I once went to Shanghai on business and stayed in a hotel at night. I was a little bored, so I opened people near WeChat and added a few people to chat. One of them had a good chat. We haven't seen each other for a long time. We decided to meet at once. I told her the room number, and soon she came. When I opened the door and saw her, I felt a little familiar. Only after chatting did I know that this girl turned out to be my primary school classmate!
With such a relationship, let's first sigh that fate is really amazing. We haven't seen each other for so many years, and we should meet like this! At the same time, it's a little embarrassing. Then I invited her to dinner, and we were very happy together. I asked her what she did, and she said that she started a business with others. I think she started her business at a young age, and I think she is quite powerful.
I was a little lonely at that time, and she was beautiful. I'm a little touched by her, and I can see that she feels good about me.
One night, she asked me to go to her house and said it was her birthday. I'm glad to hear the news. Doesn't this mean that our relationship will change substantially? Dressed up, I bought her a present and went excitedly.
I went to her house and she opened the door for me. I was dumbfounded at first sight. It turns out that there are so many people in her family, men and women. She was very warm to me, saying that these people were colleagues, and then we had dinner and cut cakes together. This meal makes me very depressed. During the dinner, these people were very excited and kept shouting slogans about making big money. I just know that these people are pyramid schemes!
Finally, after dinner, I told her I was leaving, but she still wouldn't let me go. She saw that I was determined, and told me that as long as I stayed, I could do anything. I know she's cheating me into doing pyramid schemes. How can I stay? But I couldn't walk that far, so I was moved by her hypocrisy. I quickly sent a text message to my friend to ask him to call the police. Soon the police came and took the gang to the police station.
Fortunately, I informed my friend in time, otherwise I was not sure if I could escape. The sad expression she gave me when she was taken away made me feel very uncomfortable. Alas, my classmate, a person I like a little, insists on going astray and using my feelings for her to cheat me into pyramid schemes, which makes people sad!
Once, I met a girl online. When we first met, she asked me to spend the night with her.
That year, I was 25, but I still didn't have a girlfriend. I was particularly envious when I heard from my friend that he met a beautiful girlfriend online. Later, I registered an account on Momo, and after all kinds of recharge, I can chat with girls casually.
At that time, I really hated Momo, and I couldn't do anything without recharging. Fortunately, I met a girl who felt good, and the money I spent was still of some value.
After chatting for a few days, she actually asked me to be her boyfriend, and I agreed instantly. I welcome such a beautiful girl.
About a month later, she said that she missed me and wanted to see me. I am particularly touched. I didn't expect her to be so considerate. Knowing that I was busy, she came all the way to see me.
But I was a little disappointed when I met her. Because, although she is the same person as the photo in the dynamic, she is not so beautiful in person. However, I don't judge a book by its cover, and I don't care too much.
We spent the afternoon shopping together that day, and I bought her two clothes, about 1000 yuan. Perhaps out of emotion, she actually asked me to spend the night with her. She booked a room with my ID card.
That night, she said that she would stay with me completely for a while, and I agreed. Later, she slept in the bed and I lay on the sofa.
Woke up the next day and found that she had already left. Although a little sad and reluctant, I didn't think too much. Maybe she was in a hurry and couldn't bear to wake me up, so she left without saying goodbye.
But when I was ready to send a message to contact her, I found that my mobile phone could not be found. At that time, I vaguely realized what had happened and quickly looked for my wallet. Sure enough, the wallet was gone, with more than 2000 yuan in cash, bank cards and ID cards.
I was cheated and stolen! Later, I called the police and used the police's mobile phone to log in to Momo, only to find that she had cancelled her account. Alas, I'm so unlucky!
As can be seen from this incident:
Dating networks are not as reliable as everyone thinks. There are many female swindlers who cheat men who want to make friends under the banner of making friends.
When you meet a girl you know online, you must look after your valuables, just in case!
If you find yourself cheated, you must call the police in time, and you must never let those scammers continue to harm more people!
/kloc-I downloaded the probe for the first time 0/5 days ago, and then I met a boy on it. After a few words, he said that because he didn't like to use it, he wanted to add me to WeChat. At that time, I thought I didn't like this kind of exploration either, so I gave him the number and added me. After adding WeChat, he chatted with me and said that he was a policeman in a township police station. I relaxed my vigilance against him and felt that the police should be very upright people. He sent me a photo of him wearing a police uniform. I thought it was very nice, so I trusted him more and talked with him a lot. Then he will send me messages every day, and we will send photos to each other. He always said that he liked me very much and wanted me to be his girlfriend. I feel that he disagreed before we met, and he understood. Then we continue to keep the voice chat every night, but he is busy every time. When chatting, he said that he would go to the police and explained to me that the township police were very busy. Then I asked him if I could be his girlfriend almost every day, but I refused because I always thought I met him online and never met him. It's no use saying that. All this time, he kept saying that he didn't have a girlfriend and wanted to find someone to marry. He also said that if we meet in the future, I think he can tell my mother about him. Call the baby every day and say that you love me and like me. Maybe it's these illusions I don't think he really has a girlfriend. The only reason why he didn't come to meet is because he was busy.
