While everyone cheered, some storms under the stadium also made people frown.
Horton, the silver medalist who won the second place in this round, refused to stand on the podium and take a photo with Sun Yang at the award ceremony.
In an interview with reporters, Sun Yang said:
I know many people don't like me, but my gold medal is the best way to fight them back.
Sun Yang took a photo with Deti, and Horton stood under the podium.
Horton and other players refused to take photos with Sun Yang on the same stage, whatever the reason, they all left a "can't afford to lose" attitude.
In fact, many people can't be open-minded and it doesn't matter whether they win or lose. Adults are still like this, and children may not be spared. As a parent, do you know the competitive spirit of children? Have you ever taught your children that "loss is not terrible, loss is terrible"? How should parents guide their children to establish a correct concept of winning or losing?
0 1 lose if you can.
Regarding winning or losing, parents should first correct their attitude. If you can afford to lose, so can your children.
Bai once said, "We should not only teach children how to win, but also teach them how to lose beautifully".
In "Super Brain" program, the confrontation between Italian teenager Andre and China talented teenager Li Yunlong left a deep impression on people.
Li Yunlong once mistakenly thought that he had lost, collapsed on the spot, collapsed in his seat and cried, and could no longer stand up; But when I learned that I was the final winner, I smiled again.
/kloc-at the age of 0/2, he showed extreme fear of failure and strong desire to win.
And Andre's performance, but let everyone see the love and tolerance of a child who can't afford to lose.
When he saw Li Yunlong crying, he also shed tears; When he saw Li Yunlong's success, he gave him a big hug and said that he had cried too much just now, and he wanted to comfort him.
The host said: I was moved by Li Yunlong's victory, but Andre's tears conquered me. Many netizens said: Andre still won.
Li Yunlong may be a microcosm. Nowadays, more and more children become "unable to afford to lose".
Some parents regard their children as their personal belongings and show off their capital, and they are "both proud and proud" with their children. Children can't afford to lose, but parents can't.
If you want your child to have a correct view of winning or losing, even if you lose, you must lose beautifully. Parents should first adjust their mentality, set an example and tell their children that we can't afford to lose.
Respect each other's achievements
When the child enters the competitive state, tell him how to treat his competitors.
Liu Xiang once said: Without an opponent, there is no motivation, and I will always thank my opponent.
In sports, if there is no opponent's Excellence, how can we highlight the hard-won champion?
When the child enters the competitive state, parents can try to divert their children's attention from their competitors when they aim at the results of the competition.
We should not only strive to compete and compete, but also learn from our opponents to make ourselves shine.
When children focus on the efforts and seriousness of their competitors, I believe they will accept it more calmly, no matter what the final result is, because they have "learned" and "understood" in the competition. At the same time, they will also motivate themselves, learn from each other and make themselves stronger.
"You are excellent, but I am not bad. If you are honored, then I will catch up. "
Just like Dānlín and Li Zongwei, their respect for each other and their achievements are examples for children to learn.
After Li Zongwei announced his retirement, Dānlín wrote: "No one accompanies me when I play alone" and shared a song "Don't cry, my friend".
When a child understands that respecting his opponent means respecting himself, he will get more things in the game, not just paying attention to winning or losing.
I still remember that the slogan of the 20 12 London Olympic Games was "Influence a Generation".
At that time, a reporter asked: "How does sports affect a generation?"
The official of the London Olympic Organizing Committee answered this question:
Only when you can bear failure can you win.
At the same time, we should also tell our children that only if they can't afford to lose can they win.
In the fifth season of "Where's Dad?", the mother group made a collective appearance. Jasper lost in a competition. He cried and said to his mother Cherrie Ying, "But I don't want to lose. I want to win every day. "
Cherrie Ying patiently comforted: "It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. Sometimes it's just luck Never mind, ok? " ?
"Life won't win forever, you know? You don't win every time in your life, sometimes you lose, sometimes you win, just be happy. "
Helping children adjust their mentality and let him accept the idea that he can lose is also helping him to win.
We should educate our children that losing is not terrible, but not losing is the most terrible.
This is the case in the competition field, and so should the pursuit of academic performance. It is very important for parents to treat their children's studies and achievements correctly and guide them to establish a healthy learning mentality.
I hope our children can learn to win without arrogance and lose with grace when they grow up. Instead of paying attention to winning or losing, we should pay more attention to establishing a positive view of winning or losing and learn to pay attention to things other than the results of the game.