Instead of signing up for a bunch of cram schools, I think parents should sign up for cram schools and learn how to guide their children, instead of saying, "I love learning, and learning makes my mother happy."
At that time, it was very tangled, because none of the children's interest classes from kindergarten gave up, and they all persisted in the third grade now. Only this skateboard, originally wanted to make children insist, but there are piano and dance exams in the summer vacation. I stopped when I was injured, and I don't want to skate anymore until now.
When children shrink back, we need to start with "seeing", which means that there is no way to really see their needs and why they can't persist. At first, my son thought it was too difficult to learn English, and sometimes it was difficult to do problems. It's boring to review every morning and evening, so we change the way and the children slowly accept it.
If it is for extra points, it is a burden and a harm to children. Because his own learning burden is already very heavy, adding extra long class hours that he doesn't need or is not interested in will not only waste people and money, but also bring unnecessary pressure to the child's inner world. After a long time, it will even increase the chance of the child suffering from inner diseases.
First of all, the main reason for the emergence of specialty is congenital genetic factors, which is what we usually call talent;
Secondly, the long-term influence of children's family life environment is mainly influenced by parents and important caregivers in children's lives before their children are six years old.
Thirdly, parents deliberately cultivate their children.