Due to the awakening of women's consciousness in recent ten years, they made it clear that women should not be reduced to men's accessories and toys, so now dog blood drama is favored by many people, and the new conclusion that "women are the masters outside, men are the masters inside" is still being gradually accepted. However, by reading some historical books, we can know that in ancient times, women basically did not get married as early as adults, or we can see from various film and television dramas that many women were also at the age of 65,438+03 or 65,438+04, and their parents began to arrange uncles and candidates for their daughters. This is very strange. Why did ancient men like to marry children aged 13 or 14?
In the pre-Qin system, now everyone can get a marriage certificate. Men are 22 and women are 20, but this is the most basic. You can't get married, you don't want to get married, and no one is forcing you to get married. But in ancient times, it was strictly written in laws and regulations. For example, in the pre-Qin period, a woman 15 years old could get married with a hairpin. When will you get married before you are 20? Men are crowned at the age of 20, and marriage can be postponed until the age of 30, which is not so forced.
However, in Vietnam, the standards are not so loose. In Vietnam, the age of marriage for men and women is mandatory to be written into laws and regulations, and in fact it must be observed. The system is that women get married at the age of 0/7 and men get married at the age of 20. If you violate these requirements, it is your parents' crime, which is illegal and will be punished. Be punished. Therefore, there are women in the family, and their daughters grow up to 13, 14 years old, so they quickly find a matchmaker as a matchmaker to try to get married as soon as possible.
After the Han Dynasty system defeated the world war of the dynasty, the sharp decline of population was a difficulty that every country encountered. The most important thing is the trend of rapid population development. Only by developing and serving the motherland can the dynasty last. The system of Han Dynasty strictly regulated marriage. If you are single and unmarried, you will not only be ridiculed as an orc, but also be punished. The system requires that if a woman is not married between the ages of 15 and 30, the initial tax paid by the family will increase fivefold. Therefore, the safest thing is to get married when your daughter 1 1 or 2 years old, or get engaged early. Once she grows up, she will immediately wrap up her family.
The system of the Tang Dynasty was rich in comprehensive national strength, the economy developed well, and people's minds were open at will, but men and women got married. But there was no system in the previous dynasty, so there was no feeling. In the Tang Dynasty, government departments became matchmakers more effectively. If women 15 years old and men are 20 years old, government departments can help them allocate objects.
Since the Song Dynasty, fewer and fewer people have been forced to get married by government departments. They didn't say 13 years old and 14 years old should get married, including Ming and Qing dynasties. However, although there is no such strict requirement, the concept of "early marriage and early childbearing" has been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, and the inherent thinking cannot be changed. Or you may think that a 20-year-old woman is an orc before she gets married, so considering the social fashion, people in this dynasty will still deal with important events in life very early.