He hasn't replied since I sent him a message last night. I still wonder why he went to bed so early. Then this morning, he suddenly came to the video. I heard a female voice over there, and then he asked me who you were. Why did you send me WeChat? I don't know you. Why did you send me WeChat? I was stupid and asked what you were talking about. You don't know what? In my heart, I thought he was joking with me. I didn't expect him to hang up, and after a while there was a voice. He asked why you sent me a WeChat. I didn't know you, and then I hung up. Now I understand, and then WeChat replied that I was dizzy. He answered an ugly ratio. Then he hacked me. I immediately blacked him out and deleted all contact information. On second thought, it's still not quite right. I need to explain to his girlfriend because I was cheated by mistress without knowing it. . .
I keep calling him. Is he answering the phone or pretending? Who are you? I don't know you! Then I said, you give the phone to your girlfriend! He hung up and I called again, hung up and I called again, and finally answered. He asked what you were doing! I said you give your girlfriend your mobile phone! He said no need! Hang up on me again. I called again three times, but he didn't answer.
After a while, a new number on their side called. I think it should be his girlfriend this time. I'll cut to the chase. I said you were his girlfriend, right? She's going to curse. I said calm down first. I called many times just to explain to you. Can you listen to me first? She didn't talk, and then I explained to her. I said that I never knew he had a girlfriend, because he told me from the beginning that he was single, so we started talking. Then we just talked, never met, and did nothing else. Even the chat content is normal, and there is nothing excessive. I won't contact him again, so please take care of your boyfriend! She said, who cares? What do I care? Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend? Do you know that he is married? Why are you haunting him?
I was really shocked. I never thought he would get married, and then I said I really didn't know he was married. He kept telling me that he was single! And he showed me his unmarried certificate before. I said I wasn't pestering him, but he wanted to add me to WeChat to chat with me. If I had known that he had a girlfriend or got married, I wouldn't have talked to him. I never wanted to destroy other people's feelings in the past. I won't contact him again. Please take care of him, and then she was silent for a few seconds and said that I can't control it! I don't care! The phone hung up. Throughout the conversation, I've been hearing him arguing over there. Maybe he's still bothering me to seduce him. ...
Growing up, it may be that there are too many things to experience and too few people to meet. I have never met such a liar. So everyone should be careful.
I chatted with a beautiful girl on the dating website. She said to me: as long as you come to see me, I will be your girlfriend and accompany you to travel!
That was when I was away on business. In the evening, on the dating website, suddenly a girl added me as a friend, and that girl added me, so I agreed directly!
She took the initiative to send me a message saying that you are the only one among the five people I added tonight who didn't take the initiative to chat with me, so I only want to chat with you tonight! Why didn't you take the initiative to talk to me? Am I not beautiful? Don't men like chatting with beautiful women?
At this time, I opened her photo album and saw all the photos of a beautiful girl's life. Really beautiful! So I chatted with girls, and the more I talked, the happier I became. Many of my views are the same, and I feel a little sorry for knowing them late.
From that day on, as long as I am free, I will chat with girls. About a week. The girl suddenly said, I found that I can't live without you. When I can't see your information on my mobile phone, I will feel lost! I told her I felt the same way.
The girl asked me, do you have a girlfriend? I said, no! The girl said, I want to be your girlfriend. Aren't you coming to see me? When I heard the girl say this, I couldn't help but feel excited and said I would go to your place early tomorrow morning!
The next morning, I got on the bus and set off for the girl's city. This girl is as beautiful as the photo! The girl saw me, hugged me and said, I'm your girlfriend now. I will take you shopping! I was so excited!
At lunch, the girl said, it's the first time I meet my girlfriend, don't you send some to continue? I said, ok, I'll take you to buy it later! She said, buying for the first time is very important!
After dinner, she went to the gold and silver jewelry store, and she bought a pendant necklace, more than 5000 yuan! I can see that the girl is happier after receiving the gift from me! I played several scenic spots with girls in the afternoon!
