Life will face all kinds of hardships and tests. Sweet and romantic things only account for a small part, and more are household chores such as daily necessities, and various contradictions and quarrels occur from time to time. Some couples can manage a good marriage. Although they will quarrel, they will never give up. They firmly believe that "a husband and wife will be grateful for one day", so that they can share weal and woe, which is what Li Zhi called close relatives.
People's personalities vary widely, and some couples can't make it to the end, or even "fly separately at the last moment of disaster." If they don't agree, they will go their separate ways. From then on, I became a stranger and vowed not to contact each other, even strangers. This is the rarest. Smooth sailing life almost does not exist, quarrels are inevitable, and it is normal for wives to complain to their parents. What should the father do if his daughter is bullied at her husband's house? The practice of ancient emperors is worth learning.
Tang Daizong Li Yu has 4 1 children, including 20 daughters. His favorite daughter belongs to Princess Shengping. According to historical records, the ceremony crowns the masters. Perhaps it is because of too much doting. Princess Shengping has a strong personality and is easy to lose her temper. At that time, Tang Daizong thought that her daughter was still young, and her temper was understandable. When she grew up, she would naturally change and did not need to be taught deliberately.
When Princess Shengping was fifteen years old, the emperor married her to Ai Guo, who was similar in age. This Ai Guo is not simple. She has a noble family and beautiful appearance. Her father is Guo Ziyi, a hero of the Tang Dynasty. Although this marriage belongs to the marriage between the royal family and ministers, the princess and Ai Guo have no love foundation, but no matter from what aspects, the country deserves the princess and tolerates her everywhere.
The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature Princess Shengping hasn't changed her old habits since she married the Guo family. She looks aloof all day and thinks that being the emperor's daughter is extremely noble. Everyone must pamper herself, including her elderly parents-in-law. According to the ancient filial piety, since the princess is married to Xu, she must honor her in-laws and do the minimum etiquette. Princess Shengping doesn't think so. Even her father-in-law Guo Ziyi sometimes bows to her.
Understanding and tolerance are mutual. Ai Guo is increasingly dissatisfied with his wife's behavior. He tried to talk to Princess Sheng many times, but his father dissuaded him. He has been patient for more than two years, and his anger has nowhere to vent. If he didn't care about the identity of the princess, it is estimated that Ai Guo would have divorced her. Later, it coincided with Guo Ziyi's birthday. Ai Guo said to the princess in a similar pleading way: "You give me face and send a gift to my father later to make his old man happy."
This request is not too much, but Princess Shengping directly refused, lying in bed fast asleep, and did not even attend the party. Ai Guo chose to submit to humiliation and greet the guests outside. I drank a lot of wine because I was in a bad mood. As the saying goes, wine scares people. Ai Guo is getting angrier and angrier. He ran to the princess's room and shouted, "I have put up with you for a long time." Isn't it because of your emperor's father? I'm not bragging. If it weren't for my father, how could you be in Li Tang? "
Princess Shengping was stunned. Xu dared to yell at her and even say such wild words. She left with the maid, ran to the palace crying and told her father that she had been wronged, and even exaggeratedly said that she had beaten her. Guo Ziyi is not idle. He beat up his son and personally took him into the palace to confess his sins, saying that his godson was incompetent and left it to the emperor.
Tang Daizong knew the princess's temper too well and thought that she was wrong first, instead of blaming Guo Xu's enthusiasm. She put their hands together and persuaded them to get back together. Besides, he comforted Guo Ziyi and said, "You are neither stupid nor deaf, but you can't be an old man. I hope Ai Qing will not take this matter to heart. " When dealing with the contradiction between the princess and Xu, I didn't favor my daughter, which is worth learning by modern people, don't you think?