165438+1October 19 reading and sharing

-Chapters 4 and 5 of "Step Back"

First, pay attention to the potential and speed of growth.

Zuckerberg, president of Facebook, told the author: "It is very important to measure whether a job is suitable for you, and there is only one indicator, that is, whether this position can tap your potential and make you grow rapidly." ? That's true. If there is a rocket in front of you, and you know that the mission of the rocket is where you want to go, then please don't ask what seat you will take after going up, you go up. At work, we are always confused by salary and position. We chose stability for a higher position and a little advantage, but lost many possibilities for growth. Young people, if possible, choose a position that will force you to keep learning new skills.

Second, women please put aside the "crown syndrome"

The "crown syndrome" is simply to rely on your own efforts, thinking that as long as you work hard enough, you will definitely get the attention of your leaders, get the care of your tutors, and wear your own "crown" in the workplace. But the reality is often not the case. Mentors and leaders will pay more attention to young people who actively seek resources and take the initiative to find their predecessors to learn and solve problems. Those people don't seem to be very smart, and they don't pay much attention to their image in the eyes of others, but they are really good at exploring and solving practical problems. In the modern workplace, there is no shortage of young people who work hard, and there is no shortage of young people who can integrate resources to solve practical problems.

Third, ask the tutor how to solve the problem. Don't express too much emotion.

Anyone who is in a guiding position in the workplace bears a heavy responsibility and has a lot of work to deal with. They guide young people out of public welfare and hope to pass on many good methods they have accumulated, instead of spending a lot of time listening to one person complain. Although complaining is effective, you will feel more comfortable. But as a young man, seniors can give you few opportunities to study one-on-one, and it's a pity that you use it to complain. Because you can learn to solve problems first, go running and eat a big meal after work to digest your emotions.

2. group sister:

Take time as a friend.

Time cannot be managed. Be sure to open your mind, see clearly and understand that the problem lies with yourself, and the problems you face have little to do with time, management and time management. There is only one core idea to solve the problem-everything depends on accumulation. We firmly believe that the power of accumulation, time is your friend, otherwise it is your enemy.

3. Sister Yu Man:

Super brain.

I remember before, I often boasted that I could do two things at the same time. I think this is my unique skill, and I will be very proud. Now I find this is not a good phenomenon. Not only can it not improve the speed and quality of work, but it is counterproductive.

Thinking too many things at the same time and doing too many things at the same time can't really concentrate and do things well, so the result of things will be discounted, and then you will feel anxious.

On the contrary, at that point in time, I forced myself to focus on what I should do now, not thinking about anything else, not thinking about anything else, and doing it with my heart. In the process of repetition, I will calm myself down and pay attention to the present wholeheartedly. Only by doing one thing wholeheartedly can I feel at ease and achieve peace of mind!

4. Sister Chan Juan:

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Title: You are my dream.

Reading Chapter: Endless Thinking-Come on, Cai Zhizhong.

Read excerpts:

? I think no matter what a person does, it is difficult to do it without that infatuation and love. And this kind of "obsession", if you don't insist at first, will be diluted after a long time. Only in the constant pursuit-the pursuit of "never giving up a step", can people see the palace that they may enter after years of hard work.

? This mental journey is very bitter and tiring, but I believe Zhizhong doesn't feel bitter. In his selfless pursuit, all kinds of trivial things he experienced in the process of learning will inevitably give him the same price.

? Many things in the world, as long as they are willing, will not be hurt because of how much suffering they have suffered. Instead, they left precious life marks and traces, which are indispensable experiences and tempering in their growth.

After reading this chapter, I really want to read the cartoons of Lao Zi Shuo, Zhuangzi Shuo and Liezi Shuo!

5. Sister Mao Mao:

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Reading and Sharing: Learning and Writing The Analects of Confucius

Xia Zi said: "The sage changes color; Parents can do their best; As a gentleman, you can pass through him; Make friends and keep your word. Although I have not studied, I will call it learning. "

: surnamed Bu, a famous businessman, word, Confucius, famous for his literature. 44 years younger than Confucius, born in 507 BC. After the death of Confucius, he publicized Confucius' thoughts in Wei State.

