Men and women
Men choose cigarettes and women choose lipstick; Men choose cars and women choose houses; Men choose drinks and women choose tea; Men choose ambition, women choose to care; Men choose silence, women choose nagging. In the emotional world, men and women make different choices.
Men choose love, women choose love.
Love includes not only love, but also other messy things that start or end with the word "love", so the slogan of men is "Love the new and never tire of the old". Women, on the other hand, are much more single-minded, but they also have shortcomings. Once "love" is gone, there is no "love". This blow is as powerful as a nuclear explosion for men.
Men choose quantity, women choose quality.
A sentence that men often show off after drinking is "how many women have I had"; And women will pour out their feelings for lovers in front of their girlfriends. So from this perspective, men are more despicable than women. But not all men are mean, and what men vomit after drinking is not necessarily "the truth", and there is quite a lot of water. You can believe all the "quantities" a person says, or you can believe none of them.
Men choose face, women choose interests.
Men dare not bargain because of face. They would rather give their liver and stomach than put down their glasses. Even if they borrow money, they should invite guests. Women don't play with appearances. Men who care too much about face often win women for a while, but not for a lifetime, because after marriage, women will definitely prefer cautious men to generous men.
Men choose persistence, women choose infatuation.
Persistence is for career, infatuation is for love, so the man who sings "bold and beautiful" is hypocritical. For men, Jiangshan is always the first, and beauty is only an accessory behind Jiangshan. Women's infatuation deserves praise and sympathy. It's sad that women put all their hopes on love and men. Therefore, women's infatuation must first be based on self-reliance and self-improvement.
Men choose the world, and women choose men.
Man's ultimate choice is the world. Because he chose the world, man built planes, ships, trains and spaceships, which proved that man's choice was ambitious and invincible. When a person chooses this world, he chooses passion, tolerance, patience and adventure. Women finally choose men. In order to choose men, they chose tenderness, coquetry, test and insurance. But in the final analysis, they chose the world. There is no fundamental difference between men and women at this point.
Physiological differences between men and women
Women's brains age quickly, while men's wrinkles grow late.
"Men and women are different" is an old saying. A few days ago, a new study by New Zealand's "Encyclopedia Ranking Network" pointed out that there are great differences between men and women in terms of health status, aging speed, optimal childbearing age and painful feelings.
This study confirms the differences between men and women from a scientific point of view for the first time, which has a good guiding significance for the future health care direction and methods.
Let's ask experts to give you some advice and tell you how to deal with it in health. 1. Women's six systems are more fragile. Men and women are different not only in the chest and reproductive system, but also in many organs such as brain, heart, stomach and skin. Dr Marianne Lecato, director of the Gender Difference Program at Columbia University, pointed out that in many diseases, men and women behave differently.
Immune system diseases. Women's immune system fluctuates greatly. Although they live longer than men, they are more likely to suffer from difficult diseases such as lupus erythematosus, rheumatoid arthritis and multiple scleroderma.
Heart disease. The first heart attack in women is later than that in men 10 years, but once it occurs, it is often fatal.
Motor system diseases. Women's ligaments are much more fragile than men's, and it is more difficult to recover after injury. Studies have shown that ligaments are the most fragile during menstruation and one week after menstruation. Lu Yifan, a professor at the Department of Sports Medicine of Beijing Sport University, suggested that women should do less sports with quick response and high accuracy, such as kicking shuttlecock, and do less sports that need to move left and right, such as dancing and playing ball, and try to avoid lifting heavy objects.
Nervous system diseases. Women are more likely to suffer from depression. After menopause, women are more likely to suffer from dementia than men of the same age. Therefore, postmenopausal women may wish to take hormone replacement therapy such as oral estrogen, and often drink soy milk and eat soy products to make up for the lack of estrogen.
Diseases of digestive system. The chemical composition of male and female saliva is different. Even if they eat the same food, women need more time to digest it. They are three times more likely to suffer from chronic constipation and twice as likely to suffer from intestinal diseases.
