I examine myself three times every day; am I being unfaithful to others? Make friends but don’t believe it? Are you not used to it?

A house that accumulates good deeds will always be happy, and a house that accumulates bad deeds will always have disaster!

As heaven moves forward, a gentleman should constantly strive for self-improvement. The earth moves along Kun, and a gentleman carries things with great virtue.

One porridge and one meal often reflect on the difficulty of getting there, and the half-wisp of constant thoughts are difficult to find in terms of material resources!

○People live in groups and keep their mouths shut, but sit alone and guard their hearts.

○What is taboo in creation is called ingenuity. All kinds of people are sympathetic to each other, and they are sincere and loyal.

○The six lines of the hexagram "Qian" are all auspicious, and the word "forgiveness" is feasible for life.

○Be content with what you have and never be disgraced. If you know how to stop, you will always stop, and you will never be ashamed throughout your life.

○The bright mirror stills the water to clear the mind, Mount Tai and its lofty peaks stand upright, the clear sky and white sun serve to respond to matters, and the clear moonlight and wind serve to treat people.

○Don’t be jealous of others’ growth, because if you are jealous of their growth, you will end up short; don’t protect your own shortcomings, because if you protect your weaknesses, you will end up not growing.

○A wise man has a vision of the three worlds and knows what is wrong with his thoughts; a fool only focuses on the present and desires to do evil.

○If you think about the suffering of Tiecheng, you should save the words of medicine and stone.

○Strictly adhere to this mind to resist external temptations. It must be like a raging fire that burns everything it encounters. Treat your peers with a broad heart, like a spring sun that warms no one.

○Any matter that concerns a person’s life, even if you have seen and heard it, don’t talk about it. If you say anything that hurts me, be careful not to express it in words, even if you are chatting or joking. It's all because of this that you create grudges, cause disasters, and harm your yin.

○Stand up to oneself and seek for faults from the absence of faults, not only to advance virtue, but also to avoid disasters. When dealing with others, we should seek to avoid any faults despite our faults. Not only should we be kind to others, but we should also resolve any grievances.

○Be calm and calm when encountering problems. Even if there are chaos, you will eventually be ready. There is no pretense or deceit in dealing with others. Even though he is as cunning as a mountain ghost, he is also sincere.

○Gong begets enlightenment, sincerity begets enlightenment, and calmness begets enlightenment.

○Those who are public and wise should not be selfish. Honesty produces enlightenment, not mixed with falsehood. Those who are calm and enlightened are not confused by confusion.

○The poor debaters in the world are not arguing but being indifferent. The brave men in the world are not brave but timid.

○Why stop slander? Said: No argument. How to stop resentment? He said: Don’t fight.

○When people slander me, it is better to tolerate it than to defend it. When people insult me, it is better to be able to transform it than to prevent it.

○Zhang Mengfu said: "If you suffer from stinginess, you will not suffer from arrogance. If you suffer from small losses, you will not suffer from big losses."

○Also said: "The most important thing is not to do anything. If you want to take advantage, everyone in the world will fight for it. If I take advantage of it, all the resentment will disappear. I have learned from my decades of experience and don’t ignore it. I have never been insulted by villains in my life. Only one good policy can turn the corner."

○Tolerance and concession are enough. Eliminate endless disasters and regrets. There is an ancient saying: "Always make way for life without losing size."

○Be kind and righteous, and accept things with tolerance.

○Lin Tuizhai was dying, and his descendants knelt down to ask for advice. Said: "I have no other words, you just have to learn to suffer."

○When it comes to difficult things, you must be strong but not breathless. People who are in trouble should be aware but silent.

○The poor bandits cannot be pursued, and the evasive ones cannot be attacked.

○Favor may be gained first and then be damaged, fear may be loosened first and then tightened.

○If you benefit first and then lose, then the kindness will turn into hatred, and all the previous efforts will be wasted. If you loosen things first and then tighten them, you will not be able to control them and will only cause resentment and anger.

○Those who make good use of power will not be lightly angry, and those who make good use of kindness will not give in vain.

○Those who are generous should not make others rely on them. A shrewd person will not make others miserable.

○It is a great warning to be gullible and to be gullible. The more intense it becomes, the more serious it becomes, which is a great precept to punish good deeds.

○Lu Xinwu said: "If you feel ashamed, a villain can be made into a gentleman; if you are provoked, a gentleman can be made into a villain."

○Those who provoke someone but not be angry are not If there is a large amount, there must be a deep machine.

○You must leave room for action and refrain from speaking out when doing good deeds.

○A crooked tree is an evil rope, and a stubborn stone is an evil attack. Don't be careless when saying good things.

○Lv Xinwu said: "To be responsible for good deeds, it depends on how the person is, and you should also try your best to save the good. There is no way to criticize others, and there are countless mistakes. , No long words, no tired words. Violating these six precepts is not a good thing."

○Another saying: "You must be honest and forthright in order to avoid disaster." Covering the road brings opportunities for people to repent. In addition to nourishing people's dignity, it is also like the reserved energy of heaven and earth. "

○Those who dare to be angry but dare not speak are damaging the Yin Zhao.

○When persuading others, you should not quickly point out their faults. You must first praise their strengths. When people are happy, it will be easy to speak, but when they are angry, it will be difficult to speak. A person who is good at transforming others has a sincere heart, a warm temperament, and gentle words; he tolerates what he cannot do, and forgives what he cannot do; forgives what he does not know, and accepts what he does not want; he talks about things and gives guidance at any time. He enjoys the sincerity of the invitation and is happy with what he likes; he feels the generosity of the supervision and responsibility, but feels ashamed of his lack of talent. People are not like wood or stone, and there is no one who cannot make progress. If I hate evil as much as I hate it, he will also be eager to die. Even if I want to make a new comeback, I will not be able to do so. What a pity!

