“Ten Don’ts” to quit Internet addiction

Tao Hongkai’s views on quitting Internet addiction: Ten don’ts. These views are mainly aimed at parents of children. They are:

1. Don’t despair. Believe that children's problems will be solved. This is the premise and foundation for solving children's problems. Never give up on your children. There is no such thing as bad education, only incorrect methods. Many times, children are innocent and the victims.

2. Don’t be superstitious. You can't just trust a certain person and not trust other volunteers or doubt volunteers. Eliminating children's Internet addiction requires the efforts of the whole society, including parents, teachers, volunteers and all socially responsible people of insight.

3. Don’t be eager for quick success and instant benefits. Demand immediate results and see your children free from Internet addiction. The solution to anything requires a process, not to mention that children's Internet addiction is the result of multiple factors.

4. Don’t treat children as adults. Children are children, and they will go through many twists and turns as they grow up, and Internet addiction is just one of them.

5. Don’t be a traditional parent who always gives orders. To be a modern parent who can communicate with your children, learn to be your child's friend. When your child encounters a problem, he will tell you.

6. Don’t spoil your children. Doting means loving too much and not letting the child worry about anything. No, the child must understand the responsibilities of being a human being early, that is, let him learn to worry about his own affairs and family affairs early.

7. Don’t discriminate against children. When a child makes a mistake or does something wrong, you should help the child analyze the reasons for the mistake. Never discriminate against the child or hurt the child's self-esteem. Children who make mistakes need more respect, rather than sarcasm or sarcasm, which is the stupidest thing to do.

8. Don’t make everything child-centered, and don’t make everything parent-centered. Principled things must be adhered to, such as morality, respect for elders, and kindness. These principled things in life must not be lost, even if the children are not happy, they must persist. Similarly, parents cannot be self-centered. For example, when they are busy at work or working overtime, they leave their children aside, or they always focus on their own affairs and think that their children's affairs are trivial and do not take them to heart. , In this way, the child will have problems sooner or later.

9. Don’t look at today’s children with old eyes. We must keep pace with the times. Times are different, and ideas and thoughts must change. Parents must actively learn new knowledge, new concepts, and new methods.

10. Don’t neglect your children’s computer and network education. Prevention is the best rescue measure. Don't wait until your child becomes addicted to the Internet before you think of ways to quit and rescue. Children must be educated in this area before they come into contact with the computer network, so that they can understand that the computer network, like a dictionary, is a tool for our study and work, not a toy. We must make good use of this latest and most advanced tool of mankind, and not just play with it as an advanced toy