What does this Niu Wa say? She is one month older than Yan Yan, a little over two years old. It is estimated that her literacy has exceeded 500. As long as you take out a word to test her, you can give the correct answer.

Language ability develops rapidly and communication is smooth and accurate.

Some time ago, my father saw her sitting in a chair with children's English at hand in front of the playground. It seems that English enlightenment has begun, and words can be clearer when you hear them.

Niu Wa's father is very keen on education. He hired a nanny who graduated from college with a monthly salary of 3000, which is not low in this small city.

But usually, I don't want a nanny to cook and buy food. The only job is to hold the baby by her side, explain things around her, and teach her to talk and read, so this is the result.

Seeing this calf, to be honest, the mother of a two-year-old girl is a little upset!

This year's baby promotion event in Shanghai was reported by the media, because I often go to a parenting forum, so I know a little.

This past weekend, it was the day when private schools in Shanghai were promoted to primary school exams. Many parents posted on the forum that their anxiety could be seen on the screen before they were informed of the interview results.

As we all know, private schools in Shanghai are naturally popular because of their good conditions, excellent resources and good grades, which also makes it an indisputable fact that degrees are hard to find.

Many parents started a 360-degree life with their children in order to enter school, or a few years ago, such a "Juvenile Niu Wa Configuration Table" was circulated on the Internet.

With the increase of enrollment year by year, the level of Niu Wa today can only be higher, and the contents and methods of school inspection are becoming more and more exciting, which is why the screen has been updated these days.

Not only test children, but also test parents, and gather parents to answer questions online ... Not only should parents fill in their occupations, but also grandfathers, grandfathers and grandmothers' academic qualifications and graduation schools should be dug out for investigation. ...

However, seeing the standard of raising children, as a parent, I am a little insecure. To tell the truth, it is estimated that some efforts are needed to truly meet the standards of Poitiers.

And really, when our parents are caught by the whole trend, how many of them can stick to themselves and keep calm when they see other people's Niu Wa frequently? It's just a question of how much you can accept.

I have never been a mother who is particularly keen on chicken blood. What's so special about two-year-old Yan Yan? I thought about it for a long time. Besides reading more picture books, I can also sing some nursery rhymes, which basically belong to the level of ordinary children in my heart.

But every mother is like this, no matter how calm you are within two years old. But when you are two years old, the education you can give at the age of two is completely different. It's hard to completely calm down when you see Niu Wa around you.

She was in a hurry when she was born. Her mother should learn to change diapers, learn to breastfeed and learn how to take care of the baby. People who don't sleep or eat all day.

When the child is one year old, we should teach her to start walking, comfort her when she falls, teach her to speak, and teach her to know things and the world. But these are all one-way, although children have some feedback, but not as much as we thought.

But when the child was almost two years old, I found that it was really different from the previous education.

The child grows faster than you think, and suddenly there is a little baby who can think, think and talk back. At this time, the previous education methods need to be greatly changed.

In fact, many parents have two main attitudes towards their children's education when communicating with me:

One is that I don't want my children to work so hard too early. Therefore, adhering to happy education means letting children play wildly with joy, not attending early education or training classes, and not teaching her anything. Just keep playing, and when you reach school age, you will be sent to school and entrusted with school education.

There is also a pure chicken blood parent. Explain the word chicken blood, which is a new word.

It is said that injecting a small amount of chicken blood into the human body can prolong life and excite the brain, and it is said that Chiang Kai-shek always keeps healthy by pumping chicken blood. Now a group of people are called "Chicken Blood Mom/Dad/Mom and Dad", and their slogan is "Cultivate scholars like Niu Wa all the year round".

These parents can't wait for their children to start teaching ABC as soon as they are born, for fear that their children will be sent to early education classes before they are one year old. I started learning English when I was less than two years old. Needless to say, kindergarten, interest classes take turns, organizational brush questions, vowed to train children to all-round Niu Wa anyway.

In fact, the attitude of these two parents is a bit extreme.

Of course, parents should be a little concerned about their children's preschool education. When you envy other people's Niu Wa, in fact, your every move corresponds to your child's growth and performance.

Are you afraid of danger when you get to the middle class and don't let your children touch scissors? Do you think it's a waste of money for her to buy handmade books instead of doing them? Don't you like her plasticine? The house is in a mess. If so, how do you expect her to be practical?

Do you think money is dirty and you don't want to touch it? But that's the original concept of logarithm.

Have you ever interrupted her when she was absorbed in playing games or reading books, in order to let her eat, drink and eat fruit, or just for fun? If so, her attention will be destroyed.

Have you ever laughed at the demands of collective teachers in kindergarten classes? If so, where does a proactive and participatory baby come from?

When you think other children are good at thinking, ask yourself, did you play all kinds of maze books with your baby when she was very young?

When you think other children can read a lot and your own baby is not interested, ask yourself, do you read with her parents every day?

When you think other children's English is good, ask yourself, have you ever attended an English training class to help your baby review it? Did you help her expand?

Every genius you see is not born out of thin air, but behind it is the timely guidance and education of parents. Personally, I follow the following rules for education under the age of three:

Within one year old, mainly follow the development of physical behavior, carry out targeted training and guidance, and pay attention to healthy growth;

At the age of two, it is mainly sports training and mother tongue language training, and foreign language enlightenment can be carried out in time, mainly some nursery rhymes;

If you can speak your mother tongue well within three years old, you can start Chinese literacy and foreign language training, logic training and mathematics training to lay a good foundation for the future;

Language enlightenment is very important, mainly speaking and listening. The way I use now is picture book reading, and the foreign language enlightenment after that also follows this way. Later, I will talk about education between the ages of two and three, mainly for my own education, but also for study and practice.

As the mother of a two-year-old child, my educational attitude is to educate according to age and developmental characteristics, not too chicken blood and not too free-range.

Preschool education should respect a big principle, that is, no matter what she is asked to learn, it will be more effective to keep her interest in learning.