The story of the donkey eating bananas is very enlightening to us.
The clever master hung a bunch of bananas in front of the donkey. If the donkey wants to eat bananas, it must leave. When the donkey is moving forward, so are the bananas. Donkeys can never eat bananas, but donkeys are always trying to move forward. Keep going, this is the effect that the owner wants.
Of course, we can laugh at the stupidity of donkeys. Even if I am tired to death, I can't eat bananas. We can also laugh at the master's cunning. Stupidity or cunning is beyond the scope of discussion. What we should pay attention to is: why can donkeys inspire the motivation to forge ahead?
Obviously, eating bananas is the ideal and pursuit of donkeys. It is under the call of this ideal goal that the strength of the donkey is aroused and shows great vitality.
It can be concluded that once the ideal is established and the pursuit goal is clear, it can greatly stimulate motivation. This is exactly what I want to say to college students who lack motivation!
Do you want to have the motivation to learn? Then, please establish your ideal first!
If people live without ideals, they are like boats drifting on the sea, drifting east and west with the direction of the wind and waves. One minute it's here, the other I don't know where it will drift. Because there is no certain expectation and strong motivation, let alone make a difference. This is a waste of time and life.
If you don't have an ideal, set it up quickly, because the ideal is related to your motivation!
Zhou Enlai, a teenager, set up the lofty ideal of "studying for the rise of China". With this lofty ideal, if he doesn't study hard, this ideal can't be realized. The ideal gave the young Zhou Enlai a strong impetus and laid a good foundation for him to become a great man and achieve great things in the future.
After investigating the unfortunate experiences of girls in Yunnan, Zhang Guimei came up with the dream of establishing a girls' high school to change the fate of girls and make them walk out of the mountains and live a happy life.
From a decent and elegant public teacher to a beggar-like fundraising for the school, why did Zhang Canguimei do this? What is supporting Zhang Guimei to raise funds for the school? What is the power that supports Zhang Guimei to climb mountains and walk on rugged mountain roads, and go through ups and downs and forge ahead bravely? What is the power that supports Zhang Guimei's cold shoulder and criticism in the face of others? Why is her belief so firm and her will so strong? ……
All this is attributed to her lofty ideal of establishing a girls' high school, and the motivation comes from the ideal!
Zhang Guimei is certainly different from college students. Zhang Guimei is a teacher and college students are students. However, if college students want to solve the problem of lack of learning motivation, they can learn from Zhang Guimei. Come on, set up your lofty ideals!
Ideals often make people feel far away from themselves. In fact, everyone has ideals, but they are big and small.
For example, a chubby girl may want a beautiful and slim figure, so she pays attention to losing weight. A slim figure is a girl's ideal. In order to realize this ideal, she exercises and pays attention to diet ... this is a struggle for the ideal.
For example, a boy likes a girl and wants to win her heart and establish a relationship with her. Boys will first make some preparations from themselves and make various efforts to pursue girls. Therefore, having a beautiful girlfriend is a boy's ideal. In order to realize this ideal, boys will have the motivation to pursue it, and put it into action for this pursuit, making various efforts to change themselves and improve themselves.
It can be seen that the ideal is not far away, the ideal is around us, and the ideal is with us day and night. However, there is a difference between ideal and size.
I have a student. In her composition, she expressed her ideal to be a doctor. She likes the profession of doctor. So she studied hard and was admitted to medical school. After graduation, she really went back to her hometown and became a doctor. I found that there was always light in her eyes and her life was always full. This is the result that the ideal gave her motivation, and this is the victory of the ideal!
So, how to set up your own ideals? Let me give you three pieces of advice.
First of all, ideals should be closely combined with their own interests.
Only interest can last long, and interest can overcome boredom.
Madame Curie spent many years in the laboratory, dealing with the bottles and jars of mineral raw materials and chemical instruments. Why isn't she bored? It is because of her love of physical chemistry that she overcame boredom. Finally, Madame Curie won the Nobel Prize in Physics and Chemistry. The acquisition of this achievement is, of course, recognition of Madame Curie's efforts. Only love can last.
Second, ideals should be closely combined with the characteristics of the times.
Only by closely combining personal hobbies with the trend of the times can the ideal have great significance and lofty value. Zhong Nanshan closely combined his professional expertise with the fight against epidemic diseases, dedicated his talents to the fight against epidemic diseases, and won people's admiration. He is a role model.
Third, the ideal should be realistic, not illusory.
Ideal should be realistic, not too illusory. It is impossible to find a paradise in Tao Yuanming's works and be isolated from the world in the information age with advanced technology. Everyone is not independent, everyone is a member of society and is inextricably linked with society. The ideal of being completely divorced from reality does not exist and is meaningless.
Having said that, we might as well start with our own ideals.
Think about it, what are the advantages of learning, what are the disadvantages of not learning, and what kind of realm do you want to achieve in the end?
For example, learning can increase one's talents and gain people's recognition and respect. The recognition and respect of others is an ideal.
You can graduate smoothly and get a diploma without failing your studies. This is a very secular and normal ideal.
It is also an ideal to find a good job, study, join the party and get all kinds of preferential treatment.
Learning can realize your good wishes and make your wishes come true. What a practical thing this is!
If the learning motivation is out of reach, then what a person wants and what an ideal a person has is a realistic problem. Want to eat a bowl of mala Tang, want to find a bosom friend to go shopping with me ... then you have to keep working hard. As long as you understand that ideals are the source of motivation, it will be easy. Establish your own ideals, and the motivation will naturally come.
Let's solve the ideal problem first. Good luck!
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