On the bus, the gap between children from two different families. A little boy took a bus with his grandmother, who lost the orange peel. The little boy glanced at grandma, but grandma said, "Nobody saw it anyway." The little boy can only give up. It didn't take long for it to work. The little boy shouted for a seat and the whole carriage was noisy. Scene 2: The little girl gets on the bus with her mother. When she sees the pregnant woman and the old man, she gives up her seat and automatically helps her mother with her bag. Mother told her that she could take Mazar with her when she was tired in the car in the future, and she could not add poverty to others. Both mother and daughter are very considerate. The difference between the two children on the bus is actually caused by the opposite words and deeds of their parents. Excellent family education is very important for children. Parents are their first teachers. The teaching environment of family background has a far-reaching influence on children's life. Parents should pay special attention to creating a good family environment for their children. Many differences between 0 1 children are rooted in family observation in Beijing. The results show that 87% of the students firmly believe that their morality and ethos are formed by their parents, and 80% of the moral defects are the responsibility of their parents. We will see that children from different families have great differences in all aspects of the city, and the family environment plays a relatively tense role in dealing with children's development. Therefore, parents should set an example and cultivate their children's excellent language habits and minds. Parents should be taught to respect their children and always shape their children according to their own wishes, such as expecting their children to take the civil service exam and inherit their father's career, but they have never thought about what their needs and dreams are. It is obviously unacceptable that parents do not spend their energy on cultivating their children's morality and sense of responsibility, but hope that their children will become happy people in the eyes of society. The most successful teaching is to mold a person with DuLi's morality, and teaching should be respected. It is easy for children to imitate their parents' behavior and language by example. Parents love to calculate and criticize gossip, and children will easily like to report and be embarrassed. But if parents are sensible and respectful, the child will become honest and polite imperceptibly, and it is difficult for him to fight in public places. Don't spoil your children too much. In today's China, a city of two generations and six parents revolves around a child. All children's demands, whether fair or not, are easily met in the city, and what children say is what they want. This kind of love can easily spoil children who do whatever they want and completely lose their arms and others. How to teach sensible baby parents in public places should pay attention to the counseling of children's public etiquette at ordinary times, so that children are still polite and not annoying in crowded public places. 0 1 Meet the basic needs of children Parents should prepare necessary items for their children before going out, such as water, snacks, paper towels and other items. Never let tired and hungry children go out together. If the supermarket is one of the target destinations, you can buy something to eat for your children in the supermarket. Let the children know each other. Before going out, you must let the children know how the parents decorated, where to go today, what to do, how long it will take, how to get there, and so on. Wait until the child is ready and predicts this before taking the child out. Ask the child to "help" parents treat their child as a Du Li person. Occasionally, you can "hurry" to your child and ask his opinion. For example, letting them exercise their self-care ability and thinking ability can also divert their attention. Always pay attention to children. Some children are playful and lively, so parents should pay more attention to whether they are playing around again when they go out. If the prank makes people around you feel embarrassed or disgusted, you must be patient, take him away from the crowd and stop disturbing others. Let the children feel the present. Parents should cultivate their children's sense of existence when shopping, and let them feel the world they live in, just like automatically asking their children about their utilization goals and characteristics when they see a zebra crossing. Don't neglect restless children. When children start fidgeting, it means they are uncomfortable. Maybe their mood has changed. Parents should pay attention to these changes in real time and take care of them and persuade them. Divert children's energy Parents can consciously take their children to play some games, lead them to walk in a straight line, and let their children lose their energy. Pay attention to the children's instructions. Some parents don't want to listen to their children's instructions when they are angry, which will not only discourage their children, but also lead to their rebellious mentality. Parents should listen carefully to their children's instructions and find out the reasons for his mistakes. Even if children resist, they should obey the rules. Parents must abide by improper principles and implement some hard corrections in the teaching process. Parents can't compromise even if their children go on hunger strike or lie prone on the ground. For example, if children keep buying unnecessary tools that are beyond the family's financial capacity because of vanity, parents must not obey their children, but also teach them to form an accurate consumption concept, don't care too much about other people's eyes, and always compare themselves with others. 10 Take the children to a quiet place with few people. If a child suddenly cries and makes a scene in a public place, then parents should first take the child to a place where there are few people, and don't let him inherit and influence others, then patiently explain the principle and stop the child from crying by diverting his attention. If there are too many people, parents should not blindly seek perfection and blame, but ask him why he is crying and try to make some changes, just like the child.