What you need to ask is to call the other party and explain why party member has a problem. Call the other person and explain that party member may be your comment, but party member is not.

Generally, the phone page shows the phone number or your name or the name of an operator, such as China Mobile, China Unicom and Telecom.

So you won't show it to party member for no reason. You must have given each other a note. It's party member.