Who has no evil thoughts in his heart? Inexplicably, see who is not pleasing to the eye, and give birth to a little anger for no reason. Sometimes I understand that it is unreasonable, but I can't stop the rise of other ideas.
Many tragedies in the world are brewed from the smallest ideas at the very beginning.
Therefore, during the Three Kingdoms period, Liu Bei said a famous saying, don't do it with small goodness, don't do it with small evils.
But it's actually very difficult. When evil thoughts rise, the more you suppress and restrain them, the more you encourage them to grow. If you pay attention to "understanding ideas", then this idea will derive its own plot and make your heart feel very cool.
The danger of indulgence is probably that at the right time, your spirit will degenerate and evil thoughts will appear in reality.
The ancients said that people's hearts are in danger of mountains and rivers, which is what they mean. Because it is difficult, those who keep their true intentions and cut off evil thoughts are the real heroes.
For example, Cao, the glass king, is such a hero who is good at protecting.
As we all know, Cao was born in a family in bad karma, and forced to make a living, he went out to do business to support his family since he was a child. He said that he had been studying business with his father since he was 19 years old, and his father had been teaching him three principles of being a man:
1. You can control others, but you can control yourself;
2. Say good things in everything, clap more and give people confidence. This is a virtue;
3. Not taking a stand and not looking at things that are not pleasing to the eye are also the minimum qualities.
Regardless of the ancients, let's look at several contemporary entrepreneurs who have made great achievements, such as Ren, Ma Yun, Cao and others. Without exception, they all emphasize the importance of changing themselves.
At the age of 40, Ren realized the greatness of collectivism and began to understand the philosophy of gray scale, compromise and openness, thus starting to establish the great cause of Huawei.
Ma Yun also said, do what you like, manage your own people ... manage yourself, and the world will be fine.
Ten years ago, I was very concerned about the whole world. As a result, my life was very difficult. Five years ago, I was very concerned about the fate of China, and I had a hard time. Three years ago, I began to care only about the company, and my life began to get better. Now I only care about myself, getting better and better. So I said, take care of yourself, and everyone will do what they like, and the world will be better. "
As heroes think, so thought Bruce. "You can control yourself, but you can control others." It can be seen that Cao's father is also a wise man.
In the green rivers and lakes, there are often hidden dragons and crouching tigers, and many excellent people are unlucky and frustrated.
On the acquired influence on people, family comes first, so some people say that parents are the biggest feng shui for children.
Cao believes that the virtues of ancestors, whether the predecessors are officials, businessmen, students or doctors, will affect the careers of the younger generation.
This is very reasonable.
Parents' personality, habits, words and deeds have a subtle and far-reaching influence on their children's life path.
"Virtue" is called by Cao as one of the "three virtues" necessary for entrepreneurs.
In addition to "Yin De", there is also "Ye De". According to Cao, "Yeye" is what a person or a family has done before. For example, French grapes need hundreds of years of breeding, seed selection, improvement and precipitation to produce a small amount of high-quality red wine, and it takes a long time to be an enterprise. At the same time, entrepreneurs should have comprehensive qualities, learn to deal with various philosophical ideas and organize their application. 」
The third is "morality". "Any industry should be ethical, and entrepreneurs must conduct business ethics." "Business" and "Tao" are two words, that is, to abide by the law, pay taxes according to regulations, operate with integrity, and be kind to employees and all customers. 」
Cao said that a real entrepreneur should do three things: the country is strong because of you, the society is progressing because of you, and the people are rich because of you.
Glass-making is the top in the world, and its business covers the global market, which promotes the prosperity of the whole industrial chain. Cao, a first-class entrepreneur, deserves it.
There are two books to read in life, one is a book with words and the other is a book without words.
A book with words is easy to understand, but a book without words is hard to understand.
It is a good thing to say good things, applaud more and give people confidence. This is a book without words, and not expressing displeasure is the minimum accomplishment. It is also a book without words, and "you can manage yourself if you can't manage others" is even more a book without words.
Cao Wangde said that only when people have compassion can they really help others. A real entrepreneur must respect heaven and love others, and he will not commit dogma or public anger. This is the bottom line that must be adhered to.
Blessed are those who think of others. In fact, China people's personality cultivation is consistent, and Confucianism has a "16-character heart biography": the human heart is only in danger, the heart is only in micro, but only in essence, unique, let it be.
Taoism has the practice points of "Tao is born in quietness, virtue in modesty, joy in frugality and harmony", and Buddhism also has the instruction of "mind is free from obstacles, obstacles and fears, and stay away from inverted dreams".
These are "books with words", which are understandable and admirable to read, but what's the use when you are really in a state of ups and downs?
We should be impulsive, make mistakes, or really learn lessons before we can understand the taste and connotation.
And this is the "book without words".