After dinner in the evening, let's find a hotel to stay together! On the way to the hotel, the girl said she wanted to go to the bathroom, and then I couldn't find her. I didn't answer her phone. I called her and turned it off!
I searched the street several times but couldn't find her! Later, I called her at the hotel. Many phones are turned off! I haven't called her since
At this time, I found that I was confused by beauty and cheated!
Summary: I was really confused by the beauty of female netizens, and then derailed! Everyone knows the netizens on dating sites, and a lot of information is untrue, and people are also untrue, so when you want to meet netizens of the opposite sex, you must be careful to prevent being cheated!
Fifteen or six years ago, when I was in my hometown, a netizen chatted with me. He said that he worked in the Public Security Bureau and sold black tea in his spare time. He can earn more than one million yuan a year and invest three thousand yuan. Besides, he asked me to do this business with some money. He chats with me every day, and I suddenly ask him, does your wife and children do this business? He immediately said that his daughter-in-law worked as an accountant in a company and his son opened his own copy agency. I snickered. I earn more than one million a year. Your ancestors have been in business for eight generations, but it's still my turn. However, he said, it's quite profitable, but unfortunately there is no money now. If you can lend me 3 thousand, I'll join in. After that, he stopped talking to me.
I just graduated from school at that time. I am an ordinary university, so it is not easy to find a good job. I submitted my resume online. A few days later, a man contacted me and said that he was satisfied with me and wanted me to work there. He asked me to add WeChat and say it directly. His voice is very magnetic, and I have a good impression on him. He sent me a group of photos, including photos of him playing at the seaside in a luxury car, photos of his trip to Paris, and photos of scenery around the world. Look at him. He's handsome. I think he is a successful man, not an ordinary man.
He said he liked me and wanted to make friends with me. Although I am very happy, I don't even have a job. How can we talk about boyfriends? I told you I wanted this job.
He said that he introduced me to this job, and I don't know whether I like it or not. If I am not at ease, I can go on a field trip in person, stay if I am satisfied, and leave at any time if I am not satisfied.
I said I had no money for the time being, and it was so far away. Actually, I want to see if there are good opportunities in other places. I didn't expect him to send me a trip fee and said that the round-trip ticket would be reimbursed. I don't want to come back at any time. In that case, just trust him once. Although I have never met him, I bought a train ticket to the city he mentioned and got off the train. Sure enough, he picked me up in a luxury car.
He took me to a restaurant for dinner. There are several people at the table. He said they were all his friends, men and women, and they were all my colleagues in the future. Those men and women brag to me about how easy their jobs are and how easy it is to earn tens of thousands of dollars a month. People have to believe it.
After dinner, the handsome boy let me get on the bus and took me for a ride in that city. Later, he took me to the hotel to open a good room, saying that I was too tired for a day, so I went to bed early and had nothing to do one night, and I didn't come until the next morning.
Ask me how I feel. If I like this job and want to join, I will talk to him about friends. If I don't want to talk about friends with him, I have to pay to join.
I don't know him very well. I said, how much will it cost? He said it would be good to pay 5000 yuan, and then use 5000 yuan to earn hundreds of thousands a year. This kind of good thing is not available to others. He told me only because he likes me. He is very busy and will come to see me in the evening.
I'm dubious. He came again in the evening and asked me if I had considered it. Do you want to make friends with him, talk about his successful experience, and start introducing "1040 project" and "chain operation" to me? There are pictures and truth. In his view, success and wealth are as simple as that. However, I suddenly found out that this is not a pyramid scheme? It's impossible. It's all a lie. One of my cousins was cheated, and the whole family was cheated, cheating tens of thousands. They risked their lives to escape, but they were cheated.
At that time, he asked me to take a bath first and have a close communication with me at night. I was so scared that I quickly said, you go first, and I'll wash it after you wash it. I'm thinking about how to get out in my head. If I don't come out, I will be defiled by him.
I was sweating profusely. There are strangers walking around the door. They must be watching me. It's hard to get out. I called the police in an emergency. This person may feel bad. He wants to take me away. There were three or four people holding me and trying to leave the hotel.
In desperation, I jumped directly from the window by the stairs. Although it is the third floor, its leg is broken. The police arrived at that time and caught them all. Later, the police took me to the hospital, asked the doctor to treat me, and contacted my family to take me back.
Thanks to the lesson, I didn't fall for it, or I was really defiled by men and ruined my life. This is the story of a cousin of mine who was cheated by making friends with netizens. Thank you for your invitation.
I haven't registered information on dating sites, so I have no chance to get in touch with scammers on dating sites.
But from my personal point of view, I can suggest that you judge whether the other party is a liar from the following points.
