I wonder if you have happened to read Sagan's love letter to Sartre? In fact, I haven't seen it much, or I won't, until one day I suddenly saw this sentence in a pop-up window, which said, "The world is crazy, inhuman and corrupt. You have always been sober, gentle and spotless. " So, I groped for a look, and the result was of course a great benefit and a warm heart. I always hear people say that it is gentle and gentle, so-and-so is a gentle person, and so-and-so has a gentle temper. In fact, tenderness is a special inner strength, just like a flowing stream, clean and clean, which can dispel inner anxiety and revive the withered love hidden in the deep heart. Of course, if a person can feel tenderness, then this person must also have the ability to be gentle, and he will become gentle. Gentleness is really contagious. No matter how fierce a lion is, he will be knocked down by ruthless gentleness and become a domestic cat without temper. There are often such examples in life, which are very common and fun. And the best time is that we are both very gentle people, so that two people get along together, no matter what, no matter what, it is good. People often say that the years are quiet, and that's probably it, right? There are too many opposites of reluctance and ambiguity in this world. A lot of words come to my mouth and become another way. Care has changed, and consideration has lost its temperature. The good and bad things between you and me are just lights on both sides of the strait, separated by a river, that is, they do not interfere with each other. It doesn't matter whether you like to laugh or jump. It doesn't matter whether I like drinking all night or playing games all night. You can like the desolate desert, because it is vast, and I can like this withered poetry better. During the discussion, it was as if your life was satisfactory, but when discussing me, I just said, "Don't ask, it's not good." If, I mean if, if you become more and more indifferent, you think this is your' growth', but it is not. It's never been like this since I was a kid. More often, we should be gentle and tolerant, gentle to the whole world and tolerant to ourselves. "If I can avoid those sudden violent pleasures, I will naturally not experience those sorrows." "And when I started trying to avoid those so-called sorrows, I missed all the joys, big and small." Tenderness is an overly advanced power. The gentleness of two people is true temperament, not a delicate fox. "Another important feature of women is gentleness. The gentleness of a woman is the core and most powerful character and temperament, and it is also the unique charm of a woman. But pretending to be gentle has no such charm. Once combined with the truth of shrew, it will be daunting. True tenderness comes from the heart, just like a lotus flower that quietly reveals its fragrance, but it has its fragrance and its own beauty. The gentleness of a woman is a very powerful character and temperament. There is a saying in China's ancient philosophy that "combine rigidity with softness", that is, weak things actually have great power and can even overcome hard things. If women are yin, men are yang, yin and yang complement each other, and * * * together shape a beautiful world, then gentleness is a force that women can't be ignored in shaping this world. Tenderness is also one of the key words in the eighteenth work of the famous poem Annala series by Xu Zhimo. " The gentleness of a bow is most like the shyness of a hibiscus out of water. Take care, take care, there is sweet sadness in that treasure. Shian, Nora. "Xu Zhimo's portrayal of Japanese women bowing their heads to say goodbye is so touching that people can't help but feel good. South Korean woman writer Zhang Yingshu even wrote a book called "The Power of Tenderness" to discuss the gentleness of women and its influence and strength. Han Mingshu, the first female prime minister of South Korea, once put forward an interesting slogan in her personal website "Happy Korea", that is, "Change the world with gentle power". It should be said that in today's world, Japanese and Korean women's gentle performance can be regarded as a model in East Asia and even the whole world. However, in China, our women's performance in this respect is much worse now. We advocate that "women hold up half the sky", especially with the arrival of her era, women have become more self-reliant, but some people seem to go to extremes. While gaining equal status with men, some women have gradually developed a relatively strong personality, which even affects their role in the family. Many women, especially professional women, often bring home their capable and brave temperament in the workplace, especially among female leaders and middle and senior managers. If handled properly, this temperament is good for husbands, children and families, but it is often difficult to grasp the sense of proportion, so that many husbands complain that their wives are "too much like leaders, as if they are her subordinates", and children are also very wronged, feeling that their mothers are "unfriendly and too harsh and rude to themselves". It seems that contemporary women in China should return to tradition to some extent, and should not rush headlong into everything, be too sharp-edged and too aggressive. In this way, we may win more, get the understanding and love of our husbands and children, and get the harmony and happiness of our family while our career is successful. A woman's temperament comes from her family. It is not easy for a woman. Getting married as a baby at home is not as casual as at home. You must consider everything. This is different. After taking care of the children, everything is your own. It's important to have a husband who loves you. All of us should be more tolerant and care about women. This is some basic love. Tenderness is an overly advanced power. Lightly, I think that gentleness is just a docile, clever and innate character. Later, I found that gentleness is actually a rare ability, which has the power to digest negative emotions and appease restless souls. Gentle people have traces of years of precipitation. They don't fight for it, but they are as warm as light. When there are gentle people around you, your heart will become soft unconsciously. Taking care of your heart is the most mature gentleness of a person. If kindness is a person's most basic persistence, then gentleness is a person's most kind choice. Gentle people don't take it for granted, understand what they don't want, and don't show it to others; Know better what you want and don't show it to others. They will put themselves in each other's shoes and respect each other's ideas. Getting along with them is like holding a cup of hot tea in the cold winter, which is comfortable and cozy. People who are not gentle may not have never seen the vicissitudes of the world; But gentle people must have crossed all kinds of thorns and sufferings before they finally decided to fight against the edge of the world in a mature and gentle way. The essence of gentleness is kindness. Never guess others with malice, but understand and help others with the greatest kindness. Tacit is the most decent and gentle person in a person, with a delicate mind and never a thorn in his speech. People always have to talk big when necessary. They can understand other people's embarrassment, but they won't poke it. Instead, use gentle language to find steps for each other. Four or two thousand pounds not only eased the scene, saved each other's dignity, but also achieved their own dignity. Some people think that gentleness is cowardice, but it is not. Gentle people are more determined than violent people, because they know what they are guarding inside, so they will not be upset. Gentleness, like the warm sun, can soothe people's loneliness and fatigue, make the soul rely on it, and be full of motivation. Gentleness and firmness are a person's greatest maturity and dignity. The world is not always beautiful, but gentleness can always give people warmth and goodwill. True tenderness, you can't pretend not to come, it is a unique aura given by years and experiences. If someone can't accept your kindness and waste your firmness, please remember to take back this precious gentleness, which deserves a better person. May you treat the world gently, treat it gently.