Four years ago, I was impressed by a movie "I may not love you". There will be no more beautiful love in the 199' s and all kinds of unrealistic youth idol love in the early 21st century. Instead, it will be closer to life and expose the contradictions and conflicts in reality. Every plot seems to be a real story that happens around us. Many conversations seem to be our daily language, and then those deep thoughts are triggered. In fact, you and I have had them.
If "I may not love you" is an encouragement and reference for girls entering the "early old age" stage, then "Tea" is more like its expansion and continuation, because it has a more complicated and full life background as the soil.
these four years, I happen to be in sync.
have you ever thought about plan a and plan b of your life?
Zheng Ruwei and Tang Youyan, a pair of young people in their prime of life, have love and dreams. They want to lead a slightly extraordinary life, earn more money, and successfully complete the life schedule step by step. They decided to go to Shanghai from Taipei for development together. Looking forward to a bright future, Tang's father was admitted to the hospital because of a car accident, and he had to be accompanied by a wheelchair in his later years. This sudden accident disrupted all plans. In order to take care of his parents, Youyan insisted on staying in Taipei, and whether Ruwei's hard-won overseas assignment in Shanghai was the most difficult choice at the moment.
Scheme A: Going to Shanghai for development and tripling her salary can stick to her career dream and give them more financial support in their future lives.
plan b: stay in Taipei to take care of Tang's father, sacrifice his job, and become the support and share of Hirohiko at this time, and live up to this feeling.
Ruwei said that she wanted to live both lives before making a choice, but that was wishful thinking, but she had a firm belief that no matter which scheme she chose, she must implement it well and never lose to the other. So, we saw Zheng Ruwei and Tang Youyan in different directions in the parallel world.
In Scheme A, Ruwei has developed very well in Shanghai. She is smart and diligent, and gradually becomes a strong woman. As the general manager said, she is the boss's wife. She wears famous brands that she bought with her own money, and she runs a high-end restaurant. Just as when I was in Taipei, I enviously saw the director of the company and excitedly described it to Youyan, saying that she wanted to be such a strong woman, and she did it. But in plan a, she lost tomohiko. Long-distance love is very hard. When two people are not together, there will always be things that the other party doesn't know, emotions that can't be observed, and those silent grievances and contributions. No matter how you keep in touch, there will be a time difference. All the moments that need to be accompanied can't be together. Can a hug from a distance really comfort you? You Yan has to make money to support his family while taking care of his father who is in bed. He has a hard life. The enthusiastic Miss Gao came into his world when he was most helpless and gave him a lot of help and comfort. For example, Wei also had a brief relationship with the general manager as a teacher and friend. In this scheme, she has never met the feelings like Heyan, and she often regrets someone who wants to accompany her to dinner every day. Later, I finally met a boy who probably loved her very much. In order to make her a bowl of shredded pork noodles with cabbage, she died in a car accident on the way to buy ingredients. Ruwei felt that God was punishing her because she chose the wrong one, but she took revenge on the boy. Did Plan A really lose?
in scheme b, ruwei gave up the opportunity to go to Shanghai and quit her job to take care of Tang's father. all the financial pressure is on you Yan, who has to work harder day and night. Ruwei, who was going to continue looking for a job after Tang's father was discharged from the hospital, got pregnant unexpectedly, and Youyan's sister moved back to her family from abroad because of divorce. So six people live in a three-bedroom apartment, which may be the darkest period in Ruwei's life. Living under the same roof for a long time, no one will always be "grateful" for Ruwei's original sacrifice and compromise. Cooking, washing clothes, picking up children and taking care of parents every day seem to have become Ruwei's job, while her mother-in-law will never treat her daughter-in-law like her own daughter. "Sacrifice is not necessarily a fulfillment". One day, Ruwei burst into tears and said that she regretted not going to Shanghai and that she was unwilling. At this time, Youyan is not without pressure. He wants to earn money to support a family of six. He also knows that he has always owed Ruwei. If Ruwei had been sent to Shanghai at that time, she would have been another world, so he would have burst into tears in the noisy decoration of the construction site, so he gave up his dream of being a designer and became a civil servant. But these are too insignificant moments in trivial life, and those encouragements, touches and warmth will really be spent in the simple life day after day. Ruwei is a typical person who doesn't complain, but it will still break out. In this scheme, both Tang Youyan and Zheng Ruwei are compromising, paying, and full of grievances ... At this moment, did Scheme B lose again?
Plan A and Plan B in life are always fighting, and most of the time they are lost to time and reality. Is there a right choice? How to choose, at different stages, will be entangled, there will be pain and joy. Fortunately, the endings are all good, a kind of hard-won perfection. Ruwei in Scheme A was rejected by Youyan, and the truth of that year untied the knot, and she also renewed her love affair with the general manager. In plan B, Ruwei sold the new house she just bought, or a family of six squeezed into a three-bedroom apartment, because she used the difference between selling the house to invest in Youyan's studio. Youyan returned to the profession of architect to fulfill her dream, and she also worked in her own studio with her sister-in-law. Although the days are still noisy, the difficulties are over, faithful wife. Oh, the name of that studio is "the best plan".
I especially like the scene where Ruwei describes the future life in Youyan's ear, the scene where Ruwei sees the future scenes in the new house, and the scene where Ruwei says, "We are together, we can't lose" ... That kind of positive warmth really warms my heart, which is especially beautiful.
when the flowers bloom, the flower season is over ...