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Xia Zi said: "One can respect saints and despise women;" Serve your parents and do your best; Serving the monarch can give his life; Communicate with friends, speak honestly and keep your credit. "Such a person, even if he says he hasn't learned anything, I'll say he has."

Xia Zi said in The Analects that husband and wife live in harmony and are good to parents, monarchs and friends. What else do you need to learn? Hehehe, you learn very well. Even though he said he hadn't studied, he was modest. He learns very well. On the other hand, we can say that the purpose of study is to be a good person. Doing people well is actually doing these things well.

Going back to the color change of virtue, there are many criticisms from later generations, and I don't want to narrowly interpret it as the color change of virtue (emphasizing virtue over beauty), especially the overemphasis on not paying attention to beauty, which is easy to be understood as our Confucianism is inhuman, right? Confucius himself said, "eat drink man woman, man's greatest desire is to survive", which is definitely not anti-human. So there is another explanation: xian xian, that is, I respect him very much when I see this sage. I regard him as a saint. If it is easy, it means change. Changing my color is my expression. It means that when I saw a saint, my face (expression) immediately changed color, and I respect him very much. Or I can learn from him, and I respect the virtuous, which is also an explanation.

If it is the second explanation, it is that everything else is secondary. First of all, you should respect a very excellent talent and learn from him. You even changed your face and showed great respect. I have no culture, but I envy you. Very cultured, right? My face changed immediately, which can explain.

Therefore, when we study ancient Chinese, every word in ancient Chinese has many explanations, and often all the explanations have their own reasons. Don't stick to one end and say, "It must be like this!"

6. Bei Beixian:

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The title is "May you grow up slowly"

Read Fabres's Children Who Like Insects Today.

This story tells about his close relationship with insects, especially his childhood. Fabres liked to observe and doubt everything since he was a child, and kept exploring and curious about animals and plants. For example, we know that grasshoppers can sing through observation.

The seven-year-old school environment also created opportunities for him to observe animals, and the study room was so useful. It is both a school and a kitchen; This is a bedroom and a dining room, a chicken nest and a pigsty. Because the back door of the classroom is the yard, you can also watch a group of chickens scraping around the hens and pigs rolling freely.

Fables's teacher is also very versatile. He keeps property for an out-of-town landlord. He takes care of a big dovecote; He was also in charge of commanding the harvesting of hay, apples, chestnuts and oats. The teacher is also a barber, a member of the choir, and is responsible for the clock on the top of the village church.

The venue of their summer school is on the haystack, which is where Fabres met frogs. In the open-air school, the teacher asked them to kill snails ... Fables' interest in animals and plants naturally increased and deepened.

7. Sister Fangfang:

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Good-looking skins are the same, and interesting souls are one in a million.

Improving efficiency is the most effective way to be lazy.

The book "Energy Management" emphasizes: We are in a hurry, facing the heavy workload, trying to arrange every day as full as possible; We wound up the spring, but we crossed it completely. How many hours a day are fixed, but the energy we can mobilize is not like this. Because of this, there has always been a habit-no matter how busy, no matter how late, give yourself time to return to energy every day ~

I like my recent work status very much. There will be neither too many nor too few students. The work will be completed one by one, and the efficiency will be greatly improved. So I also have time to be lazy and enjoy life more ~

Find your own rhythm, and deal with the most important and brain-burning things in your best state, Gan Badie [Yi tooth]

9. Kiko Xiunv:

Share today: If a person knows enough about human nature, he will become both profound and tolerant when he looks at people, including his own eyes. In this view, all privacy can be attributed to a universal human phenomenon, and all personal experiences can be transformed into spiritual wealth.

10. Sister Tu Tu:

Today, I finished all the examinations and was discharged from the hospital.