"Parenting education" is a hot topic nowadays. I believe everyone has their own views and understandings on how to educate children, but there are also some views that everyone agrees with. For example, "spoil children like killing them", "parents love children, so it is far-reaching" and so on. No matter in good times or bad times, children can only grow up through exercise, which is beyond doubt. However, it is rare for a child to go to war like General Wang Bicheng, let alone a pregnant daughter-in-law.
On the eve of South Xinjiang 1979 counter-offensive, General Wang Bicheng was transferred from Kunming to the commander of Wuhan Military Region. This transfer made the general feel very uncomfortable. The general has been in Kunming for ten years. During these ten years, the general has long been familiar with Kunming, big and small, and knows every boundary pillar on the border. Border friction is inevitable, some can be adjusted, and excessive ones must be countered. In fact, the small problems on the Vietnam-China border have never been broken. However, during the period of 1978, the Vietnamese side kept provoking at our border, which made the Vietnamese army very angry. Arrived at the door, the general always had a fire in his heart, always thinking about how to let Vietnam know that China is not easy to handle.
At that time, the general was still suffering from cerebral thrombosis. In order to fully understand the topography of the Sino-Vietnamese border, regardless of illness, the general went directly to the front line, made surveys, crossed thousands of kilometers, studied various schemes and coping strategies, and made full preparations before the war. However, I received a transfer notice. The general knows that military orders cannot be violated, but it is still difficult to hide his grief and indignation. Before the general left, in order to express his love for southern Xinjiang, he applied to the Central Committee for his sons and women who were not at the front line to participate in the war, and at the same time encouraged them to "not be afraid of hardships and death" and work in the army seriously.
One day, the general's wife Chen Ying said to the general, "Our daughter-in-law will also go to the front." Hearing the news, the general couldn't hide his excitement and repeatedly said, "Good! Good! " The general thought it was natural for his son and daughter to go to the front, but he didn't expect his daughter-in-law to take the initiative to apply for the front. However, before the general's smile fell, Chen Ying whispered in the general's ear: "But my daughter-in-law has been pregnant for two months. What should I do? " Yes, pregnant women are dangerous, not to mention pregnant women going to war. The general thought for a few seconds, then said firmly, "Let him go. I can't go to war, but there are three and a half people in my family. This wish can be realized. This ambition is clear. " In a word, Mrs. Chen Ying was in tears.
Yeah, whose son is not a son? Whose daughter is not a daughter? The general is also a father, watching his children go to war. I believe this feeling of being a father is the same as that of fathers all over the world. However, the general is not only a father, but also a soldier. The battlefield is the home of soldiers, and the general hopes that his children, including his daughter-in-law, can inherit their aspirations. The older generation all hope that what they don't realize can be carried on in their children, and so does General Wang. The general has been trained in Kunming for ten years and has always hoped to take part in the counter-offensive in southern Xinjiang. However, life is incomplete. Life is a flawed art. The general is actually gratified that his daughter-in-law took the initiative to participate in the war. The general's regret was made up by the younger generation. Isn't this a kind of luck? Of course, the general's children can also afford the phrase "raise the flag to hunt". General Wang Bicheng's son and daughter both won the third-class merit in the counterattack in southern Xinjiang.
Sometimes, what is rare is not that you can go to war, but that your children can go to war instead of you. This kind of inheritance and continuation far exceeds the victory of the war itself. This is the uniqueness of General Wang Bicheng. It is beyond the power of ordinary fathers to train their children with "eagle training" and let them grow up quickly in a dangerous environment. The general idea behind this matter and the love for the mountains and rivers of the motherland are also issues worthy of our reflection.
General Wang Bicheng is not only strict with children, but also strict with commanding operations. He is a famous "grim general" in the army. As we all know, when a military order comes out, it must be strictly implemented. But General Wang Bicheng's marching and fighting were much stricter. The general's military orders are called "death orders" in the army. As long as it is the military order given by the general, it is either "desperate" or "desperate"; "Shoot" or "behead". There was a particularly famous experience in the general's marching career.
