Don't drink before going to work, so as not to make people angry. Moderate drinking after work, under any circumstances, excessive drinking is wrong. Being tired and drunk at work is not only against work discipline, but also out of order. If the tourist receptionist still goes to work drunk, it will seriously damage the quality of service and is absolutely not allowed.
3. It's unacceptable that the contestants will turn civilized and polite communication into rude behavior by not taking part in gambling and drinking, and drinking hard, like fighting. Be polite in persuading wine. When the host or the guests present see that someone's glass is empty, they will first politely ask, "Two more glasses, please". If you put your hand over the mouth of the cup, it means that you don't want to drink, so you don't have to force it. "Lay down one's life to accompany a gentleman" is a lack of self-evaluation of drinkers, which is by no means a polite behavior, and it is rude and immoral for drinkers to get angry after failing to persuade them to drink. It is an inhuman and puzzling faux pas to ignore a person who failed to persuade them to drink. Toast or * * * toast at the dinner party is generally appropriate once, and don't repeat the toast. Forcing others not only fails to pay tribute, but also makes them feel embarrassed and unhappy. Clink glasses and drink according to everyone's wishes. It is unreasonable to judge sincerity by how much you drink.
4. Don't guess the fist order, be noisy and rude. Clapping is not allowed in public places, and boxing is generally not suitable for family private reception. If you need something special, be careful not to disturb your neighbors or go against your host's wishes. But don't use it as a means to force drinking. It is very impolite to vomit when you are drunk. Both sides played vulgar roles, not only hurting their own bodies, but also making a fool of themselves in public and framing others. Even if you drink too much, if you have no virtue, talent and rudeness, you are just a bucket of rice.
5. Avoid getting drunk and out of control. Alcohol can anesthetize people's nerves, make people think disorder, make some people excited, and lose control of their words and behaviors. If you go crazy with alcohol, talk nonsense, say something that is difficult to export at ordinary times, and do something ugly, people will often regret it.
The location of clinking glasses is also very particular. Generally, toast the seniors, and the glass should be slightly lower to show humility. If the other party deliberately asks for a flat head, it must not be higher than the other party's cup.
6. Regarding seats, in high-end hotels, napkins with different shapes are stacked in the wine glasses to distinguish between primary and secondary. The flower shape of the theme is usually relatively high, only one, except for the theme, the flower shape of the napkin is the same; If you are in different hotels, people usually take the south-facing position as the main position, and others take the second place. However, due to modern people's poor sense of direction, the seat facing the door of a private room is generally regarded as the main position (because the door is generally facing south), and the others are regarded as the deputy positions;
7. The toaster must bake bread by itself first, so as to show your sincerity and generosity. People in China like to talk about business at the dinner table, so a person's drinking capacity and wine virtue will also be the reference indicators for your business partners. Most people think that a generous person is more trustworthy, because he has more temperament than an honest and frank person. 1 The time to invite someone to socialize is "when I think we can meet outside the company". Inviting someone too early will make them more alert.
The purpose of entertainment should be clear. It is different for different purposes and places to bring each other closer and deepen their friendship.
When the other party is not relaxed, moving out of the topic of work is the best policy, which will only increase the vigilance of the other party. You must wait until the other person's heart is completely relaxed, and then find an opportunity to talk about work. You can't rush to recycle just because you spend money on entertainment.
Remember, customers are the "protagonists" of entertainment.
Don't always invite "Let's have dinner together!" This agreement must be fulfilled as soon as possible.
Don't bore the other person. Investigate each other's hobbies and communication methods (whether they like to go to other entertainment places after meals, etc.). ) and the traffic problems on the way home. If you have no talent, concentrate on playing the role of the audience. Even if you are not good at drinking, you can't ruin the atmosphere. Just drink it once in a while.
7 buy some household items or small gifts that your wife will like and let the other person take them back. This gift can make the other party more satisfied. The next day, you must thank each other: "Thank you for taking time out of your busy schedule." 1 Compulsory invitation is a no-no..
Think from each other's standpoint and invite naturally.
In principle, the master of one's own side is commensurate with or higher than the other's position.
If the other party is a manager, we are also managers; If the other party is an ordinary salesman, then we also correspond to an ordinary salesman.
Taking the wrong seat will make the host and guest unhappy and make the entertainment fail.
Ordering (Japanese food): Facing the entrance, the center is the position of the guest of honor, followed by the guest of honor from left to right, and the host is close to the entrance.
Chinese food and western food: the guests and guests are located inside the entrance, in turn, just like ordering food.
Bar: Everyone is around, and the guests are in the middle.
Taxi: The position behind the driver is the main guest, followed by the back and central position of the window, and the receptionist sits in the front.
Stand on the other side.
Don't force each other to drink in other hotels.
Try to go where the other person is familiar with, but don't let the other person pay the bill.