Part 1
At first, when the host, Mr. He Fang, took us into meditation in a soft voice, 372 students from all over the country slowly and quietly relaxed. Then, Ms. Xu Hong took the stage. She took us dancing on all fours to open the connection. Unfamiliar venues, huge crowds, and venues that are not easy enough really make us feel more relaxed and comfortable after the connection is opened. Then the teacher introduced us to the group members by drawing and narrating. At that time, our group C 10 had the first skirmish, but it quickly dissipated in the process of everyone's input to complete the goal. In the gradually warm atmosphere, we have the team name and slogan of this group: love and dreams fly together.
the second part
In the afternoon, three groups of representatives came on stage to perform pantomime: left-behind children and elderly grandparents, young couples working hard in big cities, and representatives of group A created and practiced such a creative and meaningful pantomime side by side during a short lunch break. In addition to admiration, I was moved by my nose.
the third part
The content of the afternoon mainly revolves around the happy "home". What impressed us the most was the practice of "writing down 20 things your partner has done for you will make you feel that he loves you, and vice versa". When I write what I want him to do for me, I can write more than 10 articles through thinking, but when I write about the other person, I find it more difficult.
We often give what we think to each other, but we don't think about whether what we give is what the other party wants most.
A happy family lies in good communication, high-quality companionship and "I know you". The reason is simple, we all seem to understand it, but it is really difficult to do it.
part four
The exercise of happiness consciousness started us to study the next day. From mindfulness to gratitude, humility, praise, joy, and finally letting go, it took me less than 10 minutes to fully engage in the experience. After writing, I have a brand-new feeling. Happy home also sent a set of happiness perception bracelets to each student, thanking them.
The fifth part
Bubble ball and AB trust each other. When we exchange our feelings of independence, separation, attachment and trust, we have a deeper understanding of the current relationship.
When writing about the feelings of independence, separation and resources for 5 minutes, deeply analyze yourself. When sharing in the group, when our feelings are not read by our classmates, our eyes are full of tears.
Part VI
Through the crowd, I have a feeling of being in the tide of society, and I feel that people are really limited by the social environment.
Part VII
In the evening, I participated in the case study of Baojun's family arrangement as an observer. I have read some books written by my family before, and I am very interested and find them very useful. This is my first time to watch them live. I didn't expect this case to take three hours. I was very moved by this process, and many observers present cried several times. This experience of family arrangement really surprised me, but based on my past study and experience, I think it is understandable.
In the evening, I went back to Li Wen's apartment, wrote down the records of family arrangements, and then wrote down a summary of the day's homework. It's early in the morning.
Part VIII
On the third morning, I was amazed at the job fair. It was definitely a great tool for mutual promotion and practical application.
Part 9
Thailand's short video "Innocent Kindness" moved the audience to tears. Look after the children and let them be themselves. On the third morning, when I was talking about this content, I happened to see Sagulu share with me the night before that "the best way to raise children is to improve yourself, not to change children", which is really frequent.
Later, Teacher He Fang took the stage to share the inner conflict when the black face emphasized discipline and recalled the trauma of parents quarreling when they were young. Nie teacher Xu Hong said, don't worry, waiting is the best treatment.
When sharing "what factors make parents, adults and children" across groups, we feel that the thinking of the group next door is more mature than that of our group.
Part 10
Finger dancing, eye-closing dancing and dancing really reflect my understanding and demand for partnership. I shared my feelings with my classmates in the group, and I felt that hers was the same. It's a nice gadget.
Part 1 1
From childhood to adulthood, I saw my parents, the happiness and anxiety in the process of growing up, the similarities between my personality and my parents' personality, and how my personality was formed in the family environment. See, feel, and start healing. The mutual sharing in the group also made me see the brand of different family models on children. Feeling. This is a very good tool and is widely used.
Parts 12
The four-day course soon ended, and we experienced many exploration and guidance skills. What moved me was the way Teacher Nie interacted with students, how to respond to students, and how to establish contact with students, instead of isolating students to show their professionalism or defensiveness. I think this is exactly what I lack at present, but I didn't realize it before. This time, suddenly, I saw it.
I am very grateful to the four teaching assistants Huang Xuyun, Shen Bo, Gao and Feng Zhihua. I am very grateful to the family members of C 10/2, and I am very grateful to Teacher Nie and all the staff of Happy Family.
In the spring of 20 17, we sow the seeds and wait for the flowers to bloom.