They seem to be far away from us, because we don't belong to this group, but they are close to us, and everyone has such relatives around them.
Although it is a story in a movie, it really happens in our lives. Although ordinary, it is great and warm. As director Han Ting said, "202 1, I send you a little red flower, which blooms in the deepest precipitation in your heart."
Everyone who lives seriously deserves a little red flower.
Wei Yihang, played by Jackson Yi, is a member of the Cancer family. In order to treat him, mom and dad spent all their savings at home. They haven't added anything big in their home for more than ten years, and even the legs of the table are uneven, so they have to continue to use paper mats.
In order to save money, my mother argued with the security guard for five yuan parking fee. She goes to the vegetable market to buy food and break other people's leaves every day. In order to save money, my father would rather endure a stomachache than have a gastroscope, and take a break and drive a special car.
However, they didn't give up the fight against the disease, and the whole family and even grandma were scrambling to sell their houses to treat Yihang. Every day, I encourage Yihang to go out and communicate with people and make more friends. I don't want to see my son so bereaved. I am always so positive and optimistic.
But even the most optimistic people can't stand it. When the doctor told her that her illness had recurred, her mother couldn't resist the long-term backlog. When a mother knocked on the window with a begging child, she cried and said, "Is your child sick, too?" Finally, I handed out some hundred-dollar bills in my wallet.
When the father knew that his son was going to try medicine to save money, he couldn't hold back any longer and cursed loudly. When his son said the word "death", he even hit him. Since childhood, this is the first time a father has laid hands on his son.
It is not easy for every parent. In the past, they were fearless. They seem to have a soft spot since they gave birth to their children. They are afraid that their children will get sick, be bullied, fail to learn well, and feel particularly lost. For parents, children are all they have, working hard for half their lives, just for their children to have a better life.
If women are weak and mothers are strong, then men are strong and fathers are weak.
Ma, the father of another girl in the film, was originally the owner of a garage, but he learned magic to make his sick daughter happy. The father who takes care of his daughter alone in the hospital has to coax his daughter into saying that she has already eaten and put a wig on her daughter who has undergone chemotherapy. Iron man also has a gentle side.
Every parent is not easy, but they have to be strong in the face of life difficulties and sick children. The children's survival is their greatest hope. For this reason, they dare not get sick, spend money indiscriminately or even eat a bowl of beef noodles. It is often these smallest things that bring us the deepest touch.
After suffering from cancer, Wei Yihang was very sad, unwilling to go out, not to participate in social activities and not to make friends.
In the heavy rain, Yihang cried and said, "I don't want to get in touch with anyone. I am afraid that I will die as soon as I take out my heart. "
In this scene, countless people cried. Facing the girl he likes, Yihang only dares to speak his mind when he is drunk, because he is afraid that he will leave at any time, that God will turn his life into a difficult mode at any time, and that he is afraid to face his heart.
Ma Xiaoyuan, like a light, shone into his life and pulled him out of the haze. Invite him to participate in patient communication, know that he likes outdoor adventure, and introduce him to the big V of outdoor adventure. And take him to experience the outdoor adventure of the cottage version.
Ma Xiaoyuan is also a girl. She has been suffering from cancer since she was five years old. She spent most of her life fighting illness and taking medicine. But judging from her, she doesn't look like a patient. She is optimistic, well-connected and full of ideas. She often organizes activities with patients and asks so-called inspirational experts to cheer us up.
She doesn't know that experts cheat money, but it is worthwhile to give these desperate people even a little hope of living, a little encouragement and comfort.
When Wei Yihang questioned that barbecue caused cancer, he retorted, "Don't you already have cancer? In spring and autumn, beer has a small waist and a small waist. "
Everyone says that sick people are a group of people forgotten by God, and they are unfortunate. If you don't succeed, you must have a healthy body, even the most basic thing. But everyone, Malik Xiao Yuan, actively fought against the disease and shouted a loud slogan: "I am not afraid of the disease, I can beat him!" "
A gathering of cancer patients, no matter how painful, should actively live. Do not give up love and hope. Everyone who bravely struggles with fate deserves a little red flower.
Each of us will face loss, which we can't change, just like a disease, which eventually takes away the optimistic horse.
But we can't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, lose confidence in life, and be discouraged by unpredictable losses. Every day of life is memorable. Because the weather is good, because the weather is bad, because the weather is just right, every day is meaningful.
Losing is not terrible, that is our ultimate destination, it is only a matter of time. Although we can't extend the length of life, we can broaden the width of life.
Helen Keller, an American blind and deaf woman writer and educator for the disabled, is physically disabled, but she is constantly striving for self-improvement and positive and optimistic. With indomitable spirit, she completed her studies at Harvard University with excellent results. She also has a kind, sincere and loving heart, running around for the cause of the blind and making contributions to society.
Creating the work "If Give Me Three Days of Light" warns healthy people to cherish life and everything given by the creator from the perspective of a weak woman who is physically disabled and determined.
If you can't change your misfortune, then you can accept it and actively overcome it. You know, every day we exist is not in vain.
Please don't give up if you are suffering misfortune. Without seeds as low as dust, they can't blossom. Life will not deceive everyone who lives seriously.
202 1, the little red flower award is given to everyone who overcomes the hardships. Life is hard, please don't give up love and hope.
If life deceives you,
Don't be sad, don't be impatient!
You need to keep calm in blue days;
Believe it, happy days will come! -Pushkin