"fairies are beyond our reach. Don't delay her practice. "
do these words sound familiar?
maybe you just can't talk to the person who is chasing you; Maybe you just don't like gossiping all the time; You may like to go home to take a bath, make tea, listen to music and read books after work; You may prefer watching cartoons to watching literary films; You may think it's good to trim flowers and plants on the balcony in the sunshine on weekends and watch movies on the lower part of the internet; You may be gentle and modest, but you actually have social phobia and are afraid of many people; You may be slow and sensitive; You may not want to attend the kind of party where all circles are pulled together; You may ... In short, if you are different from most people, you can't pretend to be the same as others, and you happen to be a beautiful girl, then you have a good chance to hear that at the beginning.
Never say that this is an era of advocating individuality, and people's acceptance is very limited.
Then you will become a fairy in their mouth, not to praise you, but to say that you are out of touch, that you are cold and unsociable, and that you look down on people ...
Well, consider me a fairy.
fairies have to go through some hardships before they get their way. For example, in the legend of Baihua Fairy, because they offended Chang 'e, Chang 'e's best friend, Xinyue Fox, was ordered by the Jade Emperor to disturb Li's world and was reincarnated as Wu Zetian. After Wu Zetian proclaimed himself emperor, she remembered that she had promised to retaliate for Chang 'e, so she ordered flowers to blossom in winter, and the flower fairies were closed. Other flower fairies were afraid of the majesty of the emperor blooming in the middle of winter, and fairy peony, who knew the inside story, refused to cooperate and was finally degraded to Luoyang after being burned by fire. The Jade Emperor, who was challenged by authority, broke into the mortal world to suffer from dereliction of duty and twelve kinds of flower fairies that were opened privately. Baihua, in particular, was later reincarnated as Tang Xiaoshan. There is nothing wrong with Tang Xiaoshan, who experienced the adventure of the mirror flower. It took a lot of hardships to gather the Dragon Ball to summon the Dragon ... Er, wrong, gathered all the sisters who lived on earth to return to Xianban. See how many fairies suffer in this story? ! ! !
well, I mean, most of the time, we just want to be ourselves quietly, but we really demand more from ourselves. But if someone wants to say that this is the proof that we are fairies, then we are fairies. After all, fairies are not made by everyone.
why not?
No matter what others say, I still think "fairy" is beautiful, which should have beautiful appearance, good character, elegant cultivation, independent thinking, excellent ability and a strong and grateful heart. To be a fairy needs to go through a lot. First of all, we need to learn the knowledge that can make us better, the basic principles of being human, kindness, friendliness and morality. Then you need to improve yourself to be more beautiful, dress appropriately and talk gracefully, have professional working ability and communication skills, have rich inner feelings and interesting ideas, and have independent economic strength and life skills; More importantly, we should keep growing in life and gain wisdom and courage from setbacks and pains. Which fairy has not experienced the confusion of sleepless nights before becoming an immortal? ! Haven't you ever been in a dilemma? ! Have you never tried the unforgettable pain? ! Have you never experienced the dream of falling into ecstasy? ! I may have cried, hated, felt inferior, hesitated, blamed myself, and been cowardly ... This is the key time for self-cultivation, and I am struggling. If you can't do it well, become a moth; It's done. It's a butterfly, full of fairy tales. We work so hard, love ourselves better, and love life. If every step comes from our efforts, if today we are confident that we are worthy of all the trials we suffered yesterday and brave enough to meet any problems we may encounter tomorrow, then we are fairies.
If you are sure that you are a fairy, you can politely decline when someone you don't like chases you, but if someone says "You think you are a fairy", just tell him "I am a fairy"; When someone asks you to take part in an activity you don't like, you can politely decline with a smile, but if someone says, "It's really a fairy, it's too vulgar for us", just tell him, "I am a fairy"; When someone asks you to lower your standards and make unnecessary accommodation, you can politely find a reason for everyone to pass on the face, but if someone says, "Fairy is so cold", just tell him, "I am a fairy" ... Try every means to cure the disease that the whole world wants to be as indifferent as yourself ... It's basically as good as "none of your business". Of course, you can also smile like a fairy, and smile without saying a word. After all, you are overlooking the world you love, enjoying the happiness of loving and being loved, and accepting a good or bad life. One day, you will have the life you want, and you deserve it.
you are a fairy.