The quarrel between husband and wife is often due to trivial matters of life. In the face of trivial matters, husband and wife should not be too entangled, let alone treat each other with an aggressive attitude and narrow mind, which will only expand the contradictions between husband and wife. If there are contradictions and frictions with each other, we should rationally and objectively analyze the causes of the contradictions, instead of accusing and insulting each other. You should take the initiative to take responsibility and convince each other with a peaceful mind. In this way, you can turn conflicts into peace, and there will be fewer quarrels between husband and wife.

Regarding the problem of avoiding quarrels between husband and wife, here are nine points: (1) When one party is irrational and emotional, the other party must be calm;

(2) Don't blame each other rudely, even if they are wrong;

(3) When criticizing the other party, don't shout loudly, but speak softly;

(4) Don't repeat past mistakes;

(5) Cherish your lover sincerely;

(6) Remember to give him or her a smile every day;

(7) when arguing, only use your mouth to control your hands;

(8) It's no big deal to be wrong, the most important thing is to know to admit your mistakes;

(9) When quarreling, although both husband and wife are at fault, the one who makes the most mistakes is often the one who talks the most.

In daily life, it is inevitable that disputes will arise between husband and wife because of disagreement. At this time, paying less attention to trivial matters is the best way to prevent quarrels. Of course, if it is your fault, you must apologize when you apologize. Even if it's not your fault sometimes, the other person will feel embarrassed when you apologize. In this way, a storm disappeared before it started. This is the art of getting along with husband and wife, and anyone can learn this art as long as they have the heart.

Conclusion: You can tolerate anyone generously, but why can't you tolerate your wife? Is this a fact? To say the least, what's more, this step you have taken is for the people you love and for your family.