1. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children may become "problem children" at school.
The main factor that affects children's grades is not school, but family. Tell children stories and invite them to tell their own stories, so that children can establish reading and writing habits from listening to stories, learn to read independently as soon as possible, and develop the habit of lifelong reading as soon as possible. "As long as people are still studying, they will not completely degenerate. People who are completely degraded will not learn. " Parents who never tell stories to their children are irresponsible parents.
3. There are three critical periods for children's growth: the first is about 3 years old, the second is about 9 years old, and the third is about 13 years old. Missed the critical period of growth, and the future troubles are endless.
Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.
5. Richness is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.
6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.
7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.
8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility to hurt others, too sense of responsibility to hurt yourself.
9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.
10, the relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.
Education is to cultivate people's mental outlook. The mission of parents and teachers is to make children gradually take responsibility for their mental outlook, get rid of all kinds of filth that may be polluted, cultivate spiritual "seeds" on people, and make people breathe alpine air and hold their heads high.
12, educated parents are Voltaire, "I don't agree with your point of view, but I will defend your right to speak to the death". They began to reason with their children from the day they were born and patiently asked for their opinions. Don't expect children to learn to obey by beating and cursing. As a result of killing chickens for monkeys, monkeys also learned to kill chickens.
13, let children become both * * * and rational people. "Without * * *, no great cause can end well, and without reason, no feat can end well."
14, let your children become educated people. Educated people start from punctuality, queuing, not talking loudly in public, and not getting angry easily.