If a person has capacity, he will be happy; if a person is cultivated, he will have temperament; if a person is loving, he will be kind; if a person is indifferent, he will be calm. Only a casual mood can lead to peace, a diligent life can lead to a brilliant life, and an open-minded life can lead to happiness. In life, there is as much pain as there are caress. There is as much joy as there is tolerance. Pain and joy are both reflections of the soul, like what's inside a mirror depends on what's in front of the mirror.