First, beat about the bush about your family information, and dabble in the account and password information of all payment channels such as bank cards and Alipay. In fact, everyone has a lot of vigilance against such swindlers who cheat money and will not be easily fooled.
Second, the feeling of routine. Create an image of Gao Fushuai or a lonely newly divorced bachelor for each other online. Generally, this kind of swindlers who cheat money and color are men with high ranks, who are well versed in women's desires and what it means to scratch their boots. But I want to say, in fact, really successful and honest men don't have much opportunity and time to make friends online. After all, in real life, there are many school-age celebrities around. It is possible to find excitement online occasionally, but it is almost impossible to find a wife online.
Third, a few words can't be separated from a man with sex. Generally, this kind of man mainly loses color, but he can't be called a liar. It depends on the attitude of both men and women.
Fourth, see what level of dating sites you meet. This is easy to understand, just like two people met at Ferrari Super Run Club, so at least the economic ability of both sides is equal, even if they meet liars, they are mostly emotional liars. This is a truth.
Fifth, see how much time the other person is willing to waste on you. Please forgive me for saying the word waste. After all, for a liar, it is a big net. He won't put too much energy into you until he decides whether you are a big fish or a small fish. So judge whether the other party is a liar. At the beginning of the chat, don't disclose any information about your financial appearance to the other party. Just came to chat.
Finally, I want to say that the online world is different from the real world after all. The real world is live broadcast, without the beauty of the filter, bragging will be poked in minutes. There are many rehearsals in the online world, and people may not even know their mothers. Even if you meet a particularly outstanding opposite sex online, you should have a deep understanding of whether the image you create for each other online is your usual image or a beautified image. From ruin is so obvious among internet celebrities, let alone the general public.
Many times, we regard a distant person as a distant dream, but from a distance, it is perfect.
A few years ago, I met a woman online. I thought I had found true love, but I didn't expect her family's love for me to be all fake, which deceived me miserably.
At the age of 28, I downloaded a dating software because of boredom, searched for like-minded people on it, and finally found a beautiful girl. After they made friends, they started talking.
We are very similar in personality, both belong to that kind of quiet, and the constellations are also very matched. I am a Leo, and she is a Sagittarius. We are about the same age and have the same hobbies, and she likes what I like.
So every time I chat with her, I will have the same topic, and we will talk for a long time. That feeling is also wonderful, as if she can understand your heart. So we talked for half a year and finally got to the bottom of it.
After seeing her that day, I found that she was not as beautiful as I expected. She is a little dark, with a good figure and a bad face, but she still feels good on the whole, so I confessed to her that day and formally confirmed the relationship between men and women. She also agreed, so she got together.
I thought she had a formal job, but I didn't expect her to tell me that she had resigned for half a year and never found a suitable one. So I think since she is my girlfriend, I should have no problem raising her. I said you should look for a job slowly. If you can't find me to support you, she said, how can I let you support me? So she submitted her resume and interviewed me every day, but she didn't go to work after looking for it for three months. During that time, she always ate me and accompanied me. Just when I was trying to persuade her to get a job and do it casually.
She suddenly told me that her parents would come to see her, and by the way, let me know her parents and let them know our relationship. I am very happy to hear that my future mother-in-law will come. Of course, I have to express it well, so I specially found a relatively high-end hotel and booked a place in advance to meet my future mother-in-law.
When I saw her parents that day, I always felt something was wrong, because she didn't look like her parents at all, but as her parents were very satisfied with my attitude at dinner, I completely dismissed this concern. They told me that you should treat my daughter well, or we won't let you go. As soon as I hear this, I assure you that I will be good to your daughter. You can trust me.
I thought I met my mother-in-law, and she and I were not far from getting married, but I didn't expect the next thing, I didn't expect it. My girlfriend suddenly told me that it was not easy for her parents to raise her, and her mother always wanted to wear a gold chain, because many female parents there loved and showed off their children's promise. As soon as I heard it, didn't my girlfriend ask me to please my mother-in-law on purpose? So I said how much, I bought it for my mother. Hearing this, my girlfriend was moved to tears and said 15 thousand. My mother has been looking for it for a long time, but it's a pity that I haven't been to work and can't meet her needs.
I said it was nothing, so I immediately transferred 15 thousand to my girlfriend to buy it for her parents My girlfriend gave me a happy kiss.
But the next day, I found that my girlfriend had taken all my valuables. I thought I was robbed, so I didn't answer her phone, so I called the police directly.
