I compiled 40 sentences that I particularly like. Read them often and remember them. The most important thing is accumulation.

1 Everlasting hatred, the human heart is not as good as water, waiting for the calm to make waves? "Bamboo Branch Ci" by Liu Yuxi of the Tang Dynasty

Everlasting hatred, the human heart is not as good as the river, the river will only make waves when the wind blows, but the human heart will There is no reason to stir up evil waves on the flat ground. ?

2. Well-read and knowledgeable, few friends and few right and wrong. "The Secret of a Small Window" by Chen Jiru in the Ming Dynasty

People who read a lot of books and visit Dachuan will have a wide knowledge, and those who rarely interact with others will encounter less troubles.

3. Only when you are well-off do you value yourself, how can you be poor in a desolate alley? Meng Jiao of the Tang Dynasty, "Inscribed on Wei Chengzong's Residence in the Former City of King Wu"

People who are talented and knowledgeable are themselves noble. Even if they live in a humble house, they are not considered poor.

4. Unsatisfactory things often happen eight or nine times, but how can you tell others the same thing? Feng Menglong of the Ming Dynasty's "Awakening Words"

In life, there are often ten things you encounter. There are eight or nine unsatisfactory things in it, and there are often not two or three out of ten that you can tell others about that you are proud of.

Many things in the world are not what people want, but people still have to live, so people should keep a calm mind and treat things.

5. If you are not good at sailing, you will find the harbor is curved, and if you are not good at writing, your pen will be bald. ?Zhai Hao of the Qing Dynasty

If he couldn't sail a ship, he would despise the twists and turns of the harbor. If he couldn't write, he would complain that his pen was bald. It is a metaphor for incompetent people who do not look for reasons subjectively but blame poor objective conditions.

6. Do not do good things because of love, do not do evil things because of evil.

7. When the water is clear, there will be no fish, and when people observe it, there will be no disciples. Eastern Han Dynasty Ban Gu's "Han Shu Dongfang Shuo"

If the water is too clear, no fish will grow in it; if a person is too observant, there will be no friends around him.

8. Slander does not come by itself, but comes by doubt; it does not come by itself, but takes advantage of gaps. "Yu Li. Fear of Ghosts" by Liu Ji of the Ming Dynasty

Slander will not find someone automatically, but because there is doubt in the mind; alienation will not have any effect, but if each other When there is a gap, there is an opportunity for estrangement.

9. When the warehouses are full, you will know the etiquette; when you have enough food and clothing, you will know the honor and disgrace. ? Guan Zhong in the Spring and Autumn Period "Guan Zi. Herdsmen"

Only when the food is abundant can the people understand etiquette; when the food and clothing are abundant, the people can then know the etiquette. Honor and shame.

10. There is no greater disease than not having heard of it, and no humiliation greater than shamelessness. ? Wang Tong of the Sui Dynasty

The biggest problem is that you are unwilling to hear others point out your mistakes, and the biggest shame is not knowing shame.

11. It is easy to change the heart of the old man, but the old man's heart is easy to change. ? Qing Dynasty, Nalan Xingde's "Mulan Ci"

Now it is easy to change the heart, but instead It is said that lovers can change their minds easily.

12. If you have wine today, you will be drunk today, and you will be worried tomorrow. Tang Dynasty? Let’s talk tomorrow.

I3, there has been icing on the cake since ancient times, but there has been no help in times of need.

? Luo Nian'an's "Awakening Poems" of the Ming Dynasty

The icing on the cake has always existed, but there has been no one who can help in times of need.

There are many people who help others when things are going well, but there are only a handful of people who are willing to lend a helping hand when others are in crisis.

14. I am more timid when I am close to my hometown and dare not ask the visitor?

Tang Dynasty? Song Zhi asked "Crossing the Han River"!

For wanderers who have been wandering away all year round, the closer they are to their hometown, the more nervous they become, so much so that they dare not inquire about the situation in their hometown when they meet fellow villagers.

15. If you stay in the orchid house for a long time, you will not smell its fragrance; if you stay in the orchid house for a long time, you will not smell its stink. ? "Confucius' Family Sayings"

If you stay in a room full of orchid fragrance, you won't be able to smell it after a long time. If you stay in a fish shop selling fishy fish, you won't be able to smell it after a long time. The stink is a metaphor for being in a certain environment for a long time, and you will get used to it unknowingly and become contaminated.

16. A virtuous wife will bring few troubles, and a son will be filial to his father and have a generous heart.

Anonymous "Collection of Famous Virtues"

If a wife is virtuous, her husband will have fewer disasters; if the children are filial, the parents will be happy.

17. How can I satisfy everyone’s expectations, but I hope to live up to my heart? Qing Dynasty Jin Ying’s "Aphorisms Lian Bi"

How can people’s behavior satisfy everyone? In life, all you want is to have a clear conscience.

18. When you are poor and strong, you will not fall into the clouds; when you are old and strong, you would rather move away from the gray-headed heart? ? "Preface to the Pavilion of Prince Teng" by Wang Bo of the Tang Dynasty

When people are in a difficult situation, they should be stronger and not lose their ambition to reach the top; when a person grows old, he cannot change his ambition to make achievements.

19. People are harmless, but tigers are harmful to others.

? "The Revenge of the Orphans of Zhao" by Ji Junxiang of the Yuan Dynasty

People have no intention of harming tigers, but it cannot be concluded that tigers have no intention of harming people. People are warned to be vigilant.

20. Hearing the morning bell is thought-provoking.

"A Tour to Longmen Fengxian Temple" by Du Fu of the Tang Dynasty

When you hear the morning bell, you should check yourself and see how you are doing in all aspects every day.

