About "bereavement"
"Crying home" first appeared in Japan. Studies have shown that crying can relieve tension and anxiety. With the increasing pressure of modern life, many white-collar workers, especially professional women, take the initiative to join the "bereavement", and they cry to relieve the pressure in their hearts.
A few years ago, the "weekend wailing clan" first appeared in Beijing, and soon disappeared in the comments of "Ya is sick".
I have to say that the first appearance of "bereavement" a few years ago was a bit embarrassing. The reporter's search found that there was an example in the news related to it at that time: anonymous white-collar workers mourned every night, and neighbors were frightened and went to the door to find out. They were told, "I am decompressing myself"; An elite person is called a capable and mature person, but he often hides somewhere in the suburbs in his spare time, and his whereabouts are very dense. One day, he will cry in the pear flower in the rain. In short, the mourners at that time, although many theories such as psychology and medicine proved that "tears are beneficial", they still cried quietly, conservatively and implicitly, and the "mourning behavior" of various mourners spread.
It has been some time since the banner of "bereavement" left the Jianghu, and the secret of crying to relieve stress is still passed down from generation to generation. When more and more people find that the tried and tested methods of swearing on the Internet and inviting friends to drink a few mouthfuls of old wine are no longer enough to vent their depression, they begin to think of the ancient sect that has been silent for a long time in 3354. It makes the "bereaved" wash away the lead, and there is no theme website or website. Today, a few years later, "bereaved families" were born again, and their slogan was "advocating green, environmental protection and venting pollution"
Crying is healthier.
Netizen "After Sex" mentioned "Crying Family" in her blog: it is also a kind of psychological catharsis. "Mourner" is more real than "wailing wall" and "Wishing Tree" on the Internet. It actually advocates a way of life and opens a door for your heart. Different from the endless stream of "XX clan" and "bereaved clan", the group characteristics are not obvious. After all, aboveboard "crying" is also a privacy issue. Moreover, psychologists have said that a person is the most prone to tears, and the more open it is, the better the curative effect on psychological problems.
"Want to cry without tears" has become a big problem.
However, the reporter noticed that it is not so easy to become a "bereaved family", and "want to cry without tears" is something that modern people often encounter. On the internet, you can see "sad people" get together and recommend a book that makes people cry, a sad movie, or a song that makes people sing. Among Baidu's newly established crying posts, "After reading articles that make people cry", "After watching videos that make people cry for 5 minutes" and "Do you know some songs that make people cry after listening" have the highest click-through rate.
More and more white-collar workers are crying to spend money.
In fact, when it comes to "mourners", Luo Jun, a native of China, is definitely one of the people who have the most say. Six years ago, he founded the first "Weep" in Nanjing to provide services for those who cry for various reasons.
After crying for six years, Luo Jun not only met many psychologists who came to consult, but also talked about psychological topics in a logical way. "Sad people cry. In fact, what worries me more is the young people who seem to cry. They have something in their hearts, but they don't want to say it, and they don't even know it. "
Experts say that more and more white-collar workers spend money on crying, which exposes their vulnerability and depression. "Although sadness can relieve anxiety to a certain extent, it is positive to correctly position yourself in society and strive to coordinate various social relations."