Tao gives birth to one, gives birth to two, two gives birth to three, and three gives birth to all things.

So what is a workaround?

Only by being flexible can you adapt to the ever-changing world. If you just rush forward blindly, you will definitely be hit with a bloody head. It is better to learn to be flexible and turn, and the winding path can lead to the quiet place. If you go straight, you will definitely Fall off a cliff.

The application of theory and practice. At six o'clock in the evening, my son called to say that he had bought groceries.

Son: Mom, I went to buy groceries.

Me:Okay! What groceries you want to buy have already been written on the note for you, just follow it and buy it.

At eight o'clock in the evening, my son called again

Son: Mom, I have been shopping for two hours. I have gone to all the supermarkets, and they don't even have the ten yuan a piece you mentioned. The cheapest bottle of sesame oil costs fifteen yuan.

Me: I thought you had cooked all the food, but it turned out that you bought the food for two hours, so you can’t be flexible. After shopping in several supermarkets, if there is nothing for ten yuan, just buy the cheapest one. For sesame oil, it’s okay to buy one with a higher price than what mom said. You won’t suffer any loss if you compare with others.

Son: Okay, I understand, I’ll buy it right away! The cheapest one is also 15 yuan.

After returning home, I saw that my son had cooked rice and cut a potato into shreds.

Me: I praise Yao'er for having cooked the rice and cutting the potatoes. Sister, Yao Dad and our whole family, do you think frying one shredded potato is enough?

Son: I bought braised pork. I didn’t think of cutting a few more shredded potatoes. Then mommy, teach me how to do it now, okay?

Me: Now, blanch the skin of the tomatoes first. You can fry the eggs here. Dice the tomatoes and add a little ginger to make the soup. When they are almost done, put your fried eggs in. The pot is empty here. When you start frying the meat.

Son:Okay! I'll do it right away. Mom, can you help me pick vines?

Me: Yes! You have to be quick and cook the meat as soon as it changes color. You will have to return it to the pot later because it won't taste good if it's fried.

Son: My sister cut the ginger in the morning. Can I put the ginger in now?

Me: Put the oil first and then the ginger. Put it gently and don’t throw people away.

Son: But the oil splashed on my arm, so I ran away.

Me: There is water in the dish. Let’s dry it out in advance next time. Arrange vegetables from sides of pot.

Son: Now the stir-fried pork with ginger is ready. Let’s take a rest.

Me: It’s time to stir-fry rattan vegetables!

Son: Oh! I know to clean the pot, dry it, add oil and garlic and serve!

Me: What should I do after the vegetables are fried?

Son: Get the bowls and chopsticks and prepare to eat.

Me: Clean up the kitchen.

Son:Okay!

Me: Yao'er, we need to learn to be flexible when buying food and cooking. We need to learn to think, what should I do first and then what? If I can't do it this way, then I'll find another way or a different way, as long as I can buy food or cook something.

In fact, it extends to your study. It is the same in dealing with people and things. Don't be too stubborn and learn to be flexible. As long as you understand one of the modifications, you can understand everything after the modification.

Son: Got it!

Sir: Yao'er is already very good, and the food he cooks is delicious!

Me: Let’s eat! Yaoer should guard against arrogance and self-discipline, and learn to reflect and summarize!

Sir: You are right, but we eat without talking or sleeping. You are the only teacher in our family, so you still have to use your strengths.

Me: We don’t have time to chat. We can only exchange feelings during meals. Maybe we even went into the library!

Mr. Liang, are you finished with the exchange?

Me: No! Yao'er, we must be flexible as human beings and change according to people, times and places. If you don't know how to adapt, you will be "fixated" and "cut into the corners". It is not advisable to have a stubborn attitude when it is clear that something is not going to work, and you will run into trouble until you hit a wall at every turn. To learn to be flexible, you must carefully study the objective conditions, analyze the pros and cons, do it if you can, and don't do it if you can't.

That’s it! I'm the only one talking tonight!

To summarize: We should be our own masters, have a sunny mentality, learn to advance and retreat, know how to be flexible, and know how to delete, so that we will not take many detours and can walk well with ease and relief. Every step!