1, independent and equal, caring and supporting each other, understanding each other's existence and cherishing their own survival value.

2. Persistent love view.

3. Unrequited love view.

4. Dedicated love concept.

The author denies the following three views on love: persistence, infatuation and devotion, and also expresses his own view on love. Through the confession of the kapok tree to the oak tree, the author denied the secular concept of unequal love, shouted the slogan of equality between men and women in love, issued a declaration of women's independence, and expressed his longing for love.

Go to the oak tree

This is a modern poem written by the poet Shu Ting in 1977, in which the author denies the traditional view of love. And use vivid metaphors to express their ideal view of love. The correct concept of love should be based on mutual independence, rather than one party relying on the other.

The author compares himself to kapok, and he must stand with his lover in the image of a tree. Today, I think this concept of love is still worth learning by many people. In love, only by maintaining an independent self can we enjoy the beauty of love equally.