1943 In April, Chiang Kai-shek and Gu assembled a 12 regiment, with nearly 20,000 people in Lishui and Liyang areas, in an attempt to make a big fight and create the second "Southern Anhui Incident". In fact, at the end of 1942, the Central Committee issued an order to merge the Second Brigade of the New Fourth Army 1 Division with the Second Brigade of 16. In June 5438+the following year1October, the general led his troops to meet with 16 brigade in Lishui, and immediately served as brigade commander of 16 brigade and political commissar of 16 brigade, actively participating in southern Jiangsu and opening up base areas.
At that time, Gu was very arrogant, and the slogan shouted: "Kill, take Chiang alive." In other words, the 16 brigade is helpless, and southern Jiangsu is certain to win. The enemy quickly surrounded the 16 brigade. In the face of the enemy's onslaught, Jiang's political commissar conveyed the superior's request for a breakthrough and invited him to speak. The general said directly: "At present, we are at a critical juncture in the battle and have no time to discuss it in detail. Please make up your mind and we will resolutely implement it. " That is, it can be arranged directly by the political commissar. Jiang's trust is very touching. Thinking that the task was so certain, he added: "If the task cannot be completed, the political commissar will deal with it according to military law." This shows that the situation is really critical.
Jiang Gang finished and turned to look at the general, meaning to let the general say something anyway. Seeing this, the general followed the words of Jiang's political commissar: "Jiang's political commissar said that if the task could not be completed, the head of the regiment and the political commissar would be dealt with by military law. I said that Jiang's political commissar was too good to finish the task, and the head and political commissar looked up to see him. The meeting was dissolved. " Concise, a few words, then the seriousness of the matter clearly. There are no jokes in the army. Everyone knows the seriousness of the matter. The head of the regiment and the political commissar directly killed the eyes and said, "God blocks killing God, and Buddha blocks killing Buddha." The momentum is high. The result far exceeded expectations, not only successfully breaking through, but also conveniently annihilating the enemy 1200 people.
"It takes courage to fight." Morale has a great influence on the war. The ancients didn't cheat me. Of course, the general does have his own unique means of running the army.
General Wang Bicheng's attitude towards what he loves is also worthy of special mention: not possession, but satisfaction.
At the end of 1975, General Wang Bicheng visited a regiment stationed in the border region of Yunnan and conducted spot checks at the same time. This time, the general had a different harvest. There is a lazy monkey in the hostel of this regiment, which is very popular with the general. This lazy monkey is worthy of the word "lazy", only the size of a palm. But I am really lazy to the extreme. I can stay in one place all day. Very cute. Although the general is usually unsmiling, he has no resistance to this small animal, and he is very distressed. Every time the general sees this "lazy monkey", he can't help laughing. From time to time, this has become a great spectacle in the group. It can be said that this kind of lazy monkey is usually loved by everyone. Otherwise, monkeys wouldn't be so close to people. However, it is really surprising that such a general is rarely seen.
What the general didn't know, however, was that it was because he saw that the general rarely met something he liked that he secretly decided to take this "lazy monkey" back to surprise General Wang Bicheng.
Shortly after his return, the general was walking in the yard and accidentally saw a familiar monkey squatting on a tree. Take a closer look. It was the lazy monkey that made the general angry. I thought the general would be happy, but I didn't expect the general to be so angry. Later, the general sent the lazy monkey to Tongyuanshan Zoo.
Each of us has our own preferences. We also spend time, energy and money on our hobbies. Many people in this world want to possess what they like. However, our general is very different. What he wants is fulfillment. Even if this lazy monkey is human again, it is not suitable to live with human beings. In the general's view, it is obvious that a lazy monkey can live better in his familiar environment. Why did he keep it for himself? At the same time, the general likes the lazy monkeys in the border town, not the lazy monkeys in his yard. Different places have essential differences.
At the same time, there is another reason, the general doesn't like it, and his men snare something because they like it. After a long time, some people have inappropriate ideas. This is exactly what the general is worried about. The general wants to tell everyone in this way that even if he knows what I like, he can't do it because the road is blocked.
This is that we are all generals in Wang Bicheng, and we have our own principles and personalities all our lives.