First, after marriage, parents-in-law ask their daughter-in-law for a dowry.
Ms. Zhang from Guangzhou grew up in a superior family. In college, she met her classmate Mr. Yang, who is a very cheerful boy. Soon after she met Ms. Zhang, she launched a fierce pursuit of Ms. Zhang. Ms. Zhang felt Mr. Yang's sincerity and agreed to associate with Mr. Yang.
They met each other's parents after graduating from college. Ms. Zhang's parents think that Mr. Yang's family conditions are not very good, and his parents-in-law are not very easy to get along with. I hope my daughter can seriously consider this relationship and not get married hastily. But Ms. Zhang believes that as long as she is good to her parents-in-law after marriage, her parents-in-law will definitely like her.
Unfortunately, Ms. Zhang never imagined that after marriage, her parents-in-law did not like her because of her goodness, but kept squeezing her. Shortly after getting married, Mr. Yang's mother asked Ms. Zhang to give her his dowry for safekeeping, on the grounds that young people didn't know how to manage their money. After Ms. Zhang told her husband about it, although her husband also negotiated with her mother, she finally agreed to her mother's decision, so at the suggestion of her husband and mother-in-law, Ms. Zhang gave the money to her mother-in-law.
Second, the father-in-law and mother-in-law ask their sons and daughters-in-law to give their daughters living expenses.
Ms. Zhang not only has a superior family, but also has a strong ability and a very rich monthly income. Her husband, Mr. Yang, is also from a prestigious school. After entering the society, he quickly gained the appreciation of the leaders. The couple have a superior material life and often give money to their parents-in-law. However, every time my parents-in-law receive money from the couple, they will say, "Why don't you miss your sister? Your sister is studying so hard outside, why don't you know to give your sister money? "
I have never heard that my parents are alive, but my brother and sister-in-law have to bear the obligation of living expenses for my sister. At the insistence of her parents-in-law, Ms. Zhang and her wife will give her sister some money as living expenses every month. Ms. Zhang always thought that as long as her sister graduated from college and entered the work, she didn't need to spend her money anymore, but more things were waiting for her.
Third, the parents-in-law asked the son and daughter-in-law to buy a house for their daughter.
Now that Mr. Yang's sister is about to get married, her parents-in-law asked Ms. Zhang and her husband to pay together and buy her a suite in the city where her sister works. A suite is not a small number. Although Ms. Zhang is rich, the money is not spent like this, so this time she resolutely opposes her parents-in-law's proposal and asks her husband to help her convince her parents-in-law. Unfortunately, the husband still chose to stand on the side of his parents this time. Instead of helping his wife convince his parents, he kept instilling in his wife the idea that his sister might be bullied if she didn't have a house to marry someone else.
That's your sister, not someone else's sister. Why buy a house for my sister, and the husband and wife have the same property? After this incident, Ms. Zhang was completely chilling about this family and chose to divorce her husband. Divorce may be a good thing for Ms. Zhang. After all, a family with selfish and indifferent parents-in-law, filial parents and a vampire-like sister-in-law is not a family worthy of nostalgia. She will meet someone more suitable for her in the future.