1. Failure is not a tragedy, but giving up.
My schooling experience was rather bumpy. When I was a child, I was often scolded by my teacher because of my poor foundation. When I was in junior high school, I suddenly realized the importance of reading. It took a lot of effort to get into high school. I thought life would always go smoothly like this.
I don't know. The changes in high school caught me off guard. Finally, I went to a bad university and scribbled. College, it's still going well. Slowly, I also found my excellent side. I just feel a little unfair. Why don't people who work hard live so well?
However, I feel unfair, and I am still lucky. Because, in this process, I understand that failure is not a tragedy, but giving up.
2. How can there be so much worldly wisdom? It is king to make yourself excellent.
It is said that China is a society that pays attention to human feelings, and children in China have been taught to pay attention to the world since childhood. Of course, including me. However, the more I grow up, the more I find that the so-called worldly wisdom has gradually become a shackle that binds my growth.
When making choices, I care more and more about other people's opinions and always want to be like others. However, it makes me worse and worse. I've been reflecting on this problem. Until one day, a teacher said, "how can there be so many people of the world?" It is king to make yourself excellent. "
At that moment, I understood that sometimes, the world is not so important, what is important is to make yourself excellent.
You must get along with people who are better than you when you have the opportunity. Ta will bring a lot of positive energy enlightenment to your life.
There is someone outside, and there is a day behind. When you get along with people who are better than yourself, you can always learn a lot subtly. This is not a slogan, but a fact.
Before I went to college, my English was not very good. There is no better way to learn English. It can be said that it is really a headache for English. After going to college, I met my current best friend, who is an English major.
Although he is a student, he is very accomplished in English. Since playing with her, she has often taught me how to learn English. Gradually, my English is also improving. English is finally not my weakness.
I think, if I hadn't met my current best friend. Maybe I'm still worried about English. Maybe English is still my achilles heel. Therefore, if you have the opportunity, you must contact more people who are better than you. Ta will bring a lot of positive energy enlightenment to your life.
4. Girl, be the master of life.
The older I grow up, the more I find that this society is always unfriendly to girls. According to the secular concept, when a girl reaches a certain age, she will return to her family and educate her children. The definition of success for a girl is to marry a successful man.
If a girl makes great achievements in her studies and career. You will say, you are so good, who dares to want you?
But for girls, the best state is to be the master of their own lives. Because, the better, the luckier. Nothing else is reliable, so girls must be masters of life.