○The sage said: "When you feel someone's deceit, you cannot express it in words; when you are insulted, you cannot express it in words. This has infinite meaning and infinite benefits."

○It is better to hear about others’ mistakes than to hear about one’s own mistakes. How can you be happy to do good to yourself as much as you are happy to do good to others?

○When discussing a person’s faults, one should keep his true intentions in mind and not leave his traces behind. When appreciating people's goodness, you should rely on their traces and do not need to delve deeply into their hearts.

○Lu Xinwu said: "When talking about human feelings, you only seek from the weak; when talking about the human heart, you only think from the evil side. This is a private and deep-rooted thought, not a long-term way."

○The most important thing in self-cultivation is to be pure in heart, and the most important thing in dealing with the world is to be cautious in speaking.

○No evil is greater than indulging one's own desires, and no disaster is greater than speaking out about someone's fault.

○A gentleman who gives alms will lose my virtue. If I give to a villain, I will be killed. (This case refers to those who criticize others)

○People are impatient, but I accept them with generosity. When people are in danger, I treat them with magnanimity.

○Don’t keep your body too clean, and accept all the dirt and filth. Don't be too clear-cut in your dealings with the world, and be tolerant of all the wise, foolish, good and ugly.

○Shrewdness must be hidden in simplicity. When ancient people got into trouble, nine out of ten people were shrewd, and there was no one who was honest enough to get into trouble.

○Those who are virtuous have a peaceful mind and see everyone as acceptable, so they are allowed much in their mouths. Those with weak virtues are arrogant and hateful to everyone, so many people are despised in their eyes.

○Lv Xinwu said: "People in the world like to say that there are no good people, and this is what Meng Lang said. It is presumed that his illness is caused by disloyalty and unforgiveness. He is a bad person, so why should he blame others? ? ”

○It is advisable to discipline oneself with an autumn spirit, and to conduct oneself with a spring breeze.

○Don’t admit people when you are happy, and don’t answer people’s letters when you are angry.

○Too many words when you are happy are untrustworthy, and too many words when you are angry are unbecoming.

○Sit quietly and think about your own mistakes, and don’t talk about others’ faults in small talk.

○Flattery words may not please a knowledgeable person. The discussion behind the scenes often leaves those who feel regretful.

○Don’t be too harsh when attacking people’s evil, but think about how you can bear it. Don’t teach people too much about kindness, and make them follow it.

○If something is urgent, it may become clear to you if it is urgent. Do not be impatient and rush to violence. If a person refuses to follow the rules, let him or her go on his own, and don't be harsh to encourage his stubbornness.

○One's own nature cannot be controlled and should be controlled by going against the law. The way to do this is to endure. Human nature cannot be brushed off, it must be tempered with the law, and the way is to use the word "forgiveness".

○When dealing with matters, you must think of others, and when discussing others, think of yourself first.

○If you want to judge others, you should first judge yourself; if you want to understand others, you should first understand yourself.

○Everything that is won by the outside is deficient internally. Everything that is captured by evil is deficient in righteousness.

○Nowadays, people tend to be arrogant when they see others, and they often feel happy and angry. If this mystery is not broken, your heart will be filled with ice for the rest of your life.

○The villain is happy to hear about the faults of the gentleman, but the gentleman is ashamed to hear about the evil of the villain. There is a distinction between thick and thin intentions, so the character differs accordingly.

○The benefits are not great, but the misfortunes. It’s not about complaining, it’s about being sad.

○Don’t let a small grudge lead to resentment, and don’t forget old kindness with new grudges.

○Liu Zhizhai said: "It is better to break up than to join together. This statement is very reasonable. The combination is the beginning; the separation is the end. As for separation, the ending is good. Wherever you are doing something, It’s all the same when it comes to trusting someone. ”

○The more difficult things are, the more generous they should be, the more difficult people should be, and the more urgent things should be slowed down.

○There must be tolerance and virtue is great. There must be patience, and things will come to an end.

○Lv Xinwu said: "To do good things in the world, you must not only measure your virtues and abilities, but also judge the situation and choose people. 'It is difficult to achieve only what you want, and it is difficult to offend when you are angry' - these eight characters are not only suitable for those who act rashly and do evil things. Be careful, even if you are selfless and do upright things, you still need to adjust people's feelings and create principles so that everyone can follow them. Then the actions will be successful and things will last for a long time. Even if there is a good way to destroy oneself, how can one succeed or not?” Having trouble happen when there is nothing to do is called a small blessing.

○Bai Xiangshan's poem goes: "I have a word for you to remember. There are many people who bring trouble to themselves in the world."

○When you have nothing to do, avoid stealing words. When something happens, avoid using random words.

○Liu Niantai said: "When a scholar is unable to cope with things, his heart is always sick. There is only a method of refining the mind, not to mention a method of refining things. The method of refining the heart is probably just to have nothing in mind. If you have nothing to do, you can do everything. This is where the master's calmness comes in handy. "

○It is important to avoid being impatient when doing things. If you are impatient, you will have no time to deal with things.

○When it comes to people, we should take advantage of their strengths and forgive their shortcomings. When doing things, you must first consider the harm and then calculate the benefits.

○One who has no intention is public, and one who has no self is wise.