Maybe your boyfriend doesn't like frequent video calls, or maybe he feels a little stressed or uncomfortable. Maybe he has his own things to deal with, or he needs some private space.

In this case, the best way is to communicate frankly with your boyfriend. Ask him why he is impatient with video calls and express your feelings. Try to find a balance and make you all feel comfortable and satisfied.

In addition, if you patrol your post frequently, it may also make your boyfriend feel uncomfortable. If you want to improve this situation, you can consider giving each other more trust and space, and trust his whereabouts and behavior as much as possible.