So, active or not, it depends on the situation. If you are in a relationship, he hardly takes the initiative, or even thinks that he doesn't care, and he doesn't love you enough. If it is in the case of unrequited love, then his inactivity may be really deep love, and he will be a little worried. People who don't take the initiative to contact you, if they treat you like that, it means they love you forever.
0 1. When I see you, I will be very nervous. When I like a person, even if he doesn't say it, these feelings will mainly be expressed from other key points. For example, he will be nervous or even silent when he sees you, and he has no idea what to say. You know, he used to be easy-going. When I am with others, I can always hear his voice and cheerful laughter. How did he become a "dead brain" in front of your eyes? Even he can't let go.
In Mrs. Huzhu, Fang Zhuoying means that he likes Liu Zhe very much, but he can only watch her quietly on the roof and give her gifts, but he is afraid to meet her and tell him his own thoughts. Every time he goes to Aya, he always pretends that he wants to be on duty or pee. This excuse is just a cover-up. He is not ready to meet the girl, so he is thinking of running away.
But it cannot be said that Fang doesn't like girls. On the other hand, everyone saw his love for Liu Zhe, but he didn't know how to express it. As the saying goes, "The more you love someone, the more you dare not approach." What he is worried about is that the other person doesn't love himself. It is better to love her quietly, which may also be a kind of happiness.
02. Give your friends a circle of praises and comments. How can you love someone without showing any trace? Especially in this contemporary era, whether it is mobile phone WeChat or friends circle, it will definitely leave his shadow. If there is a "guest role" in the circle of friends, then he will be the first. Every time I miss you, he is afraid to contact you. He only dares to peek into your circle of friends. After reading it, he will give you favorable comments and continue to draw relevant comments. This kind of communication will also make him feel very sweet.
Maybe he is also using these methods to attract your attention. See if there is any feedback. He will turn a deaf ear to his comments and still concentrate on them. I hope this response will make him braver next time he leaves a message on the message board. If a person likes the comments of every circle of friends, even the first second you come out, it is not that he is idle, but that he has been caring about you in a special way.
As long as it is your business, he cares about everyone's limited time. He will give those hours to the most important people and leave them to his favorite things, even if he just plays games to relax, he will not put them on unimportant things. But he will always be an exception to you. Whether you have a problem and have to help or wait, just give him a call and he will agree immediately, even if he and more important things will be rejected.
What he did was really putting you in his heart. You are the most important. As long as it is your business, he is very concerned and looks forward to doing his best to help you, even without asking for anything in return. A person's concern is in his eyes. He didn't do this to anyone, but to someone he cared about.
Conclusion: In some cases, the person who doesn't take the initiative to contact you will always love you, which actually depends on his behavior towards you. If he simply doesn't want to take the initiative, then you can give up. Such people don't really love you. No matter how hard you try, it is basically not easy for him to contact you.
However, if he is afraid of being rejected by you, or has not enough courage to contact him for the time being, it means that he is really worried about you, so he is afraid and wants to be ready to contact you again. If you understand his mind, you might as well take the initiative to stand up and give him some responses. I believe he can feel it!