishment should not be used.
Why not corporal punishment?
& lt 1 & gt； The intensity of corporal punishment is beyond your control.
It's time for parents to say, Teacher Zhang, our family has a good parent-child relationship, and I'm not lazy. Can't I just slap him gently? I want to ask these parents: think about it carefully, do you really control the intensity of corporal punishment every time?
Every serious corporal punishment is preceded by a small corporal punishment, and parents think they can control their emotions and strength. But the fact is often that the more you fight, the more angry you get. After playing for a while, you will gradually become emotional, and the language will be fierce and the intensity will become heavier and heavier. So, your idea of "I'll just give it a pat" doesn't exist at all. Corporal punishment can only harm children's body and mind.
& lt2> The injuries caused by corporal punishment may not be recovered to adulthood.
Parents all know that corporal punishment is harmful, but they don't know how much harm it will cause to their children.
It is difficult to recover after physical injury. The child's body is fragile and the nervous system is immature. Children are physically punished by their parents when they are young, and the physical damage may not be recovered in adulthood. This is definitely not an alarmist. Some people will be at a loss when they quarrel as adults, some will tremble all over, and some will even twitch their eyes. These are all physical injuries caused by corporal punishment when I was a child, and even after ten or twenty years, I still can't recover.
The psychological damage is even greater. Children who are often beaten will have many psychological problems: lying, cowardice, anxiety, rebellion, rudeness ... and now many parents regard beating their children as the only means of education, but they are beaten by their parents. Corporal punishment has terrible heredity. If you feel unhappy in your childhood and have a bad relationship with your parents, don't make the same mistake again.
Corporal punishment helps children learn to lie. Imagine if a child was beaten after admitting his mistake, what would he do next time he did something wrong? Corporal punishment and lying are twins. Many children learn to lie to protect themselves the next time they do something wrong after being punished by corporal punishment. The more corporal punishment parents give, the deeper lies children tell.
Corporal punishment defeated slaves and enemies.
The mode of corporal punishment is too simple and rude, which hurts children's self-esteem. Corporal punishment is a slave education. You cultivate a submissive and a slave, but you will never educate a child with independent thoughts, and it is more likely to educate the child into an enemy!
Some parents say that you don't know Mr. Zhang. Sometimes I tell him not to listen for half an hour, slap him and be honest immediately! On the surface, a two-second slap in the face is more useful than your 30-minute sermon, but is the child really convinced? No, he just had to give in to your strength temporarily because of his weakness. Think back to how you felt when you were a child. Do you really believe it? Do you really know what you did wrong? Don't you hate your parents? This hatred is in the child's heart. How can parent-child relationship be good?
Corporal punishment is tantamount to quenching thirst by drinking poison, which is not worth the loss. You won the first half hour, but you lost the rest of your family. A slap, a beating, you personally planted the seeds of hatred in the child's heart, and you will really suffer unimaginable mental bitterness in the future.