Living for yourself and living happily has become a slogan shouted by many people.

What is good for oneself and how to live happily, many people often have no solution.

Some people think that buying beautiful clothes, eating delicious food and spending money on themselves are all good for themselves. Personally, I think that if a person really wants to be good to himself, he should not only satisfy himself materially, but also enrich himself spiritually.

You can't be too twisted when you are alive. Once distorted, it is easy to become boring, because it is more real.

People who twist bars at ordinary times make people feel awkward, especially competitive, and everything in their mouths has changed.

Take urging marriage as an example. Some older women who have passed the marriageable age have been urged to marry by relatives and friends and taken to blind date because they have not been married for a long time. They are unwilling or disdainful of others and are not attracted.

In fact, it is normal for blind date to look down on each other. Some people especially can't accept this result, and always feel that it is someone else's problem.

A man without a car or a house said that his toad wanted to eat swan meat; Men are filial to their parents and say that they are mother's treasures, and they have no opinion; Men say you are a little old, afraid you don't like having children. The woman is angry: you are half a catty yourself.

In fact, when you meet such a man, just say goodbye. If you have to go, you won't be happy in the end.

Once I saw a blind date with my own eyes, which almost made me angry. To tell the truth, a man is really not a reliable man. He said a few words of no to her, and she had to fight back. As a result, the man showed his shameless nature and directly scolded my friend all afternoon.

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I always think that getting married or not is just a way of life, so there is no need to care too much. There are many unhappy people who are married and many people who live alone.

It is good to get married, but it is also very happy not to get married. There is no need to start to doubt yourself and deny yourself because of a few words from others.

If a person is really good to himself, he must first affirm everything about himself: you are very good and don't need self-criticism or introspection. Although it seems to be blind self-confidence and self-comfort, in fact, if you think about it carefully, don't people become stronger and happier through constant self-comfort?

It doesn't matter what you really are. In fact, few people care what you look like. What you have to do is not to please others, but to please yourself.

I saw a problem on the internet a while ago. A female friend said that she was 36 years old, not married or even planning to get married. She thinks this kind of life is very good, but friends around her advise her to find one before she is 40, but it will be difficult after she is 40.

At first, she did not waver. As more and more people came to persuade her, at last, her mind changed.

She was persuaded by her friends to go on blind dates, go outdoors and meet more new friends. Some people show affection for her, while others reject her. In short, after meeting many people, she found that none of them were suitable.

The biggest trouble brought by frequent blind date is that time is not free and self-confidence is not as good as before. She became more afraid of marriage.

Finally, she went to see a psychiatrist. At the doctor's suggestion, she stopped dating and began to learn to follow her heart. She doesn't listen to the advice of people around her and does what she likes every day. She feels much happier.

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Women in this society, as long as they are not married, will always be told that it is wrong not to get married. Women should marry a good man while they are young.

After marrying a good man?

Can life really be happy? Many friends have been married for many years, relying on endurance and children to insist on not divorcing.

Love will disappear with time one day. Once there is no love between men and women, people's selfish nature will be exposed, they will think more and more about themselves and live comfortably, but their partners will be chilling because they are ignored.

It is not better for a hundred people to have a hundred ways of life. Only when everyone finds his own way can he enjoy the rest of his life.

To live a full life is to live the life you expect according to your own wishes, not the life imposed on you by others.

Some people are suitable for marriage, and some suitable people can choose to get married; Some people are not suitable for marriage. Without a loving partner, they can choose not to get married.

Never mind why people want to get married, whether people have to get married. Think more about what will happen if they don't get married, whether they can have happiness without marriage, and how can they have happiness.

When a person's mood changes, the whole person's state will also change. Instead of dwelling on what you can't change, focus on what you can control.

Love will come sooner or later. For you who are single, as long as you wait patiently and confidently, it will come for you one day.

If life is destined to be lonely, then enjoy the present and live your own life.

Two people have two people's happiness, and one person has one person's happiness. As long as we try not to compete with life and live every day to the fullest, it is good for ourselves.

To be really good to yourself is to eat, drink, and be merry, and at the same time, to achieve real inner satisfaction more than these simple pleasures. With this mood, you will find that life is full of surprises every day.