The relationship between us and our parents in the early days is internalized into our character and determines our destiny. A person's life is like reincarnating the luck or misfortune of childhood over and over again. Childhood experiences are written into everyone's subconscious like a Trojan horse program, accurately controlling the cycle of life. Breaking the cycle of reincarnation starts with seeing yourself and your children. ?When "I" is clear enough, "I love you" can be true and powerful. Through a book, I travel back to my childhood and see the present of my children. I treat my childhood self and the children around me with abundant love, and comfort the child who has never left me and is hiding in the shadows. Accept and improve yourself. Education is a kind of transmission. When your cup is full, your children will naturally spread in the right direction.

The entire book tells her most basic point of view: the mother-infant relationship determines all relationships between children. And it explains in many ways that we should love our children as they are, not as we want them to be.

?Reflections after reading?

Reflections after reading refers to the specific feelings and gains after reading a book, an article, a paragraph, a few famous quotes, a piece of music, or a video. An article written based on inspiration.

Reflections after reading can also be called reading notes. It is a commonly used applied style and one of the styles of applied writing research. To put it simply, it is the feeling after reading the book.

Writing method

1. Format and writing method

Reflections after reading usually have three ways of writing: one is to abbreviate the content and outline, and the other is to write the experience after reading. Reflections, one is excerpted sentences and paragraphs. The title can be "Reflections after reading ×××", or "Impressions after reading ×××" and so on.

2. Choose what you feel most deeply to write about. This is the key to writing a good review.

After reading a book or an article, you may have many feelings. If you write down all your feelings in a comprehensive way, like opening a grocery store, you will have a little bit of everything and nothing at all. It is not deep enough, and the key parts just pass by like a dragonfly touching water, which will inevitably make the article dull and not profound. Therefore, before writing about your feelings, you should think carefully, analyze them, refine your feelings, and choose what you feel the most to write about. You can write by grasping the central idea of ??the original work, or you can write by grasping a plot, a character, or a flash of language in the article that you feel most deeply about. It is best to highlight one point, dig deeper, and write your true feelings. In short, The deeper the feeling, the more genuine the expression can be, and the more touching the article can be.

3. Close contact with reality is an important part of the review.

The focus of writing after reading should be to express your feelings in connection with the actual situation. The scope of what we mean by contacting reality is very broad. It can be related to personal reality or social reality. It can be historical lessons or the current situation. It can be childhood life or class or family situations, but the most important thing is No matter how the connection is made, it must highlight the spirit of the times and have a strong sense of the times.

Fourth, we must handle the relationship between "reading" and "feeling" well, and achieve the combination of discussion, narrative and lyricism.

Reflections after reading are highly argumentative reading notes that require personal experience, practical experience and vivid examples to illustrate the principles learned from "reading". Therefore, in the post-reading remarks, both "reading" and "feeling" must be written, and both narrative and reasoning must be written. Narration is the basis of argument, and argument is the deepening of narrative. The two must be combined.

The main feeling after reading is "feeling". It is necessary to quote the original text appropriately, of course not too many quotes, and it should be mainly in your own language. In terms of expression method, you can use a combination of narrative and discussion. The discussion should focus on analysis and reasoning, there should not be too many examples, and the original text should be quoted concisely. In terms of structure, the general prompts "reading" at the beginning, eliciting "feeling" from it, and after focusing on expressing feelings, the ending calls back to "reading".

5. Don’t narrate the original text too much, but reflect the word “simple”.

6. Review the topic clearly.

When writing, we must distinguish what is important and what is secondary, and strive to grasp the key points through "reading" and write out the experience through "feeling".

7. Choose materials.

Reading is the basis of writing. Only by reading carefully and carefully can we deeply understand the content of the article, grasp the key points and grasp the thoughts and feelings of the article, and then we can feel and understand; only by reading carefully can we find the meaning of the article. The connection point between the reading sense and reading sense is the central idea of ??the article, which is the sentence in the article that points out the central idea.

For a work, you should not cover everything when writing about your experience. You should write about your changes in thoughts and actions after reading it, and extract a certain point from it to make an article.

8. Write a reflection after reading. Start with an introduction to the content of the work you read, and then write about your experience.

The original content is often summarized in 3 to 4 sentences. At the end, most of the chapters return to the works they read. We should focus on the word "feeling" and remember to connect it with the reality of our own life.

9. Things to note when writing a review:

① Writing a review is by no means a transcription or a simple retelling of the original text. It cannot be arbitrarily separated from the original text. It should focus on writing "experiences" .

②Write with true feelings. It should be a feeling that comes from the deepest part of the heart, and is by no means a "letter of apology" or a "letter of guarantee."

③Write unique and fresh feelings, and strive to have new insights to attract or impress readers.

Ten. Pay attention to the appropriate details.