The Greek poet Archilochus said, "The fox knows many things, but the hedgehog knows one big thing."

Doesn't it sound interesting? This is how a thinker interpreted it. The fox represents a person who has broad interests and studies many issues; the hedgehog represents a person who focuses on one big issue and proposes a system of ideas.

At the age of 30, I am a typical fox, looking forward to working hard to transform into a hedgehog.

But at the age of 40, I think it is good to be a fox all my life, and I no longer envy the hedgehog. Time has taught me that reaching the top in any field is something you have to give up before you can get it, or you have to experience the pain and heartache of extraordinary people before you have the highlight moment.

A modern woman’s top wife should be able to go to the living room and go to the kitchen, be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, and be proficient in all kinds of martial arts. We act as cleaners, gourmets, nutritionists, educators, health experts, body management gurus, psychologists, and occasionally guest medical staff to manage the normal operation of a family, and we are not allowed to slack off at all.

Because we have love in our hearts, we don’t feel tired when we watch our children grow up day by day. We enjoy the performance process. In fact, each of us is playing a different role.

It’s just that I am willing to be a fox, but for my little family, I have been working hard to transform into a hedgehog, and I need to have a set of ideological systems suitable for our little family.