1. Only those who live in humble circumstances have the best chance to see the truth of human relations in the world - Yang Jiang

2. Good things in the world are not strong, colorful clouds are easy to scatter, and glass is fragile . ——Yang Jiang "We Three"

3. Your problem is mainly that you don't read much and think too much - Yang Jiang

4. A person has gone through different levels of training , you will get different levels of cultivation and different levels of benefits. Just like spices, the more you pound them, the finer they are ground, the stronger the fragrance becomes. We once longed for the waves of destiny, but in the end we discovered that the most beautiful scenery in life is the inner calmness and calmness... We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, but in the end we realized that the world belongs to us and has nothing to do with others. It doesn't matter! ——Yang Jiang "100-year-old Remarks"

5. The smile of an old friend is as bright as the trees in the courtyard, and the autumn wind blows away every day. ——Yang Jiang "Being Drinking Tea"

6. I once had a little dream, blaming him for suddenly leaving without saying a word. Now he deliberately walks slowly, letting me take him one step at a time, trying to get together as much as possible, and turn a small dream into a long dream of thousands of miles. I do. Give me a ride, say goodbye, and see you again. If the separation lasts longer, will it increase or decrease the pain? I can't figure it out. But the further I walked with him, the more afraid I became of never seeing him again. ——Yang Jiang "We Three"

7. I grew up in a harmonious and affluent environment, and I knew nothing about the world. But I thought very seriously about what I "should" learn. The so-called "should" refers to what is most beneficial to others, and I have not lived my life in vain. I know this "should" is an exaggeration, so I feel ashamed to explain it. My father said, there is nothing you should or should not do, just learn whatever you like the most. But I'm not worried. Just ask what you like, right? I like literature, so why should I study literature? If you love reading novels, do you want to study novels? My father said that what I like is the one who is closest to me sexually, which is the most suitable for me. ——Yang Jiang "Being Drinking Tea"

8. If the metaphor of "the heart is like a mirror" can be borrowed, she will brush it diligently to wipe away all the dust. ——Yang Jiang "Taking a Bath"

9. "Before I met her, I never wanted to get married; after marrying her, I never regretted marrying her." The lifelong love between Qian Zhongshu and Yang Jiang was my first time with We met Zhong Shu in March 1932. He was wearing a green cloth coat, fur-soled cloth shoes, a pair of old-fashioned glasses, and his eyebrows were deep and beautiful. After the meeting, Lao Qian began to write me letters and asked me to meet at the Gongzi Hall. When we met, his first sentence was: "I'm not engaged." And I replied nervously: "I don't have a boyfriend either." So we started to correspond, writing more and more frequently, one letter a day, so that he I went home during the holidays. I felt uncomfortable for a long time. Calm down and feel bad, this is fall in love. ——Yang Jiang

10. "I'm just afraid that people are not as easy to deal with as books. They will look down on you, bully you, or be jealous of you, or bully and be jealous at the same time. ..." ——Yang Jiang "Taking a Bath"

11. I often wonder why someone who received help from my father is so grateful that he kowtows to my mother and never forgets it. Why did someone get more than a thousand acres of good land with my father's help, and twenty years later she didn't forget the benefit she got? She ignored my father's old age, illness, and poverty, but came to exploit his brain power, and then used two glutinous rice dumplings to express her gratitude. . Why are there so many differences between people? ——Yang Jiang's "Being Drinking Tea"

12. "If we say that humans are animals with spirituality and conscience, then life is nothing more than understanding oneself, refining oneself, and voluntarily transforming oneself, unless It is no different to be willing to be an animal. But this is not easy." - Yang Jiang "Taking a Bath" 13. It is said that friendship between friends is often based on mutual misunderstanding. The same is probably true for love.

——Yang Jiang "Taking a Bath"

14. God will not allow all happiness to be concentrated on one person. Getting love does not necessarily mean getting money, having money does not necessarily mean happiness, getting happiness does not necessarily mean health, and having health does not necessarily mean everything. Everything comes true - Yang Jiang's "100th Anniversary Speech"

15. People surrounded by the city want to escape, and people standing outside the city want to rush in. Whether it is marriage or career, most of the desires in life are in this way. ——Yang Jiang