It is better to choose others than to be chosen, and it is better to be appreciated than to be grateful to others. [English] Jane Austen: "Emma"

No one can be tolerated. [Middle] Chen Xiang: "Study Cases of Song and Yuan Dynasties"

In life, you must do something beneficial to the world. Even if you don't have this kind of heart or this ability, you can't do anything to harm the people of the world. [Chinese] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Self-cultivation"

If you don't ask for self-improvement, you only seek good words from other people's mouths, and you will never make progress. 〔中〕You Shixi: "Small Notes of Xiuxue"

If you don't frown in your life, there should be no people in the world who can gnash their teeth. [Middle] Ke Danqiu: "Jingjiao Ji"

It is better to be hated and destroyed by villains than to be flattered by villains; it is better to be blamed by gentlemen than tolerated by gentlemen. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

A person must stand upright and stand upright, and he must be equal to his weight. [Middle] Zhang Boxing: "Collected Works of Difficult Learning"

Be honest and upright in your actions, and have intentions like the blue sky and white sun. Sima Wen Gong said: There is nothing I have done in my life that I cannot speak to others. This is the key to being a good person. [Middle] Zhang Boxing: "Collected Collection of Hard Learning Records"

No one can survive in the world without loyalty. [Chinese] Shi Dian: "Yuan Ti Ji"

Let others talk long and short! Be like a towering tower that never tilts due to the storm. [Meaning] Dante: "Divine Comedy? Pure World"

Be a person, don't follow me, just be yourself, yourself! [Germany] Nietzsche: "The Science of Joy"

People who want to tailor themselves to suit everyone often "cut" themselves! [English] Aldous Huxley: "66 Tips for Business"

Men must live in this world calmly. [Middle] Wu Yubi: "The Case of Confucianism in the Ming Dynasty"

Since you are a human being in the world, you must be vigorous and vigorous, just like spring earthworms, autumn snakes, wind flowers and rain catkins, your life depends on people. Bone, it’s like there is more of this person in the world. [Middle] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Self-cultivation"

When a scholar lives in the world, he must be upright and determined, and he must be firm and steady before he can achieve anything. 〔中〕Yang Jue: "Man Lu"

To be a human being, you must be an ordinary person. [Middle] Xue Xuan: "Continuation of Reading"

Be a true person, speak your mind and do things close to your heart. [Middle] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Self-cultivation"

A gentleman only seeks four truths: true heart, true mouth, true ears, and true eyes. [Middle] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Self-cultivation"

When making friends, you must have a certain cheerfulness, and as a person, you must have a little sincerity. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

When the article is done to the best, there is nothing special about it, it is just right; when the character is done to the best, there is nothing out of the ordinary, it is just the way it is. [Chinese] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

Do what you have to do without thinking about what you will get. [Sweden] Strindberg: "Selected Dramas"

A gentleman has four noble values: learning is important, thinking is far-reaching, faith is valuable, and practice is valuable. [Middle] Fang Xiaoru: "Miscellaneous Commandments of Houcheng"

Too many jokes will destroy beauty, and solemnity is the strongest fortress of beauty. [Li] Nuaiman: "The Biography of Gibran"

The principle of being a human being is not to harm the rights of others and to use one's body freely. [Japan] Fukuzawa Yukichi: "Encouragement to Learning"

The first priority is to be bright and sincere in mind, the first priority in appearance is to be upright and mature, and the first priority is to be simple, serious and true in speech. [Middle] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Self-cultivation"

There is no lofty career in life. If you get rid of the vulgar sentiments, you will become a celebrity; if you get rid of the troubles of learning, you will not gain much. The holy realm. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

A gentleman should not take his body lightly, otherwise things will disturb him, and there will be no leisure and calmness. Lively opportunity. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

If you give yourself up without doubts, if you are doubtful, you will be ashamed of your ambition; if you give to others, don't blame them for their retribution, but blame them for their retribution and have the intention to give. None of that. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

Be kind to others. Responsible for repaying: Asking the other party to repay something. Being a man is just to be straightforward and honest, even if the traces are hidden, they are still visible; if your intentions are not clear at all, your actions are both public and private. [Middle] Hong Yingming: "Cai Gen Tan"

If you are short, you cannot protect it, and if you protect it, it will eventually become short; if you are long, you cannot be cautious, and if you are cautious, you will not grow. [Middle] Nie Danian: "Motto"

In life, you must pay attention to the principles to be effective. The principle must be considerate both physically and mentally to be effective. If you don't go up to the truth, it's just empty talk. If you don't go up to the body and mind, it's just empty talk. [Middle] Zhang Boxing: "Collected Works of Difficult Learning"

It is better to make people hate than to make others love, and to make people love is not as good as to make others respect. [Chinese] Li Xing: "The Remaining Draft of Xihui Waiji"

Being a human being is the same as writing an article, including constant revision. [Middle] Shen Congwen: "Collected Works of Shen Congwen"

Only when you have a low eye and a high hand, can you have peace of mind. [Middle] Sanmao: "Random Thoughts"

Those who are strong and soft are the ones who establish themselves. [Middle] "The Book of Changes? Xici Xia"

The inside is square and the outside is round. [Middle] Liu Zongyuan: "Another Talk with Yang Jiazhi about Che Dunmian and He Shu"

If it is too strong, it will break, if it is too soft, it will roll. The sage is between hardness and softness, which is the basis for attaining the Tao. [Middle] "Huainanzi Si Lun Xun"

It is soft on the outside but strong on the inside. [Middle] Liu Zongyuan: "Reply to Zhou Junchaoshu"

If you don't behave softly and softly throughout your life, this is a husband; if you can be soft but still strong, this is a real man.

[Middle] Lu Kun: "Moaning Language? Sage"

The way of heaven and earth, hardness and softness complement each other and cannot be neglected. If it is too soft, it will be unrestrained, and if it is too hard, it will break. Hardness is not called tyranny, it is just forceful correction. Being gentle does not mean being humble, it is just being humble and withdrawing. [Middle] Zeng Guofan: "The Complete Works of Zeng Wenzhenggong"

Be the same on the outside and the inside, abide by one's duties, and do no deceit or deceit. This is how a gentleman should behave in the world. [English] Jane Austen: "Emma"

He who conducts himself well will conduct himself well in the world; he who conducts himself poorly will rob his body. Those who are good at dealing with the world must strictly cultivate themselves; those who do not strictly cultivate themselves will flatter the world.

〔中〕Zou Yuanbiao: "Huiyu"