I once saw a question like, "Will you thank those who hurt you?" I believe many people will agree because they will feel that real growth comes from those who hurt you. The adversity brought to you, they believe that most of the harm caused to us by those who have hurt us will be slowly forgotten as time goes by, making us stronger. So they say that of course it is necessary to thank those who hurt ourselves. People, if they have never hurt themselves, then they have no chance to gain these insights. But I don’t agree with this statement at all because I know that those who wanted to hurt me at the beginning were definitely not doing it to make me more successful in the future. They hurt me because they were determined to hurt me at the beginning. I have grown and improved in my own way. Even success and fame are all achieved by my own efforts and have nothing to do with the people who hurt me. And those who say you want to thank those who hurt you, do you really want to thank them from the bottom of your heart? Just say it verbally! Injury is injury, it will only bring you pain and unbearableness, and even lead you to a desperate situation where you cannot extricate yourself. It will not become as beautiful as your first love just because you succeed. Malice is always just malice. Many people like to use their words to cover up the harm they have caused to others, but these words have never been thought of. They are all what they want to say and they are just expressed with their mouths, but what you said has already been given to others. It has caused harm, and there is no way to repair it. Just like broken glass, no matter how you apologize, he will never be able to go back to the past.

I don’t mind the jokes between friends, but everything must have a limit. If you exceed this limit, you have hurt me. Why should I thank those who have hurt me? Why do you pretend to be a saint, like a person with no temper who can be bullied by anyone?

So, rather than thanking the person who hurt me, I would rather thank myself for surviving the harm.