21. If you want to see a thousand miles away, go to the next level. ?

"Climbing the Stork Tower" by Wang Zhihuan of the Tang Dynasty

If you want to see farther, you must climb to a higher place. It is a metaphor that if you want to achieve higher achievements, continue Continuously strive to improve yourself,

22. If you want to stay away from right and wrong, be cautious when dealing with others. ?

Qing Dynasty Shi Xiangzai's "Chinese Proverbs"

If you want to avoid worldly right and wrong and interference, the first thing is to be cautious in dealing with others.

23. The source is dredged, and the roots are deep and the leaves are luxuriant?

Zhang in the Tang Dynasty said "Ode to the Uprising Hall"

Only when the source is dredged can the leaves be flourishing. The farther the water flows and the deeper the roots of the trees, the more luxuriant their branches will be.

24. He who knows others is wise, and he who knows himself is wise. ? Spring and Autumn Period Laozi's "Tao Te Ching"

People who can understand others are very wise, and people who can understand themselves have a heart like a clear mirror.

25. There are few willow cotton blowing on the branches, and there is no fragrant grass anywhere in the world. "Butterflies in Love with Flowers" by Su Shi of the Northern Song Dynasty

The catkins on the willow branches gradually become scarce after being blown by the wind, but don't stick to one spring scene. Where can there be no grass in the world?

It means not to stick to one thing.

26. When there are few governors, there will be fewer worries, and when there are more people, there will be more right and wrong. Luo Nian'an's "Awakening Poems" of the Ming Dynasty

If you know fewer things, you will naturally have fewer worries, and if you know more people, you may have more right and wrong.

27. People in the world don’t understand God’s will, which makes their body and mind sad in the middle of the night. Qing Dynasty Stone Turns into Gold

People in the world do not know God's will, and working hard will only waste their body and mind.

28. Everything in the world is just floating dust in the mind, and living a careless life is ultimately a mass of troubles.

Anonymous "Zengguang Xianwen"

All things in the world are just suspended dust in the mind, and a scrawled and busy life will eventually lead to constant troubles.

29. People in the world don’t know how to make friends. They only value gold and not people. ? Tang Dynasty Gao Shi's "Gift to Ren Hua"

People in the world don't understand the principle of making friends. They only look at whether they have money but not their character.

30. If you live your life with food and clothing, you will be an immortal if you have leisure. ? Luo Nian'an's "Awakening Poems" of the Ming Dynasty

What is the life's food, clothing, housing and transportation like? You don't have to worry about it, just decide based on your luck. As long as you can enjoy a leisurely and comfortable life, you will be a free and easy god.

31. My favorite thing in life is Yu Wu Tongue: I have traveled all over the world. . "Reedition of Zengguang Xianwen" by Zhou Xitao in the Qing Dynasty

He likes fish most in his life. He has no tongue, so he can travel in rivers and lakes without causing trouble. It means that disaster comes from the mouth, so you should be careful what you say.

32. The dragon catches the clouds and rain, but it is not the thing in the pond. ?

? Chen Shou of the Western Jin Dynasty, "The Chronicle of the Three Kingdoms, Wu Shujiu, and the Biography of Zhou Yu"

Once encountering clouds and rain, the dragon will no longer be a thing in the pond.

33. The dragon has not been encountered, diving among the fish and turtles. The gentleman loses his time and surrenders to the villain. Lv Mengzheng of the Northern Song Dynasty, "Encouraging the World"

A dragon loses its fortune and can only swim among the fish and turtles; an aspiring man and a benevolent man loses his fortune and can only stand in the hands of vulgar people. 》

34. Knot a grass ring to repay kindness.

? Spring and Autumn Period Zuo Qiuming.

Tie grass into a rope and hold a jade ring in your mouth to repay your benefactor. It is a metaphor for being grateful and repaying kindness, which will be remembered until death.

35. The sea accepts hundreds of rivers, and it is big if it has tolerance; if it stands thousands of feet high on the wall, it is strong if it has no desire. Qing Dynasty, Lin Zexu, "Zi Encourage Couplet"

The sea can accommodate hundreds of rivers because of its magnanimity; if a person has no desires and desires, he can be as strong as a mountain.

36. Those who are overloaded will sink their boats, and those who want to win will be killed.

Ge Hong, Eastern Jin Dynasty

Too much load will cause the ship to sink; too much desire will damage the body.

37. Harm and benefit follow each other, misfortunes and blessings depend on each other, they are just ordinary and stable to the end. "Continuation of Children's Sayings" by Lu Kun of the Ming Dynasty

Bad things are always accompanied by good things; disasters and blessings depend on each other, just to live an ordinary and peaceful life.

38. Wealth leads to lust, and addiction leads to stupidity.

Southern Dynasties. Liang Fuzhao

A wealthy environment can easily lead people to the habit of greed and dissipation, and indulging in pleasure can make people stupid.

39. Habits of wealthy families Arrogance and extravagance are the most difficult things to teach children; if a poor man wants to make a living, he still studies. Wang Yongbin of the Qing Dynasty's "Evening Talk Around the Fireplace"

Rich families are used to a life of arrogance and extravagance, so it is difficult to educate their children well. Poor people still have to study if they want to make a living.

40. Wrapped in coarse cloth for life, is there poetry and calligraphy in China? "Farewell to Dong Chuan" by Su Shi of the Northern Song Dynasty

Wearing a coarse cloth all your life will not affect a person's magnanimity, as long as With profound knowledge in his belly, his temperament will naturally be full of brilliance.