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Famous saying: Be true to your words and resolute in your actions; keep your promises lightly but never trust them. It is found in the 6th grade Chinese textbook
There is no doubt that a white lie is itself a lie. Lies, lying is deception, deception is immoral, and immoral things are unpopular. These are all things that our teachers have taught us since childhood. But let’s ask ourselves, who hasn’t told lies? Whether it is for our relatives, friends, or strangers, there are many purposes, but when we add a "goodwill" to a lie, it seems that everyone may accept it. This is a concentrated expression of the weakness of human nature. Even if it is a white lie, as a lie itself, it is an act that is contrary to integrity. Therefore, regardless of whether the lie has a good purpose, as a lie itself, it will definitely hinder integrity. Let’s start with the analysis of the phrase structure of white lies. It is a biased phrase, and the central word is lie. Therefore, white lies are essentially lies. Although white lies are motivated by good intentions, because good intentions themselves have certain uncertainties, they are often exploited by some "professional liars" - this is an indisputable fact. "Lies" themselves are dark. The likes and dislikes of things cannot be measured by their purpose. White lies themselves are lies. Although he took off his beggar's clothes and put on a cheongsam, he still couldn't get rid of the essence of lies, and lies meant deception, thus hindering integrity. The starting point of a white lie is good, but often once such a lie is exposed, it will hurt the other party more deeply. As a lie itself, it is an act contrary to integrity. Where does the goodwill come from? ! That’s goodwill! Why lie? ! If a person loses his integrity, what he leaves behind is hypocrisy: if an enterprise loses its integrity, it will face bankruptcy; and if a nation loses its integrity, it will face corruption and death!
If you keep your word and integrity, you will have a pure land; if you keep your word and integrity, you will succeed; if you keep your word and integrity, the Chinese nation will be eternal.
Here I would like to ask the other classmate, when a person loses his integrity, does his starting point still have good intentions? "White lies are more of an excuse"!
Anyone who uses an excuse is trying to use it to protect themselves or others. Help us save face so we can endure setbacks.
Gaismer said: "It is quite common to think that you are better than you really are." The excuses people come up with are sometimes unexpected. Why do people deceive themselves and others? American humorist Lai Dele pointed out: "Most people do not live in reality, but live in fantasies, especially fantasies about themselves." Then again, it is sometimes difficult to understand the truth about yourself and your friends. It's very cruel, and it's best not to know about it.
However, most excuses are destructive. Using excuses unconsciously can fool yourself, if not others. So I ask the other party to realize, have more integrity and less excuses! At the same time, I would like to ask the other party, if everyone has this view, how can we build an honest society and how can our country develop greater integrity?
Dear friends on both sides, please note that from the time we were born to the time we were babbling, from kindergarten to elementary school, along the way, our elders have taught us that we must be honest in life. Have you heard of "Zeng Zi killed" Pig's story? One day, Zengzi and his wife went to do errands together, and the children were crying and clamoring to go. At this time, Zengzi's wife said: "Stop making trouble, I will kill a pig for you to eat when I come back." The children waited obediently. When they came back, Zengzi killed the pig, and his wife looked puzzled, thinking that Zengzi did not need to take her words seriously. Zengzi told her that if you want your children to be honest, your parents must also be trustworthy. So, how can lies appear in life? ”
Integrity is a virtue of the Chinese nation. Although there are also white lies, honesty must be the basis. Because panic is deception. Everyone is familiar with the allusion of "The Boy Who Cried Wolf"! In the story, that The child died because of lying, so lying will not end well." A wolf in sheep's clothing is still a wolf after all!
Hope to adopt it, it’s very difficult