I didn't expect the police to call your girlfriend a liar. Many of us reported to the police that she had been cheated. Her parents are fake, and they are a group. As soon as I heard it, I was immediately stunned. This kind of deception is so clever that it is almost impossible to prevent and unbelievable.
Once, I met a girl in Jiayuan. When we first met, I gave her a box of chocolates. She called me unromantic and dragged me to a bar for a drink.
20 14 years, just lovelorn, I was envious when I saw my colleague get married and have children. Why do some of you love, but I am lovelorn? Colleague Lao Zhang said: Dating websites are very popular now. If you play, you may find a girlfriend soon.
I was hungry at that time, so I downloaded a Jiayuan and played for half an hour. Wow, there are so many girls. Many girls send me messages. It seems that it is no problem to find a girlfriend. After half an hour, the app shows that there is a charge, 100 yuan for 3 months, otherwise you can't chat. I thought I spent this 100 yuan for love.
I chatted with a girl the next day and added a girl qq. Less than a week later, the girl said that it was her birthday and hoped that I could accompany her and take me to see her parents. I thought to myself, I am so charming. I will meet my parents in a week. It seems that I can meet my parents soon.
On Friday night, I went to see the girl near Baoan subway station and bought a box of chocolates and a bunch of flowers. When the girl saw it, she laughed and scolded: It's out of date to send chocolate for her birthday, and now they all go to the bar to celebrate.
Where is the bar? Isn't this just a small restaurant? Less than 20 square meters, gloomy. What? ! One fruit bowl, 300 yuan, two sprites and red wine, 500 yuan. Did I meet a UFO? I had a brainwave, prepared to pay, and then pretended to go out to answer the phone. At this moment, I ran and ran to Baoan subway station.
What kind of love is love at first sight, and you can become boyfriend and girlfriend after talking for a week? Naive! Unfortunately, my 100 membership fee, chocolates and flowers are gone.
I am a post-80s single dog, and I dream of getting married, so I cast my net online. A post-95 sister asked me to spend the night with her, saying that she dared not stay alone in a strange place. I was elated at that time, and it was just around the corner to solve my personal problems.
I am a Scorpio man with a traditional personality, which makes people feel a little cold.
So, I have been alone and there is nothing I can do about it.
My mother often says, it's a good thing I'm a man, otherwise I wouldn't take the initiative to teach me a lesson.
I told my mother that it was not that I didn't take the initiative, but that my fate had not yet arrived. I have sent many "invitations" online, and now I am waiting for a reply.
No, I just explained this to my mother, and the notice was sent from the website over there. A post-95 friend added me. Let's get to know him first.
She is very active, and I can feel a little enthusiasm and initiative in text chat.
After about 1 week, we started a voice chat.
Her voice is n times better than Lin Chi-ling's in my heart, and I can't help it.
Later, I took the initiative to send my art photos and asked her to send me her photos.
Her delicate voice refused to send it to me for days. Later, after I was silent, I suddenly sent a beautiful photo, which caught me off guard!
This operation provoked my deepest desire, and I immediately pressed the video call.
I know it's hopeless, but as long as I'm not hung up, I think it's an opportunity.
It's true that I didn't hang up the videophone, but I didn't get through and didn't see her!
Inexplicably lost in my heart, arises spontaneously!
In less than a minute, the SMS rang, and it was from her, asking me to meet this Saturday and go to the provincial capital.
I said yes, I'm less than100km away from production.
On Saturday, we met, and she wore light makeup, which was not only beautiful, but also elegant!
Her gesture gives me a feeling of glad you came.
On that day, we ate together, went shopping and visited the park, and had a good time!
A lot of times, she is still rushing to pay the bill, and she is very enthusiastic about me, although I feel that there is still a sense of distance between us.
For dinner, we ate in a western restaurant and lit a small candle, which was very romantic.
Although the meal is not cheap, I think it's super cost-effective for us to enjoy more than three hours of romantic time.
But after dinner, I found the biggest problem. Now the public transportation has stopped, so we can't go home.
When I was at a loss, she suggested finding a place to live first!
When booking a room, she said that she was afraid of the dark in a strange place and told me not to go and stay with her.
The excitement in my heart can no longer be suppressed!
However, she let me sleep on the ground with a quilt, and she slept on the bed!
One night, I tossed and turned on the quilt, and it took me several hours to fall asleep.
When I woke up, the room was still dark. It turned out that the curtains were closed. In the faint sunshine, I found no one on the bed. She has already left.
When I tried to find her with my mobile phone, I found that my mobile phone, wallet and watch in my pocket were all gone!
By this time, I have realized what happened!
I can only admit my bad luck, and I can't have such fantasies in the future!