Diseases of skeletal system. Women are more prone to severe skeletal atrophy than men in their later years. Therefore, women should take calcium supplementation as a lifelong nutrition course, and usually eat more high-calcium foods such as milk, eggs and bean products.
After getting sick, women take more medicine than men. Women are twice as likely as men to have side effects. When using anesthetics, women wake up 7 minutes earlier than men on average.
2. Men have high IQ and women have good language.
Male brain weighs 100g, and there are 4% more brain cells than female, so the average IQ is 3-4 points higher than female. But women have denser cranial nerves and stronger language skills. More men stutter than women. Men and women also have very different memories. Women are good at remembering details, while men are good at remembering the overall situation. When remembering the road, women usually determine the location according to the landmark buildings. Men are better at remembering kilometers.
3. Men can only be single-minded.
Women love reading novels more than men, and will cry and laugh with the protagonist. British psychologist SimonBoronCohen said that women have an "emotional" brain and men have a "mechanized" brain. It is doomed that women often put themselves in others' shoes, while men are indifferent and unable to understand people. Women can be single-minded, men can only be single-minded. Women don't delay chatting with others, while men must concentrate when talking with others.
Women are more sensitive to pain than men.
If your girlfriend screams because she scratches her finger, don't laugh at her femininity. Because women have 34 nerve fibers per square centimeter of skin, while men only have 17. Therefore, women are more sensitive to pain than men, especially patients with migraine and chronic neck and shoulder diseases. About 70% of patients with chronic pain are women.
5. Women's brains decline quickly, while men's wrinkles appear late.
After menopause, the aging of female brain is more obvious than that of male. As they get older, they will enter Alzheimer's disease earlier than men. Except baldness, men generally age more slowly than women, especially the skin, and wrinkles appear later than women.
6. Women have a good sense of smell and men have good eyesight.
In the sense of smell, women's perception ability is stronger than that of men, and they can distinguish tiny taste differences; Visually, men's night vision ability is better than women's, and they can better identify the direction, while women can better perceive the color. There are more men than women with color blindness, mainly red and green color blindness.
7. Women lack calcium and men lack zinc.
Although couples eat at the same table every day, they have different nutritional needs. Women are most vulnerable to calcium and iron deficiency, and men are most vulnerable to zinc deficiency. Wang Xingguo, chief nutritionist of the Nutrition Department of Dalian Central Hospital, said that women aged 19-50 need about18mg of iron every day on average. In contrast, an average of 8 mg per day for men is enough. Women need about 800 mg of calcium every day before the age of 50, and more than 1000 mg after the age of 50. In contrast, although men also need calcium supplements, the probability of osteoporosis is much smaller than that of women. Men should eat more zinc-rich foods such as seafood, pork liver, beef, laver and sesame.
8. It is best for men to have children after 30.
French geneticist Maurice's research shows that the quality of male sperm reaches its peak at the age of 30, and then it can last for five years. Therefore, male fertility is best in A.
Women make decisions faster than men; Men like stormy work and take a break every once in a while, while women like the same pace of work; The woman didn't take out the key to open the door until she got home, but the man had already taken it out; Women make a shopping list before going to the store. Men only remember going shopping when there is nothing in the refrigerator. When you get lost, women will quickly stop to ask for directions, while men will wander around and run the wrong way.
10. Men value results, while women value processes.
The biggest difference in communication between men and women is that men are used to talking about "results" first, grasping the key points quickly and solving them immediately; Women are used to emphasizing the "process", starting from scratch and finally summing up the results and reasons of things. In this regard, Wang Guorong, director of Suzhou Jung Psychological Counseling Center, suggested that when a wife complains to her husband, she might as well mention the key points first and then share the process. Don't make the other party impatient because she can't grasp the key points of the problem; Husbands should also know that nagging is a process of emotional relief for wives.